re: Great girl likes me-need opinions of how to handle

Question #1

Are you two having sex?

Glad you're here. I'll field that question to get you up to speed. They've hung out everyday for two weeks and no sex.

Dnr this thread but I'm willing to bet that the consensus echoes my own sentiments......










Pics or GTFO

Bowling is one of your main hobbies? Highly doubt she's anything above an IRL 6. And I'd put the betting line at even money that she doesn't exist

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Question #1

Are you two having sex?

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Lol, he is worried about her interfering with his bowling. You think the guy has banged her down already? lol

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She likes "bro-ing down" with the boys, never complains a bit

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this won't last

She is an 8. She actually just walked in, we are about to paint my porch. She does exist.

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I doubt that. She has been coming over every night for 2 weeks and she hasn't put out yet. I haven't had to work this hard since I was 15. I'm 22

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You're in the friend zone, and when she meets another guy she's gonna tell you first because you're her bestie. And you're gonna go cry in bed by yourself after, while hugging your bowling ball for emotional support

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we are about to paint my porch.

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Well, that's a new one. I assume that is similar to "laying pipe", right?

Anyway, post a damn pic!

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I doubt that. She has been coming over every night for 2 weeks and she hasn't put out yet. I haven't had to work this hard since I was 15. I'm 22

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Question #2

How hard have you been trying to escalate to have sex? What has been your approach? Have you even tried at all?

The first question I generally ask when some guy is asking a question about what to do with a girl is "Are you two having sex" for a reason. Doesn't matter what the question or scenario is. "Hey, so there is this girl, she did this after I said that, and therefore I did this, what next?" The natural question to that is always "Are you two having sex"

Because that is all that really matters. If you have been hanging out for 2 weeks and still no sex, she is not into you. A woman who is into you, it won't take much for her to frick your brains out without reservation.

If a woman is not into you she will make you earn it, she will make you jump through hoops and put in all this investment while she dangles a carrot infront of you with the notion that maybe you will have sex sometime in the future.

Of course there is a gray area where sometimes she is fricking you and sometimes she is not, but my point is its all about the NOW. What is she doing NOW?

Since you are still in college though my advice is easy. The 25 rule is what you need to follow. A man should have had sex with at least 25 different women and be at least 25 years old before considering a long term relationship. Until then you should be spinning plates and seeing what various women have to offer so you know what you want in a long term relationship.

That is the problem with most men. They try to enter into a relationship with the first woman who shows them any kind of attention. Relationships with women should be earned. She has to EARN her way into a relationship with you over the course of time and prove her worth. But most men are impatient and have no options so they try to lock down their only supply of pussy as quickly as they can. News flash: Just because she is your girlfriend doesn't mean she will be exclusive to you