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re: Getting phone calls from too long ago ex's current heaux.

Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:22 pm to
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:22 pm to
Yes, I am and you will be too one day.

Have a Happy and safe Labor day, troll.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42506 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:24 pm to
quote:

How can I get rid of her? I am not going to try to explain my "relationship" with him to her because there is nothing to explain.


Stop talking to him. Plain and simple. Just because he is your friend, he is your ex. Which puts her in a shitty jealous situation as long as you two talk. just have some respect for their relationship and stay out of it all together. If they break up, resume your friendship.
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:33 pm to
I am not sure what kind of relationship they even have, if any. I only assume she's a current g/f. She could be someone he once dated.

What I do know is that he is always doing stuff ALONE. Like going to New Orleans. I'm down there taking care of mom and dad more than I am in BR and he doesn't call me to say "Hey, I'm going to Weds. at the Square, come meet me" or "Let's go have a drink."

There is nothing going on and I don't talk to him that much.

However, I did call him to ask who she is and he said she's crazy. I told him if he's dating crazy then he deserves whatever he gets.

I don't have time for her or her drama.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:35 pm to
quote:

why can't you respect her wishes?






Why should she give a frick about her wishes. Tigress doesn't know her and damn sure doesn't owe her a damn thing. That woman's insecurities are her own. frick her for bringing drama into tigress's life. frick that guy for not controlling his bitch any better than that. If I'm dating a woman and she calls anyone on my contact list she can go on down the road. The guy not being embarrassed by his Gf's behavior speaks volumes
Posted by TigahRag
Sorting Out OT BS Since 2005
Member since May 2005
132775 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:38 pm to
Would you still frick him, Tigress ?
Posted by AFtigerFan
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2008
3795 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:44 pm to
Since she said this:

quote:

I told him if he's dating crazy then he deserves whatever he gets.


The answer is clearly yes.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13993 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:48 pm to
quote:

That's what I don't get. He said she's jealous.

It's so stupid I am having trouble comprehending it all.


I agree. I think he needs to give her the boot.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

Would you still frick him, Tigress ?

I think that is obvious at this point.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108755 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:58 pm to
My guess is this isn't the first married man you text and email and flirt with.
Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

I don't know if her number is a cell phone number.


send it anyways....you'll get a bounce back if it don't got thru.

but just keep it simple, don't explain anything, just

[ please stop calling me ]

besides, it'll be on record should this later get out of control
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:13 pm to
I assume she's repeatedly calling you and that it isn't just a one-time thing. If she's bombarding you with calls, ask her why. Be respectful and truthful. If that doesn't do the trick then you don't have to take her calls, just block her.

There's no reason to cut off your friend from way back over some random insecure chick.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59454 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:21 pm to
Calm down.

I agree that it's the other woman's problem, but they're spilling over to RSTs problems. There's one sure way to get her to be left alone. Isn't that what the op asked?
Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
35690 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

I assume she's repeatedly calling you and that it isn't just a one-time thing.


Is this accurate? I got the impression chick called her once.
?


RDT,

What troubles me is the fact that you say you don't know how to get this chick to leave you alone.

Which would be...to ignore her calls.
Grammar school playground shite. SMH.

Even more troubling is that you've gone ahead and dug yourself a hole with a woman that you've already been told is mentally unstable. Maybe your ex is full of shite, and just wants her discredited for his own reasons.

Like...he's gotten bad news from the clinic, and he's too much of a scumbag to inform former lovers.

No slight intended, but you're old enough to know better.
Posted by BengalBen
Midwest
Member since May 2008
2501 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:10 pm to
1. You calling her a "heaux" and you don't even know her tells me all I need to know.
2. Over 50 and posting this on the OT tells me more than I need to know.
3. You say she has no reason to be jealous....that's not for you to decide.
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:49 pm to
quote:

Would you still frick him, Tigress ?


I can't remember if I did him 35 years ago and certainly wouldn't now.

If I can't remember...
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

I can't remember if I did him 35 years ago and certainly wouldn't now. If I can't remember...

Why is his friendship so important?
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:53 pm to
quote:

My guess is this isn't the first married man you text and email and flirt with.


He is not married but divorced. I know other family members: Sister, brother-in-law, parents. I met his kids.

This woman has more to be jealous of the ex wife than of me.

Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:54 pm to
Why are your friends so important?

Friends good.

Enemies bad.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135054 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:56 pm to
Jealousy is hot.



How many times has he knocked the dust off?
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21738 posts
Posted on 9/7/15 at 2:57 pm to
quote:

How many times has he knocked the dust off?


I don't know what you mean?
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