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re: How do you feel about spanking children?
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:51 pm to Buddy Garrity
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:51 pm to Buddy Garrity
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Well the time out generation is working out great
baby boomers are the ones that fricked everything up
edit *fricked up everything
And here we go
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Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:51 pm to inadaze
ITT: adults who rationalize their use of violence against children because they aren't intelligent enough to figure out more constructive ways to discipline their children
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:52 pm to Buddy Garrity
It can have a place in the raising of children. It should not be your go to for discipline..you have to find "leverage" to be able to get the desired results you seek..If you do spank, and my wife reminds me of this, don't do it while angry.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:52 pm to southernelite
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Even then, I just spat on them on the thigh.
Never tried spitting.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:56 pm to northshorebamaman
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spat[ spat ]
noun
1. a petty quarrel.
2. a light blow; slap; smack.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:56 pm to inadaze
If you live in California and if you spank your kids don't tell anyone. They look at you like you would look at someone that says that that they beat their wife. And they are very similar really.
I spanked my kids sometimes, but if I had the chance to do it over I wouldn't.
I spanked my kids sometimes, but if I had the chance to do it over I wouldn't.
This post was edited on 1/23/14 at 11:11 pm
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:57 pm to southernelite
Just a joke. 
Posted on 1/23/14 at 10:59 pm to southernelite
Yeah, that's definitely going too far. You should have left it up to your sister what kind of punishment she wanted to do unless she explicitly told you that you could spank the child. Very poor decision.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:00 pm to northshorebamaman
I got my tail beat when I needed it. Stuff like forging progress reports, lying, smart mouthing, and I feel I am a better person for it. I always understood why i was being punished, and to this day I still remember every beating i got.
This post was edited on 1/23/14 at 11:02 pm
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:08 pm to inadaze
It's my opinion that a controlled spank can be an effective and appropriate part of a parental disciplinary toolbox. Obviously this doesn't include spanking done violently, without appropriate cause, or as a single method of discipline.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:09 pm to inadaze
The funniest thing in the world to me is watching mom/dad trying to reason with a child to get their discipline across. Dad usually ends up pissed as hell, mom usually ends up crying, kid ends up in different.
This post was edited on 1/23/14 at 11:10 pm
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:11 pm to inadaze
I was never even punished as a kid. My parents were the "talk it out" types. I got screamed at good a couple of times, but I wasn't spanked or grounded. My parents explained right and wrong and I listened. Simple as that. I was a boring kid.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:12 pm to lurkr
i think i am just gonna make my kid run a mile or some physical activity like that.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:14 pm to lurkr
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The funniest thing in the world to me is watching mom/dad trying to reason with a child to get their discipline across
The area of the brain responsible for reasoning is the last to develop. Young kids simply do not have the ability to reason the same way we do as adults.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:15 pm to lurkr
Some kids own their parents. I was a child in 70's and 80's and when you acted up in public you would get a "get your mind right" swat on the butt...not hard just enough to get your attention. The worst part was other adults egging on your mom...now they call the police
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:16 pm to fightingtigers98
Just give them the face and tell them to take a lap.
Pay attention to what works and do that.
Know the difference between discipline and violence.
Pay attention to what works and do that.
Know the difference between discipline and violence.
This post was edited on 1/23/14 at 11:18 pm
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:21 pm to fightingtigers98
People who are 100% against it and people who resort to spanking every time they need to enforce discipline are both wrong IMO.
Everyone is different and there are different forms of discipline that will work. The key is finding the right way for each situation
Everyone is different and there are different forms of discipline that will work. The key is finding the right way for each situation
This post was edited on 1/23/14 at 11:23 pm
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:28 pm to inadaze
In moderation or as a last resort, it is a valuable tool. Overboard and its a bad thing.
But there isn't anything worse than a little shite kid with no fear of the mere possibility of a spanking.
But there isn't anything worse than a little shite kid with no fear of the mere possibility of a spanking.
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:34 pm to jg8623
quote:This is my view at this point without kids. Different methods work for different kids. I see kids acting out more now than they did when I was growing up imo.
People who are 100% against it and people who resort to spanking every time they need to enforce discipline are both wrong IMO.
Everyone is different and there are different forms of discipline that will work. The key is finding the right way for each situation
Posted on 1/23/14 at 11:36 pm to saderade
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I see kids acting out more now than they did when I was growing up imo.
I notice this more in children of single moms. Especially boys.
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