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Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:44 pm to Uga Alum
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Haven’t you all said that she can do whatever whenever? As long as he’s dead she’s not cheating, right?
Why are you avoiding my questions? Was he sick or was it sudden? Are their children adults?
What’s your skin the game here to be so concerned about your wife’s relative?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:45 pm to BluegrassBelle
Why have you commented like a dozen times in this thread? Does this hit close to home for you?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:48 pm to Uga Alum
quote:The way you phrased this seems more disrespectful than the woman who waited 6 months to date. Seems you are projecting your rather superficial attitudes about dating and hooking up willy nilly on to her. You know you would whorishly bang away once you probation is up, so she must be thinking the same way. What if hers is a legit search for something more real?
I would wait a year to hit the punani if my wife died. It’s only 12 months.
This post was edited on 3/26/26 at 7:49 pm
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:49 pm to Uga Alum
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Why have you commented like a dozen times in this thread? Does this hit close to home for you?
Why does it have to hit close to home for me to call you out on your idiocy?
I’m going to take you avoiding my questions as the admission that her spouse was likely sick and she likely began grieving him before he physically died.
Which makes you an even bigger twat than I thought.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:49 pm to Uga Alum
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Does this hit close to home for you?
Why don't you just answer the question? Just to piss you off, I'm going to be here all night, pointing out how much you need therapy to deal with problems that are not yours.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:53 pm to Uga Alum
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Couldn’t disagree more. It’s disrespectful to the deceased to immediately get back out there.
I also believe it's quite dangerous for a widowed spouse personally. There's a lot of things to work through and until you've done that, you're vulnerable to making bad decisions.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:54 pm to BluegrassBelle
I’m an idiot now? You sound a lot more angry than I do.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:54 pm to Uga Alum
I thought my mom remarried too soon after my dad died but I was a teenager. Now, I imagine it would get pretty lonely after spending a good chunk of your life with another person. Do whatever makes you happy.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:55 pm to Uga Alum
Everyone grieves differently,
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:56 pm to Uga Alum
My mom started dating about 3 months after my dad passed away. My dad had been sick and he started to get really sick about 3 years before he passed away, but even before that it was a rollercoaster ride.
It was weird for me, I still lived at home. I was in college and was doing my own thing, but she was outgoing and loved to dance so I knew she wasn't just going to stay home and be depressed. Him and I clashed mainly because after a few weeks he told my mom I didn't make him feel welcomed because I didn't give him a proper greeting when he came over. She mentioned to me to greet him when he came over because he didn't feel welcomed and I told her "He can solve that by not coming over" and that started a war.
I never not greeted him on purpose. If I was home when he came over, I was doing my own thing and I was just off in my own world, but it all depends on the person and its really not anyone else's business.
It was weird for me, I still lived at home. I was in college and was doing my own thing, but she was outgoing and loved to dance so I knew she wasn't just going to stay home and be depressed. Him and I clashed mainly because after a few weeks he told my mom I didn't make him feel welcomed because I didn't give him a proper greeting when he came over. She mentioned to me to greet him when he came over because he didn't feel welcomed and I told her "He can solve that by not coming over" and that started a war.
I never not greeted him on purpose. If I was home when he came over, I was doing my own thing and I was just off in my own world, but it all depends on the person and its really not anyone else's business.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:57 pm to Uga Alum
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I’m an idiot now? You sound a lot more angry than I do.
Well. Yeah. I’d go even further to say you’re incredibly immature.
If you were legitimately concerned that she might be taken advantage of as a widow that’s one thing. But it’s clear here you’re not, you thought you’d get a win here by calling her a whore (not realizing there’s a fair amount of posters here that aren’t far from her age or situation), and my guess is you’re too self-centered to see beyond yourself to understand why most folks here are telling you to just leave the poor woman be.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:57 pm to Uga Alum
quote:To a degree. And "hit" it. It suggests a shallow, puerile attitude towards dating. That's fine for you, but you don't know if that's her attitude.
Because I said punani?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:58 pm to OweO
The guy insisted that you greet him? That’s pretty feminine. I wouldn’t have cared.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:00 pm to Uga Alum
So if your spouse dies, you deserve to be alone.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:02 pm to BluegrassBelle
I thought that I’d get a “win?” Where is the scoreboard? What would I win exactly? You keep with the ad hominem attacks and I haven’t called you any names.
Why do you care so much if I refer to this woman that you don’t even know as a whore? Is there a personal experience there that brings you pain? Are you a huge feminist and I have triggered you?
Why do you care so much if I refer to this woman that you don’t even know as a whore? Is there a personal experience there that brings you pain? Are you a huge feminist and I have triggered you?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:04 pm to Uga Alum
Respectfully, if Bluegrass Belle is female, you owe her an apology. Simply offering a differing opinion from yours does not make someone a whore.
More broadly, who are you, the morals police? Chill out.
More broadly, who are you, the morals police? Chill out.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:05 pm to Uga Alum
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Why do you care so much if I refer to this woman that you don’t even know as a whore? Is there a personal experience there that brings you pain? Are you a huge feminist and I have triggered you?
Why do you care if she’s dating as a single woman? We can go both ways with this. She’s not your Mom. You’re not even her blood kin. Why does it matter to you? Why does that make her a whore?
I don’t have to be a feminist to call out someone being a selfish a-hole over a woman who took care of her sick husband of 30 years and moving on at a pace that she feels is appropriate.
This post was edited on 3/26/26 at 8:07 pm
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