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Have Any of You Married a Cluster B Personality Disorder (Narcissistic, Borderline,etc)?
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:56 am
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:56 am
If so, how long did it take you to figure it out?
17 year marriage ended with her having a combination of Narcissistic Personality Disorder along with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I always knew something was wrong but I never knew what it was while in the marriage.
I finally had to walk away and then got the knowledge and figured it out in April 2022.
I could literally write a book on what I went through but will go into detail once I see what others here have been through.
In my case, let’s just say she always told marriage counselors she didn’t “feel safe” and I was always like WTF? Ask anyone I’ve ever dated or had long term relationships with and they will tell ya they’ve never felt any safer.
I realize now, not “feeling safe” to her was nothing more than not being able to control or manipulate me.
These personality disorders in marriage and partnerships are something! My heart goes out to anyone that gets tied up in the rollercoaster that is one of these relationships.
17 year marriage ended with her having a combination of Narcissistic Personality Disorder along with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I always knew something was wrong but I never knew what it was while in the marriage.
I finally had to walk away and then got the knowledge and figured it out in April 2022.
I could literally write a book on what I went through but will go into detail once I see what others here have been through.
In my case, let’s just say she always told marriage counselors she didn’t “feel safe” and I was always like WTF? Ask anyone I’ve ever dated or had long term relationships with and they will tell ya they’ve never felt any safer.
I realize now, not “feeling safe” to her was nothing more than not being able to control or manipulate me.
These personality disorders in marriage and partnerships are something! My heart goes out to anyone that gets tied up in the rollercoaster that is one of these relationships.
This post was edited on 6/24/24 at 10:04 am
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Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:58 am to Hussss
Let me guess. She was always either the victim or hero of every story. And she had LOTS of stories.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:58 am to Hussss
I did. I didn’t know about any of those terms until after the divorce, but they described that b to a t.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:59 am to Hussss
Bipolar 2 marriage participant checking in. 19 years of being married to that before we divorced.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:59 am to Hussss
90% of OTers are narcissists baw
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:59 am to Hussss
What woman is not narcissistic?
Posted on 6/24/24 at 9:59 am to Hussss
If you are about to go thru a divorce I would delete this until after it’s over in case her lawyer somehow finds it
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:00 am to Bamafig
EXACTLY
She played on my sympathy and empathy when we dated
I had the “I’ll fix her and show her what true love is” mentality
WRONG answer!!
She played on my sympathy and empathy when we dated
I had the “I’ll fix her and show her what true love is” mentality
WRONG answer!!
This post was edited on 6/24/24 at 10:01 am
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:01 am to texag7
Nah bro, I divorced a few years ago
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:03 am to Hussss
Sorry to hear. Doing better now?
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:05 am to texag7
Oh absolutely but this subject will always fascinate me.
These Cluster B personalities are literally like A.I. and feel absolutely nothing.
But they are sure good at convincing you that they do feel something.
It’s like a doll. Looks great on the outside but there is absolutely nothing there on the inside.
These Cluster B personalities are literally like A.I. and feel absolutely nothing.
But they are sure good at convincing you that they do feel something.
It’s like a doll. Looks great on the outside but there is absolutely nothing there on the inside.
This post was edited on 6/24/24 at 10:09 am
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:09 am to Hussss
Married, no. Having a sibling with it, yes. Diagnosed by 4 different therapist but each one them just didn't "understand" her.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:10 am to Cdawg
I can fix her
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:12 am to OWLFAN86
NOBODY can
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:12 am to Hussss
I dated one 10 years ago and thank baby jesus every day that I didn't get her pregnant and ended it once I figured out she was not normal.
Thankfully got a clean break and she moved away. Heard she went thru a handful of other relationships and eventually got engaged but he broke it off.
Good for him
Thankfully got a clean break and she moved away. Heard she went thru a handful of other relationships and eventually got engaged but he broke it off.
Good for him
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:13 am to Hussss
Was married to a borderline for 20 yrs
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:14 am to Hussss
All women have that
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:14 am to Hussss
Dated a girl about 15 years ago with BPD. Lasted 2 years and I got tf outta there. She was either going to kill herself or me, or both of us at some point.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:15 am to Hussss
quote:
These Cluster B personalities are literally like A.I. and feel absolutely nothing.
But they are sure good at convincing you that they do feel something.
It’s like a doll. Looks great on the outside but there is absolutely nothing there on the inside.
A.I. women - perfect description
It was ALWAYS my fault. She was great at spinning things.
Posted on 6/24/24 at 10:15 am to BeachDude022
might had just been a Latina
this one cut up my shirt while i was showering to go out cause there was a long blond hair on it
sex was insane
this one cut up my shirt while i was showering to go out cause there was a long blond hair on it
sex was insane
This post was edited on 6/24/24 at 10:22 am
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