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re: Funeral dress in 2022?

Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:04 am to
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
21333 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:04 am to
quote:

someone from work passed


Work, as in CPA firm, or a machine shop? Might make a difference.

Dress has been surprisingly casual at the ones I've attended in recent years, even where the deceased and family/friends were white collar. Very few suits, and often just a handful of coats or ties.

Most visitations are even more casual. I've seen nurse scrubs, shorts and crocs, you name it.

I'm pro casual in general, but even I am often surprised at what folks wear to funerals these days.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21656 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:20 am to
I want everyone to wear what they wore on their wedding day for my funeral. The women should thank me for giving them an opportunity to wear their overpriced dress one more time.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19934 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:22 am to
Slutty.

Have you ever seen wedding crashers?
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
20733 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:42 am to
If its close family, a suit.

If its not, blazer, button down, khakis.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:50 am to
Depends on the deceased and family of deceased.

Funerals are for the living, not the dead.
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
46425 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 8:58 am to
Last funeral I went to I wore a black suit, black button-down, no tie, and kinda felt overdressed compared to everyone else.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:01 am to
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Last funeral I went to I wore a black suit, black button-down, no tie, and kinda felt overdressed compared to everyone else.


Honestly the last few I've been to I was TOLD not to dress up.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
7311 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:18 am to
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My uncle passed and his daughter told us the funeral would be casual. I wore a dark suit, white dress shirt with cufflinks, silver tie and black dress shoes. That is as casual as I get at a funeral. I did wear some football themed socks though, not to be casual but just bc he liked football.


I've been to quite a few funerals where folks were asked to wear a certain color that meant something to the deceased. A good friend asked folks to wear bright colors or florals because her husband loved the beach and wore Hawaiian shirts a lot. I asked folks to wear red because my hubby was a huge Alabama fan. That kind of stuff is reasonably common, especially if the deceased isn't really old. But it's not casual..just meaningful.

With no instructions, just not a super bright color, nice slacks or dress for women and at the very least dress pants and a nice shirt for men. Older men usually wear a dress shirt and tie and younger sometime just wear a nice shirt.
Posted by Alt26
Member since Mar 2010
35564 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:24 am to
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Most visitations are even more casual. I've seen nurse scrubs, shorts and crocs, you name it.


Often times with visitations people are leaving work for a few minutes to come by and offer their condolences to the family or stopping by right after work. I understand why they may not be "formally" dressed in that instance (even though I plan ahead and dress nice even though I'm just stopping in quickly for a visitation).

But if you are attending the funeral service wear a damn suit and tie to show respect for both the deceased and their family. Sure, it may not be "comfortable", but it's not about you.
Posted by nobigdeal69
baton rouge
Member since Nov 2009
2279 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:30 am to
I would never attend a funeral in anything other than a dark suit.
Posted by El Tigre Grande
Bayou Self
Member since Jan 2006
2656 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:30 am to
As mentioned, lots of variables involved.
Standard for me is slacks, starched shirt and blazer.
Again, depending on the situation.
Posted by Ostrich
Alexandria, VA
Member since Nov 2011
10318 posts
Posted on 10/5/22 at 9:33 am to
I went to a younger person's funeral once who was a big sports fan. They specifically asked everyone to wear their favorite sports teams jersey/shirt in his honor. Unless it's like that, you wear a suit/tie.
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