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re: Have you ever been the person who someone is cheating with?

Posted on 7/21/19 at 1:25 pm to
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
119298 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 1:25 pm to
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More to lose than you


Well if you’re single you have no where to go but up

I could see a girlfriend but banging some dude’s wife, especially with kids is asking for a massive headache.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 1:45 pm to
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Yes, I knew they had (still have) a SO. No, I did not feel bad about it


Was it mine, you mfer?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 1:46 pm to
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Yes. No. He was an emotionally abusive frickboi.



That's what she told you to make you both feel better about it. Women are notorious for using that card when the guy's actually done NOTHING wrong.
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15750 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 1:59 pm to
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Was it mine, you mfer?


negative, but you probably do know the couple
This post was edited on 7/21/19 at 2:15 pm
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
41777 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 2:24 pm to
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Did you know that they had a SO?

Yes

quote:

And did you feel bad afterward?


I'm not proud of it. While she was the one cheating and I not friends with her husband, I do regret not being a better person.

ETA, they had no kids.
This post was edited on 7/21/19 at 2:26 pm
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37660 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 2:34 pm to
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Of course

Feel bad? No. I wasn't the one breaking any vows. If they weren't going to do it with me, they would have found someone else



All this. But I did feel bad about it later.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 3:22 pm to
Got a best friend who is that guy right now. They have been together a long time and are engaged. I keep telling him the fiance` is going to kill his as when he finds out.
This post was edited on 7/21/19 at 3:32 pm
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
6649 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 3:23 pm to
Yes, I put 2 and 2 together when she had me park down the street. Later found out that husband worked offshore.

I was in my early 20s, did not feel bad. Went back for seconds and thirds.
Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 3:29 pm to
Same here. Happened during the last few months I was at Fort Bragg. She claimed she was divorced but when I looked into it, that was a lie. Then again I was 23 at the time and it was a chance to smash a 40+ year old woman. No regrets.

All those years singing cadence about Jody and you end up being him.
Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
23122 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:42 pm to
Yeah just small talk when she would come in
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104073 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:48 pm to
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Not physically, but emotionally yes. 


This, currently. Ex college GF, she has a son who's depressed and she's afraid he's suicidal. She unburdens herself to me with things she can't tell her husband. It can and never will go further than that, but some would consider it cheating on some level
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:50 pm to
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Got a best friend who is that guy right now

Who who who?
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
84439 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:52 pm to
Yep, nope
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17885 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:54 pm to
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This, currently. Ex college GF, she has a son who's depressed and she's afraid he's suicidal. She unburdens herself to me with things she can't tell her husband. It can and never will go further than that, but some would consider it cheating on some level


For some reason, physical is not cheating to me. I don't think humans were intended to be monogamous. But, connecting with someone, "emotionally" cheating seems way worse. Go for a one night stand, but don't let your feelings get in the way.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:54 pm to
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For some reason, physical is not cheating to me. I don't think humans were intended to be monogamous

Will you sit on my face and call me a loser?
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53037 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:55 pm to
Posted by AUstar
Member since Dec 2012
19116 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:56 pm to
Chick I used to work with in college. One day I was kidding around with her and said "lets frick after work." She said "OK. I'm serious I will." We ended up at her place and banged for hours. She acted like she ain't had sex in years. One of her GF's come to the door and I heard them talking. Her GF was like "You have a guy in there? OMG, I cant believe you're doing this."

A few days later I figured out what her GF meant. A guy came into work and my coworker said "I'd like you to meet my fiance. We're getting married in a couple months." She said it with absolutely no remorse in her eyes. Acted like me and her didn't just frick a few nights prior.

I did feel kinda bad because he seemed like a good guy. He certainly had more money than me as I was just a broke college student (he was a few years older). I really felt like pulling him aside and saying "break this shite off bro. She's gonna cause you a lot of grief down the road." But in the end I figured it's best if I stayed out of it.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34706 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:56 pm to
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52854 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:56 pm to
Have you married the GF yet? If so you might be on a pace like A's sister?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 4:58 pm to
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Have you married the GF yet? If so you might be on a pace like A's sister?

No. She's too smart to marry me. But we bought a house together.

And she knows I try and frick errybody here.
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