re: Have date scheduled for Friday

women aren't like men. don't talk to her. leave her wondering about you. don't call to confirm. don't give her an excuse / reason / way to back out the date. assume she is going to show up becausre she told you shew ould.


let her thiunk about you. let her miss you. let her wonder about you. don';t ruin it by talking to her and showing her you suck.


women a woman likes you the less you reveal about yourself the more mysterious you are and it peiques their interest.


also if you dont' communcate with her it's a sign that you got other shite going on, maybe seeing other girls, maybe busy runing a company, you're too busy to talk to her during the week. show me someone who texts all day long and i wil show you someone poor and with no other options.

while i agree attraction is either there or it isn't, there is something to be said about establishing the frame of a relationship.


there is no where to go if you start off calling her all the time, always being around her. what happens when you got shite to do and she throws a tantrum or think you're cheating becuase you stopped giving her attention.


women, tell you what they want men who like they like how hey wish they would o act, not how to be attractive lol.



the bottom line, is if she is going to flake, she's goiing to flake, if she isn't she isn't. if she wanted to make out with you last week she will want to make out with you thsi week. if she didn't want to make out with you last week she's not going to see you like that or pobably going to flake this week.


it's a logical fallacy to believe when you contact or how often you talk to her is going ot have any indication on rather she views you as attractive or if your date is going to be successful.


you don't not talk to her during the week to make her attracted to you, you not talk to her during the week because eventually she's goinig ot get bored and the new relationshiop smell is going to wear off and she's going to move on and to prevent that you don't give her all your damn time.


also to the woman who keeps downvoting me lol, the opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference; to not care.

love and hate are different sides of the same coin; they are both emotions geard towards someone.


what i'm saying is, and i ahd to learn this the hard way, men look at actions in the prism of "will she like this or will she not like this" when in reality it's the same thing. You can't ignore someone you aren't activly thinking about. You might not like it that I'm not wearing my emotions on my sleeve, it might make you have to woman up9 a little and show me that you have value, you might have your lip pooked out but you're not goinig anywhere because the second i give you attention you'll be right back becuase love and hate are two sides of the same coin.


you pissing her off is not what you need to fear. what you need to feart is her forgettinga bouut you in the first place lol. that's when you're done.

also when in doubt in anything in life, robert greene is your friend

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LAW 4 Always Say Less Than Necessary

When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.”

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Law 8: Make Other People Come To You Use Bait If Necessary

When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains—then attack. You hold the cards.

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Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor

Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

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Law 35: Master the Art of Timing

Never seem to be in a hurry—hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually. Become a detective of the right moment; sniff out the spirit of the times, the trends that will carry you to power. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe, and to strike fiercely when it has reached fruition.

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See if she will bring a friend. Barter blowies for French fries. Let them bid against each other.

Uhhhh, yeah. May want to pick up the phone and show some interest.

Pics?

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my husband,

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Pics?

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We haven't been apart since that night and have been married for 10 years.

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That sounds horrible.

WWPD

What Would Pectus Do

Serious answer OP, I'd send her a text when you know she got off work with something like 'hope you had a great day at work, looking forward to our date Friday'.

Keep in touch, but keep it short and sweet.

lol at some of the answers, some of them are brutally true. But while serial daters think literally everyone F's on the first date that simply will never be close to being true.

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What is robt greene book title?

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48 Laws of Power