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re: Holiday DNA kits exposing infidelity
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:10 am to TigerFanInSouthland
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:10 am to TigerFanInSouthland
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I would just like to know how many times the average poster on the OT has been married when they post things like that and the reasons for their divorces. Furthermore, I would like to know if any of them place any amount of blame on themselves for their divorces. It’s a two way street and I don’t doubt that women cheat just like men do, but I don’t doubt that each party is to blame in each instance in some way.
While the circumstances that Created the situation in which infidelity was even a question Involves both partners, the decision to actually do the act is 100% on the cheater.
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Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:14 am to shotcaller1
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I wonder what the law says if your wife has another mans kid. I would divorce regardless
I feel for the guy and the 15 year old daughter. Surely he still loves her like his own.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:18 am to slackster
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I feel for the guy and the 15 year old daughter. Surely he still loves her like his own.
Me too. That's a difficult situation for that guy. What do you do? Tell a kid that's known you as dad her entire life that you don't want to have anything to do with her now? frick that woman.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:19 am to fr33manator
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While the circumstances that Created the situation in which infidelity was even a question Involves both partners, the decision to actually do the act is 100% on the cheater.
Agree wholeheartedly. I often wonder if, and this coming from a 25 year old never married person, the two in union go into the pact with immature notions of marriage. From observing my own parents, married 30 years, they’ve fought like siblings at times and have become exceedingly annoyed with the other as is I’m sure completely natural for two people to be married.
However, I believe that they didn’t go into marriage believing that days like that would never happen. I believe that they went into marriage in an almost old fashioned nowadays mindset. That they choose this person to be with until death and that no matter the differences between the two, will remain together. I do not think they took their vows lightly as I think a lot of people do now.
This post was edited on 12/20/18 at 10:20 am
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:20 am to BigB0882
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I know two people who found half siblings through this stuff that they had no idea they had
Apparently my father got someone pregnant as a teen and she was sent off and put the baby up for adoption.
Have not met my 1/2 brother but I have met his son...he is the one who connected thru Ancestory.com.
100% certain my dad never knew.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:23 am to Muthsera
Congrats 123 and me sucker,,,,,errrr, user, you gave your DNA to the Feds, and the patriot act covers this, so your shite out luck, but hey you are 1/57th Welsh and 1/85th Danish.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:24 am to Muthsera
My cousins kid came out really tan with curly hair but apparently his wife has an Italian great grandfather
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:25 am to slackster
Yes. Very sad for the dad and the girl. He would still love her but that would be a pain I could not imagine. F that wife though.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:25 am to BigB0882
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I know two people who found half siblings through this stuff that they had no idea they had
I got one for my SO this year for Christmas. She’s never met her real father, doesn’t even know his name nor what he looks like. She’s more interested in the genetics side of it because she wants to know what type of ailments she’s more predetermined to be harboring for later life.
Her story is a weird one and she’s done exceedingly well for somebody in her situation that she inherited as a child.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:27 am to fallguy_1978
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Me too. That's a difficult situation for that guy. What do you do? Tell a kid that's known you as dad her entire life that you don't want to have anything to do with her now? frick that woman.
Id tell her the truth. Love you like a daughter but you arent my daughter...and we are getting divorced
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:29 am to bamafan1001
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Id tell her the truth. Love you like a daughter but you arent my daughter...and we are getting divorced
Apparently that's what he did. He's still raising the daughter but got divorced.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:30 am to TigerFanInSouthland
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Agree wholeheartedly. I often wonder if, and this coming from a 25 year old virgin,
And you’re not gonna get laid white knighting for women on the internet baw
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:32 am to slackster
Kind of torn. On one hand I’d want to protect my kid. On the other she deserves to know the truth about herself. And that her mom is a whore.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:32 am to el Gaucho
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And you’re not gonna get laid white knighting for women on the internet baw
Lmao, I’m not white knighting cowboy! Just pointing out that there is room to blame on both sides. However, as fr33 succinctly pointed out, the decision to cheat lies on one party altogether and I agree completely.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:34 am to Sao
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Maury Christmas!
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:35 am to TigerFanInSouthland
If they have the opportunity to cheat they’re gonna cheat
That’s why you have to make sure they’re always pregnant
That’s why you have to make sure they’re always pregnant
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:36 am to baldona
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Well 1/3 of my kids looks exactly like me. So at least I know my wife is 30% trustworthy.
Maybe that ho is just fricking your brother or a cousin.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:42 am to el Gaucho
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My cousins kid came out really tan with curly hair but apparently his wife has an Italian great grandfather
This post was edited on 12/20/18 at 10:45 am
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:46 am to shotcaller1
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I wonder what the law says if your wife has another mans kid.
If that child is over a year old, you're basically screwed.
Posted on 12/20/18 at 10:46 am to shotcaller1
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I wonder what the law says if your wife has another mans kid.
The laws in Louisiana were extremely fricked up in that regard.
You basically had to have a paternity test and disavow the kid by a certain age or you were fricked, whether you knew or not.
I believe the laws are starting to evolve on that issue though.
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