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re: Groom Paralyzed at Bachelor/Bachelorette Party- ETA- What would you do?

Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:27 pm to
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:27 pm to
Total honesty: I wouldn't want someone to stay with me if I was in that condition. I don't want to be a burden on someone. God bless the both of them, because they have no idea what type of road lies ahead. He's a lucky man.
Posted by CroakaBait
Gulf Coast of the Land Mass
Member since Nov 2013
4094 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:33 pm to
'preciate it man.

It's definitely some soul-searching stuff to go through.
Posted by Isabelle81
NEW ORLEANS, LA
Member since Sep 2015
2718 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:33 pm to
Similar thing happened to a bride to be at her bachelorette party when a friend pushed her into a swimming pool. Hit her head and became paralyzed.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:47 pm to
That was only the waist down. I say "only" because I heard that they now have a kid or two.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20641 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 6:55 pm to
This reminds me of my aunt and uncle.

My uncle got turned into a vegetable soon after they had their second baby. Till this day, my aunts sole preoccupation has been as a care taker.

She took care of her husband and children and over time it turned into her grandchildren and children.

She's never had a "job" in her life because she has spent 9 hours a day in facilities most of her life. (She lives off interest from previous investments).
Posted by POCKET
Member since Nov 2011
2657 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 7:09 pm to
My related sad story

Childhood sweethearts from my hometown were set to be married this fall. She is one of the nicest persons you will meet, very pretty, and homecoming queen.

They went to a party at the college they attended. She doesn't drink so as they were leaving she offered rides and told people to be careful. And they left

One of the fiancé's best friends decided to drive and was driving really fast. He caught up to them and literally ran over them and somehow launched their car into the air.

She was in serious condition, the fiancé with life threatening injuries, and the "friend" was fine and drove away to avoid getting in trouble

She is now paralyzed from the neck down, but has regained some movement in one arm. And while I'm not exactly sure of the status of the "friend" I am sure he is either in jail or about to be

The couple went ahead and got married but from what I hear from my mom it is a struggle and will be a struggle. They are very dependent on others. She spends her time in bed or her special chair and he goes to work and comes home to take care of her

It is very admirable to love somewhat enough to stick with them through this but a person has to be very sure that they HAVE to be with that person. Either way life will never be the same
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 7:12 pm to
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one of her cold hearted girlfriends will say something to the affect of, "I'm not telling you what to do, but do you really wanna spend the rest of your life with a disabled man, taking care of him, possibly never having kids"


Is it cold hearted if it's the god's honest truth?
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 7:59 pm to
Depends on how big his disability policy is.

-most women

For better or for worse is a joke. This is exactly why most people shouldn't get married in the first place.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15302 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 8:31 pm to
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That sucks. They should not get married now, though

If they do get married she will eventually cheat.
How can he have sex now?
Posted by Nativebullet
Plano, TX
Member since Feb 2011
5171 posts
Posted on 12/13/16 at 9:21 pm to
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I would guess he tried to dive into the water and didn't realize there was a sandbar


that's what i imagine. It's night, it's dark. He runs into the ocean and dives in hitting the sand bar and snapping his neck.
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