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For older married folks in here....
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:11 pm
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:11 pm
Given the stress of raising kids can have on a relationship, did your sex life get better once the kids were gone and you had an empty nest?
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Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:14 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
Yep 
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:16 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
Ours never really got that bad once we didn't have infants or toddlers anymore.
We are probably 5 years away from being empty nesters.
We are probably 5 years away from being empty nesters.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:17 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
I’ve been told that it does....but by then, you’re too old to give a damn! 
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:18 pm to Spankum
With the little blue pill??? 
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:28 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
You’re going to miss the babysitter sex
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:30 pm to Spankum
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I’ve been told that it does....but by then, you’re too old to give a damn!
Au contraire
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:31 pm to Spankum
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I’ve been told that it does....but by then, you’re too old to give a damn!
I should be about 48 when we are empty nesters. Hopefully I'll still have plenty of a sex drive left at that age. Hell, I already don't have one of a 25 year old anymore
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:33 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
You get to go back to walking around naked....button you are old, wrinkled, and saggy so your partner is not as enticed as in your 20s
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:56 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
Kids made little difference for us. We've always had a very active sex life. But once menopause hit and was done her drive went way down. What was 5 times a week for years (seriously) turned into once every 2 to 3 weeks. Bad thing is my drive is the same. Frustrating.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 1:59 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
you mean like in your 40's or 50's? I doubt it.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:05 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Once you retire you will discover that a good day is when the bed has to be made up more than once.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:08 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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you mean like in your 40's or 50's? I doubt it.
I don't know how old you are but you'll still want sex fairly regularly in your 40s if you have a typical sex drive
I suspect 50s too but I'm not there yet.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:12 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
Nope
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:19 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
My strategy w kids depends on the door locks and I can fit my hand over her mouth
Won’t have to do either in 9 more years
Won’t have to do either in 9 more years
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:39 pm to Spankum
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I’ve been told that it does....but by then, you’re too old to give a damn!
You've been misinformed.
As women get into their mid 30's through their late 40's, their sexual appetites increase. Kind of nature's way of going "You're down to just a few eggs, make 'em count".
Ask some of the older single men here who have dated (read: banged) divorced women in that age group what their sex drives are like.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:41 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
You need to make time NOW. No one is guaranteed tomorrow and once your kids grow up, all you’ll have is your spouse. You don’t want to grow apart. You need to put your marriage first or it won’t be there when your kids are gone.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:44 pm to DesScorp
Hell, I'm 70 and the wife is 68 and sex is always on my mind ... and she is still obliging at least once a week and more if the setting is right. Having the kids away is definitely once less hurdle.
Posted on 1/9/21 at 2:45 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
i can tell you that your sex life gets better after divorce
Posted on 1/9/21 at 3:08 pm to Hammond Tiger Fan
Let me be honest. My wife lost interest after menopause to a degree, but then she got breast cancer. She’s fine but has to take a medicine that basically represses it. We’re both 62 so it doesn’t happen often anymore, but it’s more due to age and health. We were fine in our 40’s but age takes it toll on both sexes.
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