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re: How much time did you get/take off when your first child was born?

Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:01 am to
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:01 am to
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So we have our first little GEAUXT coming in August. I'll probably be able to take a day for when she's born and then back to work the next day. Wife is taking 8 weeks, but only part of that is paid.



Maternity and Paternity leave I this county is arse backwards.

After you have a kid you need a week or two to help your wife and kid and just be at home learning to be parents. I got 4 days off and my company threatened to fire me. The first month was brutal.

People who believe otherwise don't have kids.
This post was edited on 6/19/17 at 11:02 am
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
23366 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:01 am to
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FMLA should be eliminated.


Why? It doesn't require any payment or subsidy. Just the obligation to not terminate.

And it's not even a requirement for small business.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32441 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:03 am to
I had my wife induced on a Saturday so I wouldn't miss work. She still gives me shite to this day because of it.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
22345 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:03 am to
First kid I took 2.5 days plus the whole next week. Second kid I took 4 days.
Posted by russpot
alexandria
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:04 am to
3 minutes
Posted by BOSCEAUX
Where the Down Boys go.
Member since Mar 2008
53021 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:04 am to
3 days of paid leave.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19185 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:05 am to
i week
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18342 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:06 am to
I think I took a couple days IIRC. MIL came and stayed a couple weeks to take care of the kid and my wife so the man of the house could get out and win the bread like he's supposed to do.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:07 am to
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MIL came and stayed a couple weeks


frick that.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
36663 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:07 am to
I took a week with the first.

I was switching jobs with the twins but had been saving vacation time. I was able to cash out the vacation time and my new job gave me 2 weeks paid before I even started. The twins were born on my official start date.
Posted by Bossier2323
Bossier CIty
Member since Sep 2014
1918 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:11 am to
My wife had to go back to work the day after she was released from the hospital.

My tool pusher boss wouldn't let me miss my 3 week hitch, so I worked during the birth.

Thank god my great grandmother is retired and could watch the baby during my wife's 12 hour shift
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76781 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:13 am to
had to use a week of vacation time
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
8044 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:13 am to
I took a week. My wife is taking 8 weeks. I have a German coworker who said back home the men get like 6 months or something ridiculous. She said the women get two years off if they want but most only take a year.
Posted by AnonymousTiger
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2012
4863 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:18 am to
I've taken a couple of months off for each child. Bonding with my child is more important to me than any job or amount of money.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18342 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:23 am to
quote:

MIL came and stayed a couple weeks


quote:

frick that.


I know it sounds bad, but she cooked, cleaned, and waited on me hand & foot. It really wasn't bad at all.

Posted by Hacker
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2009
3251 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:24 am to
I took off while wife and child were still in hospital. Once back home, i was back at work.
Posted by SetTheMood
The Red Stick
Member since Jul 2012
3182 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:28 am to
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12 months with FMLA


WAT.

ETA: 3 days. Son born Wednesday afternoon. Was back at work following Monday. Wife gives me shite about it every now and then, and she's pregnant with our second now. Will likely have to take more time off for this little bastard.
This post was edited on 6/19/17 at 11:31 am
Posted by stewie
Member since Jan 2006
4032 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:32 am to
For first and second child, had two weeks vacation but only used 5 days for each.

I wanted to save a little vacation time in case something popped up.

My wife has 6.5 weeks paid and then some more unpaid leave but she refuses to take that...she didn't want to take the full 6.5 maternity.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:33 am to
3 days total. Day of birth and 2 days after.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62218 posts
Posted on 6/19/17 at 11:37 am to
I was back in the fields chopping cotton 20 minutes after the first one was born.
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