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re: Guy hits his son in public, goes viral on tiktok
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:02 am to Klark Kent
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:02 am to Klark Kent
Slapping your child in the face isn’t an accepted standard of behavior in the social norms of a polite society, but I’m pretty sure you aren’t this clueless KK
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:03 am to GetCocky11
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For every 1 creative & funny video, there are 20 cringeworthy shitty videos.
Don’t have TikTok.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:04 am to Klark Kent
quote:If it were to ever happen, I'll let you know. I honestly don't think I would be able to say "none of my business" in that scenario. I would hope most men would agree.
go for it. let us know how that works out.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:04 am to The Boat
quote:im always surprised at how many women post on the OT they link TickerTocks
Do all you women who could see the video have the app or something?
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:04 am to Odysseus32
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There are better ways to handle something like this, IMO, than hitting your kid in public. I grew up getting hit and I just didn't like it, and I respect my parents less for it.
So if your weren't hit as a kid, you think you would have more respect for your parents, at your adult age now?
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Not saying I didn't deserve it or they were wrong. I can only speak about how I feel about it as an adult.
So something that happened years ago, still affects your feelings today (and you understand why it happened and agree that you likely git a fit punishment for something you did)?
Sounds like you didn't grow up, or didn't get over it as you grew up. Sounds weak, or maybe you're emotionally broken from it and not being truly honest about it in that you actually got this shite kicked out of you as a child.
I got plenty of pretty harsh punishments growing up, from belts/spanking to worse. I got over it and don't give two shits about it as an adult.
Not all punishment works the same for all kids, but it sounds like punishments you got were very effective, just maybe not in a good way.
This post was edited on 6/28/22 at 10:09 am
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:04 am to SuperSaint
I’ll let you know when i take advice on behavior standards from a felon. thanks
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:05 am to Indefatigable
Or even worse. The original video is half screen and the other half is some ugly mug making reaction faces.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:08 am to Palantir
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. I honestly don't think I would be able to say "none of my business" in that scenario. I would hope most men would agree.
With a little attention getter like that, I'd give dad finger guns and a nod.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:10 am to Klark Kent
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I’ll let you know when i take advice on behavior standards from a felon. thanks
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:10 am to Palantir
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I will most definitely make it my business if a grown man is close fist punching a kid in the face in public and using "discipline" as the excuse.
No shite, nobody is saying that's ok.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:12 am to Klark Kent
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I’ll let you know when i take advice on behavior standards from a felon. thanks
SS should do consulting. A Felons guide to manners.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:12 am to grizzlylongcut
quote:I know that.
No shite, nobody is saying that's ok.
He said that it's not our "business" to determine what discipline is, no matter the setting. That's the part I don't agree with.
This post was edited on 6/28/22 at 10:13 am
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:15 am to John88
Well as the dude said, "many studies have proven that hitting children .... blah, blah ...."
Yet, since we started turning into a no touch, no discipline, set in the corner time out society, we in general have gone to shite.
Yet, since we started turning into a no touch, no discipline, set in the corner time out society, we in general have gone to shite.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:16 am to Palantir
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He said that it's not our "business" to determine what discipline is, no matter the setting
Fact
Normal people can tell abuse from discipline.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:18 am to Steadyhands
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So if your weren't hit as a kid, you think you would have more respect for your parents, at your adult age now?
I think I would. I don't know if I would. Nobody does. But I don't remember ever being sat down and spoken to about empathy and why certain actions aren't tolerated. I was always told that "I know better", and the reality is I didn't know better until I was a bit older.
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So something that happened years ago, still affects your feelings today (and you understand why it happened and agree that you likely git a fit punishment for something you did)?
Of course things still affect me from when I was a child. To deny that would be to deny that I'm a human.
Also, nowhere did I say that I understood why it happened and I agree that it likely fit a punishment for something I did. I said that I'm NOT saying that I didn't deserve it. Mostly because I was a child, and whether or not someone is deserving of something is variable depending on the person.
There were times looking back where I was lightly spanked for wrongdoings that I understand. There were other times when I could have been spoken to about why what I said was upsetting rather than being pinned against a wall by my stepfather
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Sounds like you didn't grow up, or didn't get over it as you grew up. Sounds weak, or maybe you're emotionally broken from it and not being truly honest about it in that you actually got this shite kicked out of you as a child.
And it sounds like you're judging someone based on their opinion. You actually sound weak.
I'm just telling you, from a perspective of someone who got hit a lot as a child, I don't agree with it. I'm not saying that hitting kids for the sake of discipline is wrong. I'm posting about how I felt about it and to say that I think there are better ways of handling it.
I'm sorry that hurts your ego as much as your post indicates. Maybe you could have been hit less.
This post was edited on 6/28/22 at 10:19 am
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:19 am to RogerTheShrubber
to Palantir’s point. i should’ve specified more in my initial response. A close handed form of discipline is not acceptable in any location, public or private.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:22 am to RogerTheShrubber
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Fact
Normal people can tell abuse from discipline.
Oh Rog, don’t go being intentionally obtuse trying to parse words and definitions. Read the comment and quote chain before double and tripling down
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:23 am to Klark Kent
quote:Yeah, that's all I was really saying. I know you wouldn't have just done a "not my business" in that scenario, which is why I wanted to clarify for the both of us
to Palantir’s point. i should’ve specified more in my initial response. A close handed form of discipline is not acceptable in any location, public or private.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:23 am to SuperSaint
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Oh Rog, don’t go being intentionally obtuse
You said that with a lisp, I'll bet. Prison sure turned you swishy.
Posted on 6/28/22 at 10:24 am to Klark Kent
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A close handed form of discipline is not acceptable in any location, public or private.
Generally close handed is either in anger (abuse) or self defense. I've never seen a person hit a kid with a closed fist.
Karen is involved in ever aspect of your life though, might as well get used to it.
This post was edited on 6/28/22 at 10:25 am
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