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re: Growing trend of women divorcing middle-aged husbands
Posted on 2/13/19 at 4:12 pm to Pecker
Posted on 2/13/19 at 4:12 pm to Pecker
Pecker you are incorrectly hung up on this idea of “respect “. Sure if a woman doesn’t respect a man, she will look around. But you are only getting HALF of it. She can simultaneously respect her husband AND still indulge her hypergamous nature.
This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly. Her nature will be her nature regardless. It is here where traditional notions of morality come into play. A women has to overcome her hypergamous nature just as a man has to overcome his nature to have sex with multiple partners. Morality is the tool to achieve that.
This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly. Her nature will be her nature regardless. It is here where traditional notions of morality come into play. A women has to overcome her hypergamous nature just as a man has to overcome his nature to have sex with multiple partners. Morality is the tool to achieve that.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 6:19 pm to Pecker
I’m gonna take a hard pass on all that mind games arse kissing bullshite. I’m 58 and will do wtf I want, spend my money on wtf I want and enjoy what is left of my life without the stress of wondering if some bitch is going to clean me out because “I’m not entertaining her enough”.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:07 pm to Lsupimp
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Pecker you are incorrectly hung up on this idea of “respect “. Sure if a woman doesn’t respect a man, she will look around. But you are only getting HALF of it. She can simultaneously respect her husband AND still indulge her hypergamous nature.This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly. Her nature will be her nature regardless.
I don’t disagree. It’s why I said in the OP that you shouldn’t better yourself for a woman’s sake. You can only control so much and, for the amount that you can control, you should. I tend too avoid the aspects that you can’t control (like a woman having no scruples) because as soon as you go down that path men will use it as an excuse to justify their lack of effort. There’s guys in this thread already doing that.
If you take accountability for the areas of your life you can control the rest won’t matter. Because you’ll know you did all you could. There’s closure in that no matter how things turn out.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:08 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:23 pm to Pecker
Maw Maw and her friends must have been watching that movie “Book Club” and think they’re going to have some Silver Sex at Sixty(something).
That other Poster is right, they think that real life is like “Sex in the City” and romantic comedies. Magazines and advertising give them unrealistic expectations and fricked up outlooks on life. When they’re old and realize that life didn’t turn out the way they wanted or expected it to happen, they’re killling themselves or leaving their husbands.
Like the meme “Women are like WiFi. They’ll always gravitate towards the stronger signal”
That other Poster is right, they think that real life is like “Sex in the City” and romantic comedies. Magazines and advertising give them unrealistic expectations and fricked up outlooks on life. When they’re old and realize that life didn’t turn out the way they wanted or expected it to happen, they’re killling themselves or leaving their husbands.
Like the meme “Women are like WiFi. They’ll always gravitate towards the stronger signal”
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:41 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:29 pm to Pecker
Kinda ridiculous at that point in the game to break up with the one you been married to for that long. What happened to the good ole days where married couples had a side piece and screwed around behind each other's back?
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:33 pm to HempHead
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They aren't going to get it. I guarantee you that over 75% of these women will regret their decision within half a decade.
I know a guy this happened to. Divorce wasn't even final and she was trying to come back. She found out how tough it was supporting herself. He told her to frick off.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:40 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:Not my wife, and if I'm not listening and attentively, dutifully, immediately responding, then I'm a horrible husband who never listens to her.
Eventually you just run out of shite to talk about
Nevermind that she talks constantly to:
A. herself
B. her mom on the phone
C. her sister on the phone
D. her best friend on the phone
E. her co-workers
F. the dog
G. each of the three cats
H. my daughter
I. my son
but god forbid I be reading a book, working on a problem, paying bills or trying to pay attention to a show on TV. If I'm not waiting for the one time out of 20 that she actually is talking to me, instead of how she talks to everything and everyone else, I'm a piece of shite.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:43 pm to HubbaBubba
These women have been taught that the whole world revolves around them and their wants and needs. It is fun watching reality bitchslap them around.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:50 pm to Saint Alfonzo
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Women of the most narcissistic generation ever
I was going to post that women are selfish. But the above also works.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to Robin Masters
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It’s not fun and very demoralizing as its slowly dawning on me that this is my reality. I’m Heartbroken in many ways. I’m sticking it out for another 10 years until the kids are out of the house. We don’t argue it anything so it’s not toxic, it’s like we’re good acquaintances.
How long has it been since the two of you had sex with each other?
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:03 pm to Pecker
I am not concerned with my wife walking out on me.
Why?
Because it is her loss. 95% of my occupied time (outside of work) is because of her wants and needs.
If she leaves, I have more money and more free time.
Why?
Because it is her loss. 95% of my occupied time (outside of work) is because of her wants and needs.
If she leaves, I have more money and more free time.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:04 pm to Oilfieldbiology
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Yet again boomers prove they are the fricking worst
They really are.
Other Generations have there weird idiosyncrasies. The greatest generation was naive and gullible, Generation X it's cynical, Millennials are lazy and spoiled but nobody can hold a candle to Boomers. They are just fricked up all the way around. In every imaginable way.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 8:06 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:09 pm to Lsupimp
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This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly.
yep, so we need to ask ourselves, why even play the game?
esp if you are top 10% in looks and/or money, there is zero point to ever settle down in 2019. way too much of a financial and emotional risk
pump and dump is the only way, the happiest way.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:28 pm to rocket31
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esp if you are top 10% in looks and/or money, there is zero point to ever settle down in 2019. way too much of a financial and emotional risk
If you're in the top 10% in looks or money you should have the confidence and self-reliance to not spend your life trying to avoid "emotional risk"
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:29 pm to Pecker
Aren't you divorced? Plus this story is about pussified Brits. Don't care, doesn't apply.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:31 pm to Jake88
quote:No. are you?
Aren't you divorced?
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:34 pm to Pecker
British women have always been the most fricked up of all women in the world. They are hooers by nature.
Some years ago a study was done in the UK that found something like 40% of kids born there had biological fathers different than the man they thought was their real father.
British hooers have been disloyal and fricking around for three millennia over there ... it’s in their DNA.
My first wife, my ex-wife I should say, is a British hooer.
Some years ago a study was done in the UK that found something like 40% of kids born there had biological fathers different than the man they thought was their real father.
British hooers have been disloyal and fricking around for three millennia over there ... it’s in their DNA.
My first wife, my ex-wife I should say, is a British hooer.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:36 pm to Pecker
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middle-aged husbands
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in their sixties
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:37 pm to scrooster
I've run into a number of women that have gotten divorced once hitting 40 or so and the kids are gone.
Meet them in the saloons looking for men. They are going to be very sad women.
Meet them in the saloons looking for men. They are going to be very sad women.
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