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For married OTers, could you handle your spouse having an emotional affair/connection?
Posted on 3/30/24 at 10:57 am
Posted on 3/30/24 at 10:57 am
Lets say they came to you and said they had feelings for another person but it hadn't gotten physical at all (hypothetical so assume its true), would you instantly file for divorce or try to work through it?
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Posted on 3/30/24 at 10:58 am to Nayab
I'd go sleep with her sister
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:06 am to Nayab
Define emotional affair
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:08 am to Nayab
Go ask that Auburn poster that came here gushing & boohooing last year after his wife found out about his emotional support sidepiece.
What was his name? I forget
What was his name? I forget
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:20 am to Nayab
A real emotional affair is just as bad as her riding strange cock. I’m talking an ongoing intimate connection kept secret for some time.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:25 am to Nayab
It depends. Is she talking to them a lot and not talking to me? Is it also football season?
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:26 am to PrecedentedTimes
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Go ask that Auburn poster that came here gushing & boohooing last year after his wife found out about his emotional support sidepiece.
What was his name? I forget
What a fricking disaster that was, and a disgrace to the great Macho Man (RIPip).
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:34 am to LegendInMyMind
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Lets say they came to you and said they had feelings for another person but it hadn't gotten physical at all
If she’s telling you this, he’s already fricked her every which way but loose. Sorry baw.
This post was edited on 3/30/24 at 11:38 am
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:36 am to Nayab
Start siphoning off money and assets you made or purchased and find creative ways to hide or loan off the books. Prepare for the coming divorce.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:37 am to Allthatfades
You quoted me, but his ain't my problem, baw.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:38 am to Nayab
There was a guy who posted here a couple months ago about this. He said his GF accused him of having an "emotional affair" with a girl he worked with. He would be the guy to talk to.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:47 am to Nayab
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Lets say they came to you and said they had feelings for another person but it hadn't gotten physical at all (hypothetical so assume its true), would you instantly file for divorce or try to work through it?
That's infidelity. Non-physcial. They have betrayed the marriage or relationship. Dump her arse.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:48 am to Allthatfades
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If she’s telling you this, he’s already fricked her every which way but loose. Sorry baw.
She's let him put it in places she'd never let her husband go.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 11:58 am to Nayab
Same way I would approach a physical one.
Generally speaking, men derive connection from sex where woman typically require an emotional connection before sex. If she is in a non-physical relationship with another man then everything required for them to start having sex already exists. So an emotional affair (from my perspective as a guy) is no different than a physical one.
So I guess the question is, whether my marriage could survive an affair of any kind. I believe it can but I’ve never been there so who knows how I’d react. Lots of guys say they’d do this or that but man, I really don’t think any of us actually know what it’s like for that hand grenade to go off on your life.
Generally speaking, men derive connection from sex where woman typically require an emotional connection before sex. If she is in a non-physical relationship with another man then everything required for them to start having sex already exists. So an emotional affair (from my perspective as a guy) is no different than a physical one.
So I guess the question is, whether my marriage could survive an affair of any kind. I believe it can but I’ve never been there so who knows how I’d react. Lots of guys say they’d do this or that but man, I really don’t think any of us actually know what it’s like for that hand grenade to go off on your life.
This post was edited on 3/30/24 at 12:00 pm
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:06 pm to Nayab
Baw, if they haven't had sex yet it's purely due to logistics or distance.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:06 pm to Nayab
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Lets say they came to you and said they had feelings for another person but it hadn't gotten physical at all
that means they have already fricked at least a dozen times already, but she still wants you to financially support her lifestyle because jody wont.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:08 pm to Nayab
It depends on what the other girl looks like.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:09 pm to Nayab
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would you instantly file for divorce
Not instantly, no. I'd thank her for the heads up and start getting shite ready for it, though.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:09 pm to Nayab
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would you instantly file for divorce
Pretty much.
Though I’m also of the mindset that 90% of dudes that get cheated on deserve it.
Posted on 3/30/24 at 12:21 pm to StringedInstruments
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Though I’m also of the mindset that 90% of dudes that get cheated on deserve it.
I’d say 90% of adultery is probably avoidable.
Saying they all deserve it seems a little harsh.
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