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re: Girlfriend is bi...ish

Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:11 pm to
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
36823 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:11 pm to
Dude, I’d be psyched if I were you. I wish my wife was a little bi but alas she isn’t even the slightest. Life is short, go where it takes you. Although, I’d be wary of laying down too many “rules”. You might either A) tell her what, at this time, you are comfortable with and/or B) let her tell you what she wants or is comfortable with. If she’s feeling adventurous the thought of someone restricting her freedom won’t sit well.
Enjoy yourself!
Posted by the LSUSaint
Member since Nov 2009
15444 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:12 pm to
So you don't want to frick up your relationship, but you want your girl to frick other whores?

What could go wrong
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:13 pm to
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You say “uptight and judgemental”, and I say “realistic”

Exactly. I haven't seen many moral arguments. The guy asked for advice and people are giving it. Telling him some of the potential pitfalls before he rushes right in is hardly uptight or judgmental.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:13 pm to
Well facebook I can see recently added and I know her messenger password, and use her phone all the time and know her friends. Any weird numbers or out of place text would be pretty noticeable. Tinder idea I tossed out already. That would be asking for trouble.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71229 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:14 pm to
quote:

If I don't trust her, why be in a relationship with her?


You have ZERO idea how women think
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:15 pm to
quote:

You have ZERO idea how women think

None of us really do, Roberto.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86462 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:16 pm to
Maybe you already answered this, but how did this topic come up again?
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:16 pm to
quote:


Dude, I’d be psyched if I were you. I wish my wife was a little bi but alas she isn’t even the slightest. Life is short, go where it takes you. Although, I’d be wary of laying down too many “rules”. You might either A) tell her what, at this time, you are comfortable with and/or B) let her tell you what she wants or is comfortable with. If she’s feeling adventurous the thought of someone restricting her freedom won’t sit well.
Enjoy yourself!


Very good thoughts on it. I guess wording it what I'm comfortable with is better than saying rules for sure. I let her live her life and be who she is. It's why our relationship works. I don't tell her what to do. I trust her to make the smart decision. Girl really is insanely intelligent. Don't know how she is with someone who makes fart and dad jokes 24 hours a day.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:17 pm to
Came up awhile back during a lesbian scene in a movie and asked her if she had. Then tonight I was thinking about it and brought it up while we were sitting outside by the fireplace. She said she would like to try, but it's my decision. She hasn't mentioned it outside of these two convos. Tinder and shite was my idea but I'm removing that. Seems like trouble. Will find another way to find a third.
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 11:19 pm
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:18 pm to
quote:

I know her messenger password


This isnt going to end well. I dont even know my wifes passwords for social media, nor do i ever touch her phone and go through her messages ect. If you have to be this hands on with her just cut bait now.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86462 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:18 pm to
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I let her live her life and be who she is. It's why our relationship works. I don't tell her what to do. I trust her to make the smart decision. Girl really is insanely intelligent. Don't know how she is with someone who makes fart and dad jokes 24 hours a day.


So you’re insecure and this is your last ditch effort to “keep” her?

Now it makes more sense.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:20 pm to
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This isnt going to end well. I dont even know my wifes passwords for social media, nor do i ever touch her phone and go through her messages ect. If you have to be this hands on with her just cut bait now.



I didn't ask for it. She uses the same password for everything(i've warned her about it but won't listen). Has nothing to do with being hands on.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:22 pm to
oh ok
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:22 pm to
No. Our relationship has been quite amazing. So not worried she leaves me if I don't let this happen, at all actually.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:24 pm to
I only go on her phone mind you to play clash royale. She joined to play with me but she isn't very good. So help her out a bit.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64718 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:26 pm to
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I only go on her phone mind you to play clash royale. She joined to play with me but she isn't very good. So help her out a bit.



So you know all of her social media passwords AND you go on her phone to play games?


I don't know, this seems a bit much to me.


No way this lasts.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20261 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:28 pm to
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She has made out with a few girls and enjoyed it, but just isn't emotionally attached to females and never gone further. So thinking about letting her open an an account I have access to on Tinder or Feeld and let her start talking to a few girls.



another person is another person, period. doesn't matter if it's a girl or guy. if you don't want her screwing and making out with other dudes, you should't put up with it for other girls. same result in the end.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:28 pm to
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I only go on her phone mind you to play clash royale. She joined to play with me but she isn't very good. So help her out a bit.


This all sounds so odd.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:28 pm to
I know her password because it's the same for everything..literally everything. Why is playing games on her phone a bit much lol..wtf?
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29757 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 11:30 pm to
Once again it's odd how? Clash Royale my clan has minimum requirements.

For her to be in my clan, she has to be at 3200 trophies. I keep her above that so we can be in the same clan. Why is that perplexing? If she isn't in my clan she would quit. I enjoy being able to play 2v2 with my GF. It's quite fun. So I keep her account good enough to stay in my clan so I can have fun with her.


I'm assuming most of you are over 40. Most gamers would understand this rationale.
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 11:31 pm
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