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re: For those that thought divorce would be awesome..
Posted on 12/17/16 at 1:03 am to Tyga Woods
Posted on 12/17/16 at 1:03 am to Tyga Woods
My divorce is going so great that it is like a freaking miracle. He cheated, got very busted, I had ample proof and I moved out. I did not take any community property nor do i want any. Unfortunately for him all of the furniture, TVs, big appliances, vehicles, etc, belong to me (bought by me before marriage, or gifts from my family)) so I took them, he was left with No TVs, no bedroom furniture, no washer or dryer, No freezer, etc. he thought he had a right to all of it and he was so wrong about that, lol!!
He thought I was broke (inheritance money) and had spent all my money- nope I hid it from him because I was tired if him demanding hundreds of dollars every week for stupid stuff. Nor did I tell him about moms life insurance benefits, inheritance from my gram, Bank CD's etc. The money keeps flowing in like a dream. Meanwhile he cant even afford to pay his bills or afford another vehicle, lol. He can't even afford a lawyer.
It's a big win for me. i am thrilled with what he did, I didn't screw him over- he did that to himself, lol!!
We have no kids together so no problems there.
He thought I was broke (inheritance money) and had spent all my money- nope I hid it from him because I was tired if him demanding hundreds of dollars every week for stupid stuff. Nor did I tell him about moms life insurance benefits, inheritance from my gram, Bank CD's etc. The money keeps flowing in like a dream. Meanwhile he cant even afford to pay his bills or afford another vehicle, lol. He can't even afford a lawyer.
It's a big win for me. i am thrilled with what he did, I didn't screw him over- he did that to himself, lol!!
We have no kids together so no problems there.
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Posted on 12/17/16 at 1:57 am to Tyga Woods
Sounds like u made your decision already so take action....at 36 if you are a pretty good-lookin dude and take care of yourself then you have at least a decade of some good runnin' and gunnin'...be committed, loving dad when u have the kids and have a lil fun when they are with mom....best of both worlds....just make sure you properly grieve loss ot marriage and idea of perfect family life before you go play cuz if not you can get yourself in some dark places
Posted on 12/17/16 at 2:15 am to gingerkittie
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It's a big win for me. i am thrilled with what he did, I didn't screw him over- he did that to himself, lol!!
well, that's your side of the story, even if true, you should feel lucky for being the one in possession of the vagina in this saga because if the genders were reversed, you'd still be paying out of the arse regardless
Posted on 12/17/16 at 7:28 am to Tyga Woods
I read a few pages and saw what you said. I think you are being very selfish. Ask yourself how much you share with her. Will you do without a new toy for yourself to make sure that all her needs, and some are dumb as hell, are met? Do you work at a job that pays well but is hard or pays poorly but is easy? Do you get off your arse and work at home, drive the kids around or go get groceries. Life isn't a bowl of cherries, son, be a man first. If you know in your heart that you've given everything you have emotionally and financially to support this woman who is frustrated because she has four, yes four, imbeciles to care for then go find a peaceful place. I think that you are the cause of the anger and now you want to slink away like a weak bitch
Posted on 12/17/16 at 7:33 am to Walking the Earth
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Meh, the kids are probably pretty miserable if the home environment is as rotten as described.
They probably are. Mine split when i was 9 and although it was hard at first we all came out okay in the end.
OP and wife need to stay amicable at least in front of the kids. Constant fighting takes its toll on them.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 7:55 am to Breesus
You're such a fricking dumbass. You've got to be the shittiest poster on this website.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 1:59 pm to Tyga Woods
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support...should leave me with 2/3 of current income
Trust me...if she's a good mother, you're not walking away with 2/3's of your income.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 2:04 pm to gingerkittie
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gingerkittie
But who is going to be the matriarch on the cult compound?
Posted on 12/17/16 at 2:05 pm to 75503Tiger
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I read a few pages and saw what you said. I think you are being very selfish. Ask yourself how much you share with her. Will you do without a new toy for yourself to make sure that all her needs, and some are dumb as hell, are met? Do you work at a job that pays well but is hard or pays poorly but is easy? Do you get off your arse and work at home, drive the kids around or go get groceries. Life isn't a bowl of cherries, son, be a man first. If you know in your heart that you've given everything you have emotionally and financially to support this woman who is frustrated because she has four, yes four, imbeciles to care for then go find a peaceful place. I think that you are the cause of the anger and now you want to slink away like a weak bitch
Your wife bangs others and makes you watch. Admit it.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 2:06 pm to Tyga Woods
OP LISTEN CLOSELY.
Get a side piece and keep your frickin mouth shut.
