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Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:28 pm to fareplay
Dude if you're living in San Mateo paying $2,700 you're not in that bad of shape. Buying a house on the peninsula is impossible unless you have tech money or something. Especially in San Mateo, you're competing against all those high earners in Silicon Valley. Why not move across the SM bridge and commute everyday?
Buying a house in a decent part of the Bay Area is tough for middle income earners that aren't born & raised here. I live in Berkeley and a decent single family house--say 3BR/2BA on a very small lot--runs $1M+. When people our age are ready to buy, they either move to a different city (outside the Bay Area--like the wave of family-starting aged people moving to Sacramento right now), or you move to the suburbs like Brentwood
Buying a house in a decent part of the Bay Area is tough for middle income earners that aren't born & raised here. I live in Berkeley and a decent single family house--say 3BR/2BA on a very small lot--runs $1M+. When people our age are ready to buy, they either move to a different city (outside the Bay Area--like the wave of family-starting aged people moving to Sacramento right now), or you move to the suburbs like Brentwood
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:31 pm to fareplay
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My wife makes 110k and I make little over 90.
rent 2700
two cars 1100
student loans 600
food misc 2000?
I don’t think eating out is your only issue. You’re hemorrhaging thousands of dollars each month and my guess is you’re not quite sure where it’s all going.
You need a budget. A tight one that accounts for every dollar you spend. You should be able to save something grossing $200K/year, even in San Francisco.
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 12:32 pm
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:34 pm to fareplay
About 5-6 years. It wasn't easy affording a house in the Carter years. If Reagan hadn't been elected I don't know how long it would have taken
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 12:35 pm
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:34 pm to LSUSPARKY621
Reason we havent moved east is because my wife works in MV and I work in SF. if we moved it would be at least 3 hour commute daily
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:49 pm to fareplay
Yeah I hear you. Basically the only way I can see buying a house in your area is if you come in to a bunch of cash. Save what you can now because every little bit helps, but you can really make up some ground if you have options, etc. in your company and they do well (or you change jobs to a start up and it takes off)--something crazy like that. At least that's the only way I can figure that people our age can afford to buy in that area. But then it comes to asking yourself if you really want to invest all your money in a house in that area--so many other investment vehicles to consider. All case and point as to why people are saying frick it and moving elsewhere
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:53 pm to Brageous
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With 11,700 monthly NET take home, you have 5300 a month left over including that high food misc amount. Correct my math if I'm way off base anyone. I'm just curious where this money could possibly be going. May be time to get a financial adviser...
He adjusted his food spending to $3000/month, but even accounting for that, we're still talking over $4000/month left.
OP, priority #1 - as other people have alluded to - is that ya'll need to completely re-evaluate your living/spending habits.
You said this on page 1:
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Well only thing extravagant we do is food.
I'm not sure I believe you, but my best guess is that either you and/or the missus have a serious shopping habit.
There's a lot of shite out there that people buy which wouldn't register on anybody's radar as "extravagant" but still a big friggin waste of money (*cough* yeti coolers *cough*)
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 12:54 pm
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:56 pm to fareplay
interned every summer and my last spring semester, lived in an apartment with a roommate for a year after i graduated then made a 10% down payment on 232k at 24
Posted on 4/10/18 at 12:58 pm to fareplay
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Don’t even have a tv baw
i have like 7 man.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 1:05 pm to fareplay
Bought my first house a couple of years before the recessions back then lenders were writing mortgages blind.
It was the peak of the go go aughts.
It was the peak of the go go aughts.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 1:09 pm to fareplay
Given the numbers, I think you should be able to save around to 60k a year. You should be fine in a few years. Again meet with a financial advisor. They will help clarify things tremendously.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 1:13 pm to fareplay
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We may 2700$ a month.
Combined? I don't know if I'd be worrying about buying a house right now..
EDIT- Ohhhh, that what you pay in rent. Wow, I thought you meant that was y'alls combined income.
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 1:14 pm
Posted on 4/10/18 at 2:18 pm to fareplay
built my first house at age 24-
worked hard as a teenager and all the way through college
Saved like crazy- but was not starving
It is about priorities
worked hard as a teenager and all the way through college
Saved like crazy- but was not starving
It is about priorities
Posted on 4/10/18 at 2:27 pm to 756
I have 45k saved and my gf has a little over 30k. Age 28 been working for 3 years
Posted on 4/10/18 at 2:28 pm to fareplay
I've lived in several different places in the U.S. I now live in the midwest where home prices are vastly more affordable overall than say DC or NYC where we looked before.
We have never bought a home because we just never had the 20% and it's kept us from buying. We never applied or knew what we needed.
We couldn't figure out where people are getting the 20% on $850,000 homes. Spoiler alert: They aren't.
We will likely buy a $250,000-300,000 in suburb St. Louis in next two years and we are starting to save...married for 2 months now.
We are going to try and pay off all residual debt and save a solid $50-75K. Then hope for the best.
People say you can get a house with like 5% but that interest rate and PMI is not something I'm interesting in taking on.
Owning a home and creating value (improvement) takes money and it will be vastly more money than we pay in rent for 1400 sqft condo right now...$1200
We have never bought a home because we just never had the 20% and it's kept us from buying. We never applied or knew what we needed.
We couldn't figure out where people are getting the 20% on $850,000 homes. Spoiler alert: They aren't.
We will likely buy a $250,000-300,000 in suburb St. Louis in next two years and we are starting to save...married for 2 months now.
We are going to try and pay off all residual debt and save a solid $50-75K. Then hope for the best.
People say you can get a house with like 5% but that interest rate and PMI is not something I'm interesting in taking on.
Owning a home and creating value (improvement) takes money and it will be vastly more money than we pay in rent for 1400 sqft condo right now...$1200
Posted on 4/10/18 at 2:28 pm to StupidBinder
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My wife makes 110k and I make little over 90.
And they say there is a gender pay gap favoring men. Unless his wife is actually a dude.
Posted on 4/10/18 at 2:57 pm to Areddishfish
My wife works in medical so they get $
Posted on 4/10/18 at 3:30 pm to Pecker
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I think we put down like $2000 or something. Our credit scores and combined income were such that we weren't asked for a legit down payment.
You are buying a product when you buy a loan. You control the conversation, not them. Not being asked to do something and assuming you are all good is no way to go about making such a large financial decision
Posted on 4/10/18 at 3:43 pm to fareplay
My junior year in college. Saved up for two years and bought a shotgun in the garden district of BR. (My mom had rented my whole life, so I was definitely not interested in that). Bought another house when I got married a few years later and rented the other one to college students until it become too much of a pain in the arse. Sold it for a nice profit.
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