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re: Getting financially screwed in divorce
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:36 pm to crazyatthecamp
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:36 pm to crazyatthecamp
I got married at 19 and it only lasted 8 months. I use to beat myself up about it all the time but damn after seeing so many of my buddies just pay out the frickin arse over the years I got off pretty good. 32 now with an incredible Hispanic woman. 
frick them white chicks man. Ain't worth it.
frick them white chicks man. Ain't worth it.
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Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:40 pm to crazyatthecamp
Don't get divorced. Let her suffer. Kick the bucket all the way down.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:44 pm to crazyatthecamp
My first divorce was a mutual agreement. I agreed to pay a certain amount child support and that was that. My second one was horrible at first until I found out her secret (drugs) and when she told me we were going to court, I told her come on, but I promise you when it’s said and done, you’ll be the one in hand cuffs. She ended with just the car…
Good luck
Good luck
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:46 pm to Furlong the Red
I mean I don't miss her.
She stopped church and overall was a crap wife. Only cared for the kids.
It didn't start like that. But that's how she is.
She has been an a-hole through this all.
I believe she is switching teams. Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll in influencing her.
She stopped church and overall was a crap wife. Only cared for the kids.
It didn't start like that. But that's how she is.
She has been an a-hole through this all.
I believe she is switching teams. Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll in influencing her.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:47 pm to crazyatthecamp
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I believe she is switching teams.
Damn man. You were so beta you made her gay?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:50 pm to crazyatthecamp
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Me 49. Her 37.
shite baw. It’s gonna be hard to find a younger one.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:50 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
It's real funny isn't it?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:52 pm to crazyatthecamp
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Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll in influencing her.
When a woman starts listening to her friends, your relationship is 1000% over. You could be a fricking oil baron + superman and they will do/ say anything to convince her she deserves better.
She's probably not turning gay though. At best, she might experiment like a lot of women in her situation do.
This post was edited on 2/22/24 at 7:54 pm
Posted on 2/22/24 at 7:58 pm to crazyatthecamp
Get a paternity test.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:02 pm to crazyatthecamp
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age. She pulled me back and launched herself ahead.
Take solace in the fact you are not the first man to say this. Unfortunate yes - but it is what it is. Make recovery a challenge. I did and I'm actually better off.
Two things for you - weight pile and cash pile. Make them both happen even if it seems impossible now - it isn't.
This post was edited on 2/22/24 at 8:09 pm
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:07 pm to crazyatthecamp
quote:pics?
Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:12 pm to crazyatthecamp
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There is no cheating or abuse or anything. She is just a different person.
Hmm….
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I should have divorced her years ago and saved some cash and stress but I really valued the family for the kids.
I mean…sounds like you’ve resented her for years. Maybe that’s why she filed and went HAM in court?
Water under the bridge now I guess. It sounds like you might be in danger of being a worse parent because of your bitterness towards her. Try not to let that happen.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:13 pm to crazyatthecamp
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believe she is switching teams. Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll in influencing her.
Subtle tongue reference with the eggcorn.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:18 pm to BigBinBR
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And all about the kids (2 under 12)quote:I should have divorced her years ago and saved some cash and stress but I really valued the family for the kids. If you knew years ago that you wanted to divorce her, then why did you have another kid with her?
Better question is if you knew or even suspected that yall might get divorced, why didn’t you go find a divorce attorney and start coming up with a plan for when one of yall finally had enough? Also why did you get married without a prenup?
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:21 pm to crazyatthecamp
If you have good records, a good attorney can segregate what you had before marriage from wfat was built up whole married.
You are upset and for good reason but you really need to not let this impact your parenting. The kids don’t deserve that.
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Going to be hard to co parent with this outcome and see her on a regular basis.
You are upset and for good reason but you really need to not let this impact your parenting. The kids don’t deserve that.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:23 pm to crazyatthecamp
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I believe she is switching teams. Mostly lesbians for friends and they had a major roll in influencing her.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:24 pm to crazyatthecamp
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:27 pm to crazyatthecamp
Your lawyer should have given you my divorce speech.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:28 pm to WeeWee
I should have had a prenup. Now that I have gone through it ...I believe they should be mandatory.
I also should have been more willing to divorce her despite the kids. I believed I was doing the noble thing. Maybe it was just enabling her because she knew I wouldn't leave because of the kids. So at some level she took advantage of that and was never in a position where she needed to change.
Venting to the OT. Not my style. But there are some good gems of advice out there.
I am a great Dad. I just will be stuck having her crazy arse as a co parent.
Time to make money and create a better life despite a giant financial setback and a lifestyle change.
She makes bank outta this deal. And she has been the major problem this whole time. This irks me.
I will let it go. But hard when she is hovering.
I also should have been more willing to divorce her despite the kids. I believed I was doing the noble thing. Maybe it was just enabling her because she knew I wouldn't leave because of the kids. So at some level she took advantage of that and was never in a position where she needed to change.
Venting to the OT. Not my style. But there are some good gems of advice out there.
I am a great Dad. I just will be stuck having her crazy arse as a co parent.
Time to make money and create a better life despite a giant financial setback and a lifestyle change.
She makes bank outta this deal. And she has been the major problem this whole time. This irks me.
I will let it go. But hard when she is hovering.
Posted on 2/22/24 at 8:35 pm to crazyatthecamp
I’m divorced three times. I’ve got nothing for ya
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