Get a side piece and keep your frickin mouth shut.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 2:07 pm to UF
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Your wife bangs others and makes you watch. Admit
Mine makes me wait outside the bedroom and let's me in to clean up the creampie after.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 3:25 pm to Tyga Woods
If I don't come home to my kids each night then that alone is a reason to never divorce.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:14 pm to gingerkittie
Gotta love the down-votes. I figured I would be overwhelmingly be down-voted because there are a majority of guys here. But i didnt screw him over, not at all. He did it to himself. So I am curious, why down vote me? Nit that it hurts my feelings as i thought it was pretty funny actually.
He cheated, he wanted his gf (who he met just a week or two ago) to move in so i left. It didnt hurt my feelings any, I happily left. I see it as a complete blessing that he met this ho. i can divorce him with knowing that the fault is his. I'm not saying i am a perfect person but i was faithful, brought lots of money and property into the relationship.
Over the years I have given him thousands of dollars in cash and property (guns, vehicles, farm equipment, etc) which he still has and I do not want. It is community property so I surely could ask for half of it.I didn't take community property, he still has the truck that I (and mama) paid for and I don't want any of his property or house.
Everything I took was legally mine and bought before marriage. He thought my inheritance should be turned over for him for him to handle since he is the man. I have no problem with a husband handling finances but ONLY if he is intelligent, faithful and respects and cares for his wife. He did not meet that criteria at all.
So what did I do in this scenario that caused you to down-vote other than I am GingerKittie and yet another woman y'all see as getting everything. Why all the down votes? Just curious.
He cheated, he wanted his gf (who he met just a week or two ago) to move in so i left. It didnt hurt my feelings any, I happily left. I see it as a complete blessing that he met this ho. i can divorce him with knowing that the fault is his. I'm not saying i am a perfect person but i was faithful, brought lots of money and property into the relationship.
Over the years I have given him thousands of dollars in cash and property (guns, vehicles, farm equipment, etc) which he still has and I do not want. It is community property so I surely could ask for half of it.I didn't take community property, he still has the truck that I (and mama) paid for and I don't want any of his property or house.
Everything I took was legally mine and bought before marriage. He thought my inheritance should be turned over for him for him to handle since he is the man. I have no problem with a husband handling finances but ONLY if he is intelligent, faithful and respects and cares for his wife. He did not meet that criteria at all.
So what did I do in this scenario that caused you to down-vote other than I am GingerKittie and yet another woman y'all see as getting everything. Why all the down votes? Just curious.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:29 pm to gingerkittie
I see nothing wrong with any of it, inheritance isn't community property so he wasn't entitled to any of it.
I believe most of the grieve from males stems from the fact that the court system is heavily in favor of the woman when it comes to child support, community property, alimony, visitation, etc....,,
I believe most of the grieve from males stems from the fact that the court system is heavily in favor of the woman when it comes to child support, community property, alimony, visitation, etc....,,
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:32 pm to RabidTiger
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But who is going to be the matriarch on the cult compound?
Gotta love when y'all call it a cult or compound. I was never the "matriach", his mother is and then it will be my DIL and then our crown princess grand-girl.
His parents have disinherited him as this is his 4th divorce. They will give his portion to his kids. My ex's gf will never inherit a penny nor will she ever be a matriarch. Considering his and her track record, she wont last long. He is already cheating on her,
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:43 pm to gingerkittie
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He cheated, he wanted his gf (who he met just a week or two ago) to move in so i left.
Your posts confuse me. Over a month ago, you said you'd left the family compound.
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Now, he's only met the new gf a few weeks ago, he wanted her to move in, so you left which would have been recently. Something's not right.
So, you married a guy who had already been divorced 3 times?
This post was edited on 12/17/16 at 5:01 pm
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:43 pm to gingerkittie
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this is his 4th divorce
I didn't downvote your earlier post but wtf were you thinking even giving him your digits?
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:44 pm to 777Tiger
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well, that's your side of the story, even if true, you should feel lucky for being the one in possession of the vagina in this saga because if the genders were reversed, you'd still be paying out of the arse regardless
While that may be the norm, I am the exception. i saw my mom and how she was awful to my dad during the divorce and in court. I swore never to do that to my husband or child.
In my first divorce I gave my husband everything- the house, the new truck (which I paid for)and never asked for a penny from him.
All I wanted where my personal possessions - no furniture, nothing like that. I had no problem giving him all of that because I had been with him for almost 2 decades and he is an great guy. He knows I am a good woman and if he needed money now, i would happily give it to him.
He chose a lawyer, drew up papers and I signed them. Over and done. We raised our child with no fighting or drama. My son was always put first. We are still great friends. Easy as hell and no disagreements over anything.
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:48 pm to gingerkittie
You get downvotes bc everyone here hates you
Posted on 12/17/16 at 4:52 pm to gingerkittie
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Easy as hell and no disagreements over anything.
I get along great with my baby mama's now.
This post was edited on 12/19/16 at 8:29 am
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