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re: Family Court: The Problem with White Parents Raising Black Children
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:26 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:26 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
What does the dad think about all this?
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Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:28 pm to Beessnax
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The biological mother has the right to do exactly what she did.
If she formally gave up the children and/or they were adopted through the child care system no she doesn't.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:28 pm to northLAgoomba
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Can they appeal the judge's ruling to a higher court?
I'm not sure to be honest. I know this was a hearing on whether she could start the adoption process or whether the bio mom's rights would be upheld.
Either way, custody has been transferred so I THINK the kids would be staying with the bio mom while things are hashed out. Very unlikely she ever sees them again.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:29 pm to Bluefin
quote:
What does the dad think about all this?
Which one?
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:29 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
Wait, how the hell did she have them for so long and didn't adopt?
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:30 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
Why didn’t the foster Mom adopt?
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:32 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
It doesn't get any easier.
Buy the bitch off. $10,000 the day the adoption is final.
She will run to sign the papers.
Buy the bitch off. $10,000 the day the adoption is final.
She will run to sign the papers.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:34 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I can say this from experience. When you are a kid in a bad situation, you just want stability. To be damned with what race the person is taking care of you.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:35 pm to Jcorye1
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Wait, how the hell did she have them for so long and didn't adopt?
Without consent, it becomes a contested adoption, which requires a TPR for the biological parent(s). This triggers due process and a right to counsel. You also run into legal presumptions that favor reunification, which causes all kinds of delays and such.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:35 pm to SavageOrangeJug
This is the best answer most likely. Buy her off and have a damn good lawyer write it up.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:35 pm to Jcorye1
quote:
Wait, how the hell did she have them for so long and didn't adopt?
I'm not familiar with the intricacies of Michigan family court, but I believe that there's a specific amount of time that must pass before you can even apply. Combine that with the fact it was contested. There was a hearing that lasted almost a year. That got overturned. There was another hearing after that with a new judge. Three years doesn't seem like that long a period.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:36 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
You’re friend should’ve known the potential outcomes without actually adopting the kids.
Also, this has almost nothing to do with race. Happens all the time with all races
Also, this has almost nothing to do with race. Happens all the time with all races
This post was edited on 3/1/20 at 8:38 pm
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:37 pm to Beessnax
quote:Im glad to hear that she will now be reimbursing the State and the foster parent for the expense incurred. That was close.
It sucks for the kids, but they are hers.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:38 pm to Bluefin
quote:Oh goodness, that is a spicy remark.
What does the dad think about all this?
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:38 pm to SavageOrangeJug
quote:
It doesn't get any easier.
Buy the bitch off. $10,000 the day the adoption is final.
She will run to sign the papers.
I'll pass this along. Much cheaper than moving countries.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:39 pm to SCLibertarian
Jeez, that's nuts. I always assumed it was 2 years at most with the real screw ups.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:40 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
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I'll pass this along. Much cheaper than moving countries.
Also look into threatening to sue the mother for all of the incurred costs of raising the kids. Not in the legal field at all and just pulled that out my arse
This post was edited on 3/1/20 at 8:41 pm
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:40 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Also, this has almost nothing to do with race. Happens all the time with all races
Well, the first judge certainly thought and said it did.
But you're right. It happens a lot, but I get the impression black with black and white with white is a commonly held belief in Wayne County.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:52 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
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But you're right. It happens a lot, but I get the impression black with black and white with white is a commonly held belief in Wayne County.
It's not just that county. Family courts look at what they "interpret" as what's best for the children involved. In a lot of cases, the court sees the "parents" as the best possible environment for the kids. The prospective adoptive mother's views are not considered.
I'm wondering why the birth mother wasn't drug tested, being as that was HER reason for giving the children up for adoption in the first place.
Posted on 3/1/20 at 8:56 pm to SavageOrangeJug
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Buy the bitch off. $10,000 the day the adoption is final.
She will run to sign the papers.
Isn't that illegal as hell? Bio mom could take the money then turn the foster mom in also. Wouldn't be a smart move for adoption mom.
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