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re: Girlfriend is bi...ish

Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:01 pm to
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:01 pm to
Well I'd dump her instantly. But part of the rules are I'm in the convo, and she doesn't meet without me. If she did, that would be cheating. That would end the relationship. Something she would be made very aware of.

End of the day she's an attractive girl. She can literally get dick any time she wants, and pussy too. If I'm clear that nothing outside of the rules is acceptable, wouldn't that be enough to contain any outside wondering? Unless she is the cheating type. Then once again, I'm saving myself from heartbreak ten years from now.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:02 pm to
Still won't top my Chip kelly thread
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:02 pm to
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No to four way. Couldn't see another man on my girl.


You sint gonna like the favt shes liking sex with chicks and not you, either.

Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17804 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:03 pm to
This place is so uptight and judgmental about sex..but I guess this is a message board
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86454 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:04 pm to
Why call her your girlfriend? Y’all just frick other people and go out to dinner every once and a while...
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86454 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:04 pm to
Tell us how much sex you’re having
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:05 pm to
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Add in I am a part in picking the girl.

If you're going to do it you are asking for trouble if you help pick the girl. You're immediately planting seeds of jealousy in her head.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:05 pm to
I'm pretty sure she likes sex with me...I mean I get it twice a year on my birthday and christmas...she only fakes sometimes.
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:05 pm to
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This place is so uptight and judgmental about sex

Yeah, we're weird because we think it's a bad idea for this dude to let someone else frick his lady.

She even admitted that she might not let him join in.

Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:05 pm to
Just because you said she doesn't want or have had sex yet, doesn't mean on a bad day she wouldn't seek comfort.

Also not saying she is a cheater. However, you introducing her into this, your risk is greater and she means something to you if you think she is worthy enough to ask/brag about on here.

Even if it's your app what stops contact? Facebook will link her to someone in an instant.

Not lecturing you, but just my opinion. I'm all for girl on girl.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:06 pm to
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You're immediately planting seeds of jealousy in her head.


THIS! You go picking a chick with a better anything than she has and youre asking for trouble. slippery slope my man

And dont let the other chick make you make more noise than you do with her.. youre fricked
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 11:08 pm
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
17102 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:06 pm to
That's kind of the point, "if she'd let you".

You let her do her thing, she might as well let you do your thing. That's basically an open relationship. Doesn't matter if it's guys or girls.

Just don't think for a second that just because she's going to be with a girl that it doesn't mean anything. That's the fault in your thinking here IMO.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29754 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:06 pm to
quote:


If you're going to do it you are asking for trouble if you help pick the girl. You're immediately planting seeds of jealousy in her head.



So I let her pick on her own?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:07 pm to
quote:

This place is so uptight and judgmental about sex..but I guess this is a message board





Im not uptight, just the opposite but if you have someone you actually care about, sharing will cause troybles.

Been down this road a couple of times. Some things should be left to fantasy or done in a non committed relationship.
Posted by TurkeysAndBees
Member since Jan 2017
651 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:07 pm to
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I've heard this can lead down a bad path though.


I'm no one to judge and have done crazier but you do realize this is not functional in any way and cannot possibly end up in a way that is good or healthy for anyone hoping for a content, well adjusted, interpersonal relationship...free from total chaos and crazy-arse drama. If you can pull it off it'll probably be fricken awesome...at least for a while... but like a lot of foolish things we do in the name of fun, there will be a price to pay somewhere down the road. You can trust me on that one... so weigh and choose your poisons carefully!
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 11:09 pm
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64717 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:07 pm to
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Well I'd dump her instantly. But part of the rules are I'm in the convo, and she doesn't meet without me. If she did, that would be cheating. That would end the relationship. Something she would be made very aware of


Does that really free her to explore HER sexuality though? She may not tell you, but she may not want to involve you in a potential female relationship. Just a thought.


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End of the day she's an attractive girl. She can literally get dick any time she wants, and pussy too. If I'm clear that nothing outside of the rules is acceptable, wouldn't that be enough to contain any outside wondering? Unless she is the cheating type. Then once again, I'm saving myself from heartbreak ten years from now.



I don't know, it already seems like she might be a bit loose. Sometimes the smartest girls (you claim she's getting a PhD) can be the most casual and loose with relationships. Also, intelligence doesn't mean they're good with relationships either.

I guess I'd have to know more about this person's history.



Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:08 pm to
You say “uptight and judgemental”, and I say “realistic”
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:10 pm to
Once done, that box is open. Things are never the same.

If you want a three way, go find a couple of hookers
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:10 pm to
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Im not uptight, just the opposite but if you have someone you actually care about, sharing will cause troybles.

Been down this road a couple of times. Some things should be left to fantasy or done in a non committed relationship.

Roger has seen and done some shite, son. If he's telling you this is a bad idea to be considering with some you actually love and may spend the rest of your life with, it's probably a bad idea.

It definitely just seems like a much better idea with a casual relationship.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:11 pm to
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Once done, that box is open. Things are never the same.

If you want a three way, go find a couple of hookers



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