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re: How to deal with a bossy wife?

Posted on 6/29/21 at 7:43 pm to
Posted by CBandits82
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Member since May 2012
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 7:43 pm to
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She wasn’t like this before we got married.




Get ready
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70464 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 7:46 pm to
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As a woman, I will never understand women or anyone who tries to tell another adult what to do or how to live.


Do you live with a man? If two adults are living together, especially if they’re sharing a kitchen and bathroom, they’re going to have expectations for how one another maintain the home and split the chores. That’s a natural part of life.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:01 pm to
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How do men live any other way? Also why do some posters say they’d put up with more bs simply if she is hott?


Many men on this message board are in relationships in which both parties settled. The woman is unhappy with her selection and the man is unhappy that he isn't getting guaranteed sex for the rest of his life. And many of those same men get pissy, because they feel they have a right to sex because they make the money. The sad news is that nobody, not even their wife, owes them intimacy in any regard.

Many men can't handle this truth. There was a large group of them in that other thread that couldn't understand why some people don't have a group of friends. They are scared of having to navigate the world by themselves.

They can't stand the thought of being alone so they got involved in a relationship in which both parties didn't want to commit long term. As a result, the man thinks nagging is normal and the wife thinks an alcoholic hot headed husband is something you just have to deal with. In these scenarios even counseling couldn't save the marriage, because the marriage is rooted in fear and there is a lack of respect between spouses. The lack of respect is insanely evident when the man gets a chance to talk to his friends (or anonymously) and espouses that women are all emotional or women are all bitches. In reality, he thinks this because the women he runs across don't respect him, including his wife.
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:05 pm to
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Many men on this message board are in relationships in which both parties settled. The woman is unhappy with her selection and the man is unhappy that he isn't getting guaranteed sex for the rest of his life. And many of those same men get pissy, because they feel they have a right to sex because they make the money. The sad news is that nobody, not even their wife, owes them intimacy in any regard. Many men can't handle this truth. There was a large group of them in that other thread that couldn't understand why some people don't have a group of friends. They are scared of having to navigate the world by themselves. They can't stand the thought of being alone so they got involved in a relationship in which both parties didn't want to commit long term. As a result, the man thinks nagging is normal and the wife thinks an alcoholic hot headed husband is something you just have to deal with. In these scenarios even counseling couldn't save the marriage, because the marriage is rooted in fear and there is a lack of respect between spouses. The lack of respect is insanely evident when the man gets a chance to talk to his friends (or anonymously) and espouses that women are all emotional or women are all bitches. In reality, he thinks this because the women he runs across don't respect him, including his wife.


While you do make some decent points, armchair psychology isn’t your strongsuit. Keep your day job, and try not to give people advice based on assumed facts.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:09 pm to
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While you do make some decent points, armchair psychology isn’t your strongsuit. Keep your day job, and try not to give people advice based on assumed facts.


I'm not assuming anything. But okey dokey.
Posted by Ronaldo Burgundiaz
NWA
Member since Jan 2012
6793 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:11 pm to
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How to deal with a bossy wife?


Posted by SaintsTiger
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Member since Oct 2014
2105 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:18 pm to
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I'm not assuming anything. But okey dokey.


Maybe reread your post? That might help.
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:41 pm to
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Many men on this message board are in relationships in which both parties settled. The woman is unhappy with her selection and the man is unhappy that he isn't getting guaranteed sex for the rest of his life. And many of those same men get pissy, because they feel they have a right to sex because they make the money. The sad news is that nobody, not even their wife, owes them intimacy in any regard.

Many men can't handle this truth. There was a large group of them in that other thread that couldn't understand why some people don't have a group of friends. They are scared of having to navigate the world by themselves.

They can't stand the thought of being alone so they got involved in a relationship in which both parties didn't want to commit long term. As a result, the man thinks nagging is normal and the wife thinks an alcoholic hot headed husband is something you just have to deal with. In these scenarios even counseling couldn't save the marriage, because the marriage is rooted in fear and there is a lack of respect between spouses. The lack of respect is insanely evident when the man gets a chance to talk to his friends (or anonymously) and espouses that women are all emotional or women are all bitches. In reality, he thinks this because the women he runs across don't respect him, including his wife


I've got a few kernels in my shite from time to time as well
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50981 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 8:44 pm to
Just do what she asks the first time so she doesn’t have to “boss” you around.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
10042 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:05 pm to
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Maybe reread your post? That might help.


Oh you've misunderstood. I wasn't arguing. I was telling.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
23171 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:29 pm to
My mom's uncle had that problem. He went fishing a lot.
Posted by BayouBengalRubicon
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2019
534 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:50 pm to
women have been gaslighted into narcissistic emotional retards by social media and Hollywood. Since we can't beat them anymore, start therapy.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
45554 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:52 pm to
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How to deal with a bossy wife?


Get a puppy and a divorce lawyer.
Posted by TooFyeToFly
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2012
2296 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:53 pm to
You need to let her know that this shite won't be tolerated anymore. Tell her if she wants respect she must first respect you.
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Member since Oct 2014
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 9:57 pm to
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Oh you've misunderstood. I wasn't arguing. I was telling.


You must’ve cheated your way through high school.

And now your the opinionated type who goes around being righteous without knowing any better.
Posted by Woolfpack
Member since Jun 2021
1728 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 10:06 pm to
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This post was edited on 3/17/24 at 10:32 am
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122154 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 10:07 pm to
I'll tell her to stop fricking with you.
Posted by JackHuntQB
Shreveport
Member since Oct 2013
507 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 10:14 pm to
How to deal with a bossy wife?

Tell her she needs more protein in her diet. Then tell her the highest volume of protein is sperm then pull out cock and tell her to suck and swallow.
This post was edited on 6/29/21 at 10:15 pm
Posted by tommy2tone1999
St. George, LA
Member since Sep 2008
7795 posts
Posted on 6/30/21 at 12:07 am to
Just say NO, then tell her that she’s over reacting and to calm down. Get the popcorn ready and watch the fireworks.
Posted by obdobd918
Member since Jun 2020
3228 posts
Posted on 6/30/21 at 12:26 am to
90% of wives are bossy. They do not understand biblically, the man is the head of the house hold. To live Biblically, women must understand this fact. Their voice should be heard, but when disagreements occur, the one person must have the final say, and the Bible says it is the head of the household.
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