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re: How do I get out of attending my roommate's baptism?

Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:23 pm to
Posted by corndawg85
MS
Member since Oct 2013
853 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

He and I aren't lifelong friends by any means


Just tell him no and don't go. Simple?
Posted by coalbe923
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2011
139 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:24 pm to
Don't be so selfish. He's your friend and he's making a change to better his life. Go support him then you can take a nap after.
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:25 pm to
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How do people end up with crappy roommates? Mine were always best bros that wouldnt make me do stupid stuff.


He arrived last June fresh off of a trip to Oregon that involved copious amounts of liquor, pot, and casual sex. He continued partying like that for about three months and then everything came to a screeching halt one day.

It's really been one of the most bizarre transformations I have ever observed with someone his age, especially in such a short period of time.

He still acts like a bro...just a really religious, monogamous, abstinent, and sober bro.
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 1:29 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:25 pm to
I'm an a-hole, but I'd just tell him no and not offer any explanation. Thankfully, I don't have any retarded friends like you do
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:27 pm to
sleep in at the local motel and don't disclose location or at gf place if possible

that way when he get's up and sees you're not there, he's got nothing to say

shut off your phone too

when you finally see him, don't apologize, just ask him how it went, then drop it...
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:27 pm to
Why would he even want you there?
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:27 pm to
quote:

Why not just take an afternoon nap?


I've got work that afternoon. Plus, I find that an afternoon nap doesn't properly replace sleep lost during the night.
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 2:36 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
119853 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:28 pm to
Just be honest. "look dude, congrats on getting baptised, but I am not going to make it Sunday". If he ask why, you can throw in a little white lie like "I havent been feeling well the past several days so I really need to get some sleep in". frick making up some bullshite story,
Posted by SoFunnyItsNot
Member since Mar 2013
4635 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:31 pm to
This guy gets it. It's not hard to come up with a white lie. It won't bother him believe me
Posted by TeddyPadillac
Member since Dec 2010
29573 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

Why would he even want you there?



religious people like that want to convert you to their way of thinking.

Just nut up and say no simply. Not that hard.
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
22414 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:34 pm to
As many of said, just tell him you don't want to go.

I seriously doubt he cares that much if you are there or not. Probably just asked you to be nice.
Posted by AUjim
America
Member since Dec 2012
3761 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:34 pm to
So just to clarify… This guy has made a dramatic change in his life for the better and has invited you to attend a significant event marking said change..... What a remarkable a-hole for wanting to involve you in something like that !
Posted by Bias
The UP
Member since Jan 2015
190 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:36 pm to
Tell him it is against your religion to worship a false god...
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:46 pm to
quote:

So just to clarify… This guy has made a dramatic change in his life for the better and has invited you to attend a significant event marking said change..... What a remarkable a-hole for wanting to involve you in something like that !


Yeah...but it's on a Sunday morning. I don't invite people to do shite on a weekend morning.

What if it's my equivalent to Shabbos?

quote:

Walter Sobchak: Saturday, Donny, is Shabbos, the Jewish day of rest. That means that I don't work, I don't drive a car, I don't fricking ride in a car, I don't handle money, I don't turn on the oven, and I sure as shite don't fricking roll!
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22298 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:47 pm to
Poop your pants
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
119853 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:53 pm to
Some of those non dom churches encourage new members to invite all of their friends and family to that stuff. And you said he is doing it again? Then you never know with this guy. You go Sunday, then 3 weeks later when he decides to join up with Jeff Warren, he will expect you to go to that shite as well.
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
21961 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:53 pm to
quote:

He still acts like a bro...just a really religious, monogamous, abstinent, and sober bro.


NF
Posted by MoonrakerElite
Member since Mar 2016
518 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:55 pm to
Tell him your club is meeting that morning to elect a new Imperial Wizzard.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:57 pm to
How do I get out of attending my roommate's baptism?
quote:

My roommate has undergone a "born-again" transformation of sorts and has decided to get baptized once more. He has invited me to attend, but I honestly just don't have any inclination to do so.

It's on Sunday morning, the day I get to sleep in, and at a non-denominational church that is a bit out there when it comes to their services.

He and I aren't lifelong friends by any means, so I don't feel like some spiritual occasion like this warrants my presence.


forward this as an email attachment.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 1:58 pm to
Just don't go
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