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re: Has my gf moved in with me.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:34 am to Pettifogger
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:34 am to Pettifogger
OP...assuming she is near the same age, she’s spending wayyyy too much time with you. Does she have a job? Any friends? Are you her only source of happiness?
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 8:36 am
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Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:35 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Damn that’s young.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:38 am to Tyga Woods
Yeah shes 2 years younger 19 in a sorority so thats friends i guess? They go eat lunch together all the time
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:38 am to Aspercel
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Not always. Some people just cry easily.
I do, too. Or I have in the past, before I became more robotic. When I'm embarrassed or frustrated, I tend to involuntarily cry. I used to tell my ex to ignore my crying and just listen to what I was saying. It's very inconvenient. I try to hold off on having emotionally charged conversations til I know I'm calm.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:43 am to Evil Little Thing
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I tend to involuntarily cry
You don’t cry during or after sex, do you?
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:45 am to Tyga Woods
quote:she probably cries before
You don’t cry during or after sex, do you?
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:19 am to Riseupfromtherubble
It doesn't have to be a test for him to still fail. I agree that the endgame is getting a place together at the end of the lease, but hiding behind your roommates to couch criticism will absolutely tip her off to a major weakness in the power dynamic.
The best solution is to just sit down and treat her like an equal party, and if she can't handle it - peace out.
The best solution is to just sit down and treat her like an equal party, and if she can't handle it - peace out.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:19 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Im 21 and she gives blowjobs like all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME i don't wanna piss her off to much and lose that
that will stop once you move in together.
Also, it ain't cool that she's coming over when you aren't there. I know your roommates don't like that. I assume they are 21 year old guys, same as you. They want to be free to do 21 year old guy stuff at their apartment without having someone's girlfriend there, even when the friend isn't there.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:25 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
5 nights a week geez. Does she live in a dorm? My wife and I may have spent 5 nights a week together occasionally in college but it wasn't at just one of our places.
Poon and BJ's are great and all, but you need to live a little too.
5 nights a week means you are either that weird guy that hangs out in room with his Gf all the time OR the guy with the GF everyone wishes would just leave. Likely both.
It's annoying as hell to have a significant other invading roommates space that much. If she isn't kicking in financially she should be at least helping keep the place up by cleaning the kitchen and shared spaces.
Poon and BJ's are great and all, but you need to live a little too.
5 nights a week means you are either that weird guy that hangs out in room with his Gf all the time OR the guy with the GF everyone wishes would just leave. Likely both.
It's annoying as hell to have a significant other invading roommates space that much. If she isn't kicking in financially she should be at least helping keep the place up by cleaning the kitchen and shared spaces.
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 9:26 am
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:38 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Im 21 and she gives blowjobs like all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:50 am to Dingeaux
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Also, it ain't cool that she's coming over when you aren't there. I know your roommates don't like that. I assume they are 21 year old guys, same as you. They want to be free to do 21 year old guy stuff at their apartment without having someone's girlfriend there, even when the friend isn't there.
That or eiffle tower going on when he's not there.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:51 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Had this same scenario happen in my 20's and it was the beginning of the end. And I didn't have roommates to consider either. As soon as she started telling me what to do in my house, I did not like that felling at all. What will happen is once you call her out, she will go crazy and it will make it easier for you to let her go.
I was also on the roommate side of this at one time where my buddy's GF basically moved in with us, HOWEVER, she was like a house mother. She would keep the kitchen clean, fold all our laundry, walked around in her underwear, brought her friends around, etc. She made it really hard for us to object to her presence. We just couldn't F her that was about the only boundary. Me and the other guy in the condo just tried to limit bringing our SO's over because we didn't want to ruin a good thing. It did finally blow up however when her BF cheated and I was tasked with getting her key back. It broke my heart.
Doesn't sound like your GF is making herself an asset around the house so don't be a dick to your roommates.
I was also on the roommate side of this at one time where my buddy's GF basically moved in with us, HOWEVER, she was like a house mother. She would keep the kitchen clean, fold all our laundry, walked around in her underwear, brought her friends around, etc. She made it really hard for us to object to her presence. We just couldn't F her that was about the only boundary. Me and the other guy in the condo just tried to limit bringing our SO's over because we didn't want to ruin a good thing. It did finally blow up however when her BF cheated and I was tasked with getting her key back. It broke my heart.
Doesn't sound like your GF is making herself an asset around the house so don't be a dick to your roommates.
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 9:53 am
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:52 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Bruh. You need to reestablish your territory. Someone else is pissing on your markers.
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 11:38 am
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:53 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
Is she paying rent? Then no, she isn’t.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 9:54 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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get a text from her as im coming home saying the a/c was out in our room
The response should have been "what are you and your roommate going to do about it at your place?"
Posted on 6/5/18 at 10:11 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
your a dead man
Posted on 6/5/18 at 10:20 am to 13SaintTiger
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How hard is it to spell advice correctly? You are what’s wrong with the world.
Spelling was always my worst subject in school.
I have the math and science down though.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 10:21 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
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Oh and no pics assholes.
Then I can't help you.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 10:28 am to baldona
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5 nights a week means you are either that weird guy that hangs out in room with his Gf all the time OR the guy with the GF everyone wishes would just leave. Likely both.
It's annoying as hell to have a significant other invading roommates space that much. If she isn't kicking in financially she should be at least helping keep the place up by cleaning the kitchen and shared spaces.
This is spot on. I lived in a fraternity house. You definitely had the guys that you never saw unless their gf was out of town or doing something else. Then you had to deal with the ones that took up the bathrooms. The showers were basically one big room with shower heads. So the gf's thought everyone should wait while they showered. Never mind that we were trying to get to class and they had a place of their own to use. The guys dating the girls would defend then vehemently.
Posted on 6/5/18 at 10:43 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
If you have to ask...
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