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re: How long do you stay in a 2nd marriage if it’s miserable?

Posted on 1/5/19 at 4:39 pm to
Posted by bakersman
Grant parish
Member since Apr 2011
5708 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 4:39 pm to
My brother was miserable with his first wife and got a divorce. Then he was happy. They got remarried a couple years ago and he’s back to being miserable. I don’t understand it
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76275 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 4:46 pm to
He should keep his oath to stay with her until death. He broke that oath the first time so this is his chance for redemption.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8132 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 5:06 pm to
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He doesn’t want to be divorced twice though.

I have a friend who is on wife #5. He’s a great guy in a well-paid profession, no substance abuse or mental issues, never had trouble attracting women. Just always falls for the wrong ones.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58122 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 5:08 pm to
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Just always falls for the wrong ones.


Or maybe he's the one with the problem.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 5:11 pm to
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Just always falls for the wrong ones.



Hmmmm 5?


Someone’s an a-hole.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8132 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 5:14 pm to
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Or maybe he's the one with the problem.

I’m sure there is some self-improvement that needs to occur on his part. It goes without saying when you go thru brides like an axe thru whipped cream that something isn’t quite right. But you would just have to know the situation and some of the women he has married. He did not choose well.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:12 pm to
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Someone’s an a-hole.


And it’s not necessarily him
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:17 pm to
With 5 different women?
Posted by KirkLazarus
Member since Aug 2017
3574 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:17 pm to
Is she hot though? sounds like a cheater
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18146 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:19 pm to
If you’ve been married to someone for 5 years and you’re absolutely miserable and have no kids, then just end it already. If you have kids you owe to them to at least TRY and work it out.

I feel that way for every marriage, 1st, 2nd, or 10th

If someone has a rough year in a 5 year period but every other year is pretty good then that could be due to outside reasons such as work or other issues. But if they’ve been miserable or getting progressively more miserable then they need to just cut ties.
Posted by Teton Tiger
Somewhere between here and there.
Member since Mar 2005
2994 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:19 pm to
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pretty sure she is bi polar.
Get her oh meds. And work thru it. If no meds close the chapter and move on.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:23 pm to
If a woman has been married multiple times, would you say that she’s an a-hole? Maybe he has this pattern of falling for woman who are controlling, mean as hell or abusive...both physically and mentally.
This post was edited on 1/5/19 at 7:25 pm
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:24 pm to
I’m still going with blamimg him
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58122 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:26 pm to
Yes woman can be assholes too. Someone who fails five times has problems of some kind
How many times have you been divorced?
This post was edited on 1/5/19 at 7:29 pm
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:26 pm to
Why am I not surprised?
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:28 pm to
I’m actually surprised you even engaged me with this .


Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:33 pm to
I have been divorced more than once which is not anything I’m proud of. I’m not going to put all the blame of things not working on them because I contributed as well.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:34 pm to
Why are you surprised? Just curious
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:36 pm to
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Why are you surprised? Just curious



It’s obvious I’m a woman and we’re notoriously hardheaded.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
2499 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 7:42 pm to
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It’s obvious I’m a woman and we’re notoriously hardheaded.


Unlike what the rest of what the OT thinks, I personally don’t believe that is true.
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