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re: How many of you “barfly” it up?
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:44 pm to tgrbaitn08
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:44 pm to tgrbaitn08
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go to the bar alone...to be alone. Why is that hard to understand....
Possibly.
How do you handle wanting to be alone but then getting chatty as things progress? For me that is usually between a second and third pint.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:44 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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Meaning you drink alone and give zero fricks at a watering hole?
You betcha
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If you do, what age did you give your last frick and start?
When I left the Navy and became a 25 year old college freshman living in the dorms. Back then I did it almost out of necessity, now I do it because I enjoy it every so often.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:44 pm to High C
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If I'm going to drink alone, I just do it at home.
This
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:46 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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Meaning you drink alone and give zero fricks at a watering hole? If you do, what age did you give your last frick and start?
I've been doing it since 23 or 24.
It's the best of both worlds, in the right bar. If you want to be left the frick alone to drink and reflect, you can do it. If you want to be social and talk with randos, you can do it.
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How do you handle wanting to be alone but then getting chatty as things progress? For me that is usually between a second and third pint.
Are you asking how to end a conversation?
This post was edited on 9/6/18 at 1:47 pm
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:46 pm to LSU alum wannabe
I do this occasionally (last night, actually), but not often since I can't really afford to do so more than every once in a while.
When I did so more frequently, I found that it didn't take long to really get to know the other regulars and make some good friends. It's only really drinking "alone" for a short time.
When I did so more frequently, I found that it didn't take long to really get to know the other regulars and make some good friends. It's only really drinking "alone" for a short time.
This post was edited on 9/6/18 at 1:47 pm
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:46 pm to LSU alum wannabe
Is traveling for work alone included in this?
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:47 pm to LSU alum wannabe
What? You mean have drinks at a bar and just hang out and meet people? All the time
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:47 pm to LSU alum wannabe
Only if there's this one smoke show bartender, legit OT9+, otherwise I always barfly it up with friends.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:47 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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How do you handle wanting to be alone but then getting chatty as things progress? For me that is usually between a second and third pint.
If there is someone that wants to chat and they arent a complete retard or piece of shite I'll chat them up....otherwise I'll just ignore them or leave
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:48 pm to tgrbaitn08
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If I dont want to talk then I'll go to a bar where no one knows my name.
There are no strangers. Only assholes you haven't met yet.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:48 pm to High C
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If I'm going to drink alone, I just do it at home.
Or looking at it the other way, if all you're going to do is sit at a booth and talk to the 4 people you came there with, you can do that at home too!
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:48 pm to HempHead
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you asking how to end a conversation?
No. You walk in wanting alone time, but as you drink you get chatty. At least I do.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:49 pm to LSU alum wannabe
I do sometimes. Just like meeting and talking to new people. If I'm out with others, I have to make it a point to include them in conversations, and I don't feel like it.
I'm 34, and have been doing it since all of my buds got married and had kids
I'm 34, and have been doing it since all of my buds got married and had kids
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:49 pm to LSU alum wannabe
i've done this from time to time.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:50 pm to High C
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If I'm going to drink alone, I just do it at home.
Drinking at home alone can get old....
Sometimes drinking at home and it's just you and your wife and kids......
I'd rather drink alone at the bar
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:50 pm to kingbob
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can't really afford to do so more than every once in a while.
You a working musician, Bob?
You’ve mentioned $$$ before. Regarding musical instruments.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:51 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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No. You walk in wanting alone time, but as you drink you get chatty. At least I do.
Oh, I gotcha.
Well, do whatever strikes you. You're allowed to change your level of social engagement.
For me, if I'm alone, I just sit at the bar and blast cigs looking at my phone/the TV for the first two or three beers, and then end up needing someone to chat up.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:52 pm to Gaston
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nly if there's this one smoke show bartender, legit OT9+, otherwise I always barfly it up with friends.
Those are all gone out here I am afraid.
Posted on 9/6/18 at 1:54 pm to HempHead
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For me, if I'm alone, I just sit at the bar and blast cigs looking at my phone/the TV for the first two or three beers, and then end up needing someone to chat up.
Yeah, I dont smoke and the bars I go to are non smoking....but it usually ends up after a few beers and if we're watching a game or highlights, short comments and conversations of whats on the TV will spark up......
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