re: Explain the incel “movement” to me like I’m an idiot

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They all seem to eventually get married, so either they go after this elusive 10-percenter and succeed, or they settle.

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That women could make herself seem less desirable, but it would take serious effort

I do. I better start pushing for a ring.

All these assholes need to go to church. Girls, women even dimes are looking for emotional and spiritual connections as well as personality. There is no better place to establish all that then in church.

You are not going to meet a girl looking to settle down, at karaoke bar or on tinder.

Also women are attracted to confidence. I have a friend who always bedded girls way over his head because he acted like Billy D Williams to chicks. Bitching about not being able to find girls on Reddit is the opposite of confidence.

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BRgetthenet

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Hiiii!

i'm not religious but considered that as an option, but church has its pitfalls, too. i have given that exact advice to lots of AFCs though

LINK

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Do a Few Sexual Alphas Dominate the Sexual Economy?

But even assuming the GSS data is correct, we can ask if another piece of the incel narrative is true. Do a few Chads and Stacies really monopolize the market for sex? Many incels quote a rule of thumb that 20% of men have 80% of the sex. Is this true?

It turns out, the answer is no. And of course, it isn’t! Imagine how much sex those 20% of men would have to be having! A substantial share would need to be doing two-a-days on a regular basis to maintain that kind of share. In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time. Measuring the number of partners instead of sexual frequency, the top 20% most promiscuous men account for about 60% of male sexual partnerings, and the trend is, again, quite stable over time. Thus, whatever the change in total sexlessness, there’s no appreciable change in the concentration of sex among never-married young men and women. The core incel story about what’s going on here—that a few Chads are hoarding a growing share of Stacies, depriving incels of mates—just doesn’t hold up.

The top 20% of unmarried men are having about the same share of total sexual activity or sexual partnerings as has been the case for decades.

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This hard-core incel group is indeed growing as a share of the male population. The NSFG’s sample size, over 1,000 never-married men between the ages of 22 and 35 with sufficient questionnaire completion to estimate sexual behavior and reasons for virginity if they have not had sex, is large enough to be decently confident of these results.

But the 68% increase from 2002 to 2015 in the incel share of the male, never-married, 22-35-year-old population is mostly due to a decline in marriage, not never-married men having less sex. Rising involuntary virginity among never-marrieds accounts for around 27 percentage points of the increase, with the other 41 percentage points coming from a declining married share of the population. It may also be that some of these “incels” are males who were formerly, or would formerly have been, religious, and while they no longer abstain for religious reasons, nonetheless they may continue to hold some degree of religious norms regarding “high standards” for a first sexual encounter.

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Go on Braincels or any other of the other incel hangouts and a sizeable percentage claim they only desire a pure virgin.

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Also women are attracted to confidence. I have a friend who always bedded girls way over his head because he acted like Billy D Williams to chicks. Bitching about not being able to find girls on Reddit is the opposite of confidence.

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Preach

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Also women are attracted to confidence. I have a friend who always bedded girls way over his head because he acted like Billy D Williams to chicks. Bitching about not being able to find girls on Reddit is the opposite of confidence.


Preach

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was going to lunch with a colleague downtown last year
ran into this chick that was looking for a specific address,, but she didnt want to walk far since it looked like rain he gave her direction to get on the light rail take the walk a couple of blocks ,,
I suggest she use the tunnels,,

I look at her and said
"my walk with get you there"

she thought I said cock and gave me her ph. #


















true story

Exactly.