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re: Gay man denied communion in Amite church

Posted on 7/20/15 at 10:59 pm to
Posted by lsufan112001
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 10:59 pm to
Posted by soccerfüt on 7/20/15 at 10:41 pm to lsufan112001
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I know the guy in discussion, he's always been a shitass

His "husband" could give more detail to this point, n'est-ce pas?
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Even his family was pissed at him. At the church
Posted by BRgetthenet
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 10:59 pm to
Prolly a thyroid issue, and this economy sucks.


Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:06 pm to
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You know that's bullshite.



You ought to read the diocese statement on this specific case and the catechism on the subject matter in general.

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But who else did this priest deny communion to?


Yeah, IDK.

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Did he deny it to a ridiculously fat person for gluttony? How about the guy whose been living in his parents' basement for 15 years off of sloth? I think he should be an equal opportunity offender here if he's going after a gay guy.



These are hypos that I know nothing about so IDK.

But why would this gay guy want to be part of the Church where his beliefs are incompatible with the Church's teachings?

This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 11:08 pm
Posted by RollTide1987
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:16 pm to
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So he should be turned away?


Yes. As Catholics believe the Eucharist is the actual body and blood of Jesus Christ, giving communion to a person in a state of mortal sin is downright sacrilege. If the priest knows of this mortal sin, it is his duty to refuse communion to the person or else risk endangering his own immortal soul.
Posted by RollTide1987
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Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:20 pm to
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that would disqualify a lot of high level people in that organization


Possibly. But imperfect =/= unrepentant.
Posted by Speedy G
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:24 pm to
It was at his mother's funeral, you idiots.
Posted by BRgetthenet
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:24 pm to
Oh. Really?

Didn't read; don't care
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:25 pm to
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Possibly. But imperfect =/= unrepentant.


so THAT's how they rationalize it


not that I care.
Posted by RollTide1987
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:27 pm to
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It was at his mother's funeral, you idiots.


And this somehow makes it okay for him to be given the host while living in a state of mortal sin? The priest knew he was gay, knew he was married to his lover, and therefore knew the man was not sorry for living in a state of mortal sin.

If the priest would have gone ahead and given him the Eucharist anyway, that puts the priest in a state of mortal sin.
Posted by RollTide1987
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Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:28 pm to
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so THAT's how they rationalize it


I don't know if or how they rationalize such behaviors. It is my personal belief that any priest or bishop or cardinal who violates their vows (whether that be by molesting boys or sexing up grown men/women) should be defrocked.
Posted by lsu2006
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:31 pm to
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It is forbidden by God to have communion if there is unconfessed sin. If a person is living a gay life, that would imply unconfessed/unrepentant sin, therefore should not engage in communion. Even if it weren't forbidden, it would still be stupid and pointless. Anyone living is sin obviously isn't following Jesus. There is a difference between living in sin and being imperfect.


So fricking absurd.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:49 pm to
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But why would this gay guy want to be part of the Church where his beliefs are incompatible with the Church's teachings?



Was he supposed to not show up at his mother's funeral simply because he was gay? It's not as if he directly murdered her or anything.
Posted by Dandy Lion
Member since Feb 2010
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:51 pm to
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Howyouluhdat

Well done man, well done.
Posted by OMLandshark
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:53 pm to
Oh, and by the way, read this portion:

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He said he still believes in the Catholic faith but isn’t sure of his “place” in the church.

Toward the end of his mother’s life, the two would pray together; she signed the cross on her leg when she couldn’t lift her hands higher. They prayed the rosary together the last time they saw each other, Ardillo said.

He had thought the funeral would serve as a reintroduction into the Catholic community, but not anymore.

“I can’t,” he said. “I don’t have it in me.”


Do you really think that had he not been gay he would have grown away from the church? No, it's the hypocrisy of the church accepting all but that one sin as a part of their congregation. It's really sad that murderers and rapists are treated better by the church than law abiding citizens.
Posted by PowerTool
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:54 pm to
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But why would this gay guy want to be part of the Church where his beliefs are incompatible with the Church's teachings?


Was he supposed to not show up at his mother's funeral simply because he was gay? It's not as if he directly murdered her or anything.


He could simply have abstained from communion, as many do. And he could have accepted the blessing without running out to call the media.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:57 pm to
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Was he supposed to not show up at his mother's funeral simply because he was gay?


Now you're making things up.

I've been to weddings funerals and regular mass where priest regularly states that if you are not in a state of grace, don't receive communion.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
140573 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 12:03 am to
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Do you really think that had he not been gay he would have grown away from the church?


You keep saying this but it's not true. There are many many gay people in the Church. There are ZERO SSMs in the Church. You're smart enough to know the difference, I think.

He moved away from the Church. The Church did not move away from him.
Posted by LeonPhelps
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 12:07 am to
Reading that story, there seem to be a lot of gay people in that family. I don't know of a single gay person in my entire extended family, including both parents siblings and cousins and my siblings, nieces, nephews, and cousins. I've never thought about that fact before.
Posted by RollTide1987
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Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 12:14 am to
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It's really sad that murderers and rapists are treated better by the church than law abiding citizens.


Kind of like how Jesus would hang out with sinners instead of keeping it down home with the righteous, huh? The Church is a hospital for sinners. If a murderer or a rapist comes to the Church with a heart looking to repent and and a soul looking for forgiveness, the Church does not deny that to them. However, it is a different story when a man walks into church with his husband, presenting his sin to the world as well as presenting his desire not to repent for that sin.

Christ loved sinners but he also commanded them to sin no more once he had forgiven them of those sins. This man clearly continues to sin, no matter the fact that he is law abiding.
Posted by Mr Gardoki
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 12:40 am to
Did anyone here actually read the article? The church didn't exactly back up this priest's actions.
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