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How will kids learn to communicate if their parents are constantly reading/texting?

Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:53 pm
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50681 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:53 pm
I'm driving back to DFW from Shreveport and stopped on the way. I'm sitting in a restaurant. Been here 20 minutes. At the same time a young woman of the fat variety has sat down with her three children, which I estimate to be 5, 6 and 7. She has non-stop texted and read texts, scoured the Internet and just completely ignored her children, who have been trying to talk to her, but she does not respond.

This is troubling. These are times to talk and impart wisdom to your kids and teach them how to communicate ideas or to teach them about anything. Old fashioned, I suppose. Even at this moment, I've got my head down, so guilty of being on this device, but I was at several dinners the last few days and the older adults like myself only chatted, no phones out. My wife would smack me if I were doing that during meals.

Perhaps humans will develop and evolve into creatures with hands that grip the phone better and long, curved necks that don't get sore and stiff from constantly looking down and another set of eyes to watch where we're going, too.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
56153 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:55 pm to
I don't care if other parents raise kind to be stupid.

I care about my own.
Posted by profdillweed
Gulf of America
Member since Apr 2025
2190 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:56 pm to
Maybe she was catching up on some work or personal business.

You should worry about about yourself and not worrying about minor children
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88551 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:56 pm to
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I don't care if other parents raise kind to be stupid.


uh huh
Posted by LSUnation78
Northshore
Member since Aug 2012
13942 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:56 pm to
We have designated no device time. If they are worn out from playing outside during that time, we will sometimes do movies together, but mom and dad leave their phones in drawers as well.

You absolutely have to be mindful of ensuring lots of communication with the young kids.
Posted by profdillweed
Gulf of America
Member since Apr 2025
2190 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 2:57 pm to
Would you rather her text and drive with 3 young children or wait until she got to a restaurant to send the messages?

You have no idea what or who she was texting
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
12156 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:01 pm to
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I don't care if other parents raise kind to be stupid.

I care about my own.
Yours will have to procreate with someone (not a dog)
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
90923 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:04 pm to
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I don't care if other parents raise kind to be stupid.
they might grow up one day to post pics of themselves in a bathtub to thousands of forum vistors.
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
15168 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:05 pm to
I am sure you are a real winner
Posted by caill430
Da Dirty Dell
Member since Jul 2005
1308 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:08 pm to
Wife(no pics) is sitting by pool on vacation and reading a book. Kids pack a book rather than socks on a beach trip.
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
1424 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:15 pm to
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She has non-stop texted and read texts, scoured the Internet and just completely ignored her children, who have been trying to talk to her, but she does not respond


That is just the moments that you saw in a restaurant. She probably works full time job, would say has workout regimen (sounds like not the case here!), date night with hubby, is as attentive to the kids at their events (baseball games, etc)…

Parenting quality is heart of this country. Lost it years ago when this Mama’s Mama (& Daddy) decided vacations and cars were more important than making their children feel loved and listened to more than anything else.

Just think, and these are the 2-parent households nowadays.
Posted by whoa
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2017
5778 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:37 pm to
They don’t. Kids are starting Kindergarten so far behind because parents simply don’t speak, read or interact with their kids anymore. Just sit them in front of screens.

I noticed this with my young nephew and other friends young kids recently.

Meanwhile, 10 years ago my kid was speaking in full, coherent sentences at their age. It’s truly a night and day difference. I blame the screens.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17439 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:49 pm to
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Wife(no pics) is sitting by pool on vacation and reading a book. Kids pack a book rather than socks on a beach trip.

What if they were reading a book on a device?! The horror.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
147849 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:52 pm to
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You have no idea what or who she was texting
she may have been sending nudes mp M08 for all we know
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
32581 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 3:53 pm to
Because some people just weren’t meant to breed much less be a parent to the kids they squeeze out of that floppy vagina.

We have a nonnegotiable rule with our kids, the moment we walk into any restaurant all phones get turned off, including ours.

Posted by duckblind56
South of Ellick
Member since Sep 2023
4257 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 6:11 pm to
Probably about 90% are doing it via texting with their sorry parents or posting something on a SM platform for the same sorry parent to stumble up on or be told by a friend or relative.

"Hey John, have you seen what my sweet niece Julie posted on IG .... aaahhh, not really my business but you may want to speak with her about it"
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
6092 posts
Posted on 8/6/25 at 6:23 pm to
Some parents are lazy.

The world needs them to raise ditch diggers and garbage men. Don’t complain.
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