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re: Growing trend of women divorcing middle-aged husbands

Posted on 2/13/19 at 4:12 pm to
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86170 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 4:12 pm to
Pecker you are incorrectly hung up on this idea of “respect “. Sure if a woman doesn’t respect a man, she will look around. But you are only getting HALF of it. She can simultaneously respect her husband AND still indulge her hypergamous nature.

This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly. Her nature will be her nature regardless. It is here where traditional notions of morality come into play. A women has to overcome her hypergamous nature just as a man has to overcome his nature to have sex with multiple partners. Morality is the tool to achieve that.
Posted by 99BLKBRD
Member since Mar 2015
575 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 6:19 pm to
I’m gonna take a hard pass on all that mind games arse kissing bullshite. I’m 58 and will do wtf I want, spend my money on wtf I want and enjoy what is left of my life without the stress of wondering if some bitch is going to clean me out because “I’m not entertaining her enough”.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:07 pm to
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Pecker you are incorrectly hung up on this idea of “respect “. Sure if a woman doesn’t respect a man, she will look around. But you are only getting HALF of it. She can simultaneously respect her husband AND still indulge her hypergamous nature.This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly. Her nature will be her nature regardless.


I don’t disagree. It’s why I said in the OP that you shouldn’t better yourself for a woman’s sake. You can only control so much and, for the amount that you can control, you should. I tend too avoid the aspects that you can’t control (like a woman having no scruples) because as soon as you go down that path men will use it as an excuse to justify their lack of effort. There’s guys in this thread already doing that.

If you take accountability for the areas of your life you can control the rest won’t matter. Because you’ll know you did all you could. There’s closure in that no matter how things turn out.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:08 pm
Posted by toddzilla
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Nov 2012
1596 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:23 pm to
Maw Maw and her friends must have been watching that movie “Book Club” and think they’re going to have some Silver Sex at Sixty(something).

That other Poster is right, they think that real life is like “Sex in the City” and romantic comedies. Magazines and advertising give them unrealistic expectations and fricked up outlooks on life. When they’re old and realize that life didn’t turn out the way they wanted or expected it to happen, they’re killling themselves or leaving their husbands.

Like the meme “Women are like WiFi. They’ll always gravitate towards the stronger signal”
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:41 pm
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
10212 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:29 pm to
Kinda ridiculous at that point in the game to break up with the one you been married to for that long. What happened to the good ole days where married couples had a side piece and screwed around behind each other's back?
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
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Member since Aug 2004
49681 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:33 pm to
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They aren't going to get it. I guarantee you that over 75% of these women will regret their decision within half a decade.




I know a guy this happened to. Divorce wasn't even final and she was trying to come back. She found out how tough it was supporting herself. He told her to frick off.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
51862 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:40 pm to
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Eventually you just run out of shite to talk about
Not my wife, and if I'm not listening and attentively, dutifully, immediately responding, then I'm a horrible husband who never listens to her.

Nevermind that she talks constantly to:

A. herself
B. her mom on the phone
C. her sister on the phone
D. her best friend on the phone
E. her co-workers
F. the dog
G. each of the three cats
H. my daughter
I. my son

but god forbid I be reading a book, working on a problem, paying bills or trying to pay attention to a show on TV. If I'm not waiting for the one time out of 20 that she actually is talking to me, instead of how she talks to everything and everyone else, I'm a piece of shite.
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
77205 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:43 pm to
These women have been taught that the whole world revolves around them and their wants and needs. It is fun watching reality bitchslap them around.
Posted by LeroyBrown
South Side Of Chicago
Member since Jul 2017
587 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:50 pm to
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Women of the most narcissistic generation ever


I was going to post that women are selfish. But the above also works.
Posted by LeroyBrown
South Side Of Chicago
Member since Jul 2017
587 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to
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It’s not fun and very demoralizing as its slowly dawning on me that this is my reality. I’m Heartbroken in many ways. I’m sticking it out for another 10 years until the kids are out of the house. We don’t argue it anything so it’s not toxic, it’s like we’re good acquaintances.


How long has it been since the two of you had sex with each other?
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:03 pm to
I am not concerned with my wife walking out on me.

Why?

Because it is her loss. 95% of my occupied time (outside of work) is because of her wants and needs.

If she leaves, I have more money and more free time.
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
13139 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:04 pm to
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Yet again boomers prove they are the fricking worst


They really are.

Other Generations have there weird idiosyncrasies. The greatest generation was naive and gullible, Generation X it's cynical, Millennials are lazy and spoiled but nobody can hold a candle to Boomers. They are just fricked up all the way around. In every imaginable way.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 8:06 pm
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:09 pm to
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This idea that a man can “raise his game” to such a point as to be immune to the hypergamous naturenof a woman is folly.


yep, so we need to ask ourselves, why even play the game?

esp if you are top 10% in looks and/or money, there is zero point to ever settle down in 2019. way too much of a financial and emotional risk

pump and dump is the only way, the happiest way.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:28 pm to
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esp if you are top 10% in looks and/or money, there is zero point to ever settle down in 2019. way too much of a financial and emotional risk



If you're in the top 10% in looks or money you should have the confidence and self-reliance to not spend your life trying to avoid "emotional risk"
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79967 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:29 pm to
Aren't you divorced? Plus this story is about pussified Brits. Don't care, doesn't apply.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:31 pm to
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Aren't you divorced?
No. are you?
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
43823 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:34 pm to
British women have always been the most fricked up of all women in the world. They are hooers by nature.

Some years ago a study was done in the UK that found something like 40% of kids born there had biological fathers different than the man they thought was their real father.

British hooers have been disloyal and fricking around for three millennia over there ... it’s in their DNA.

My first wife, my ex-wife I should say, is a British hooer.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:36 pm to
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middle-aged husbands


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in their sixties
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79967 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:36 pm to
No.
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
57778 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:37 pm to
I've run into a number of women that have gotten divorced once hitting 40 or so and the kids are gone.

Meet them in the saloons looking for men. They are going to be very sad women.
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