re: don't ever tell your girl how much you make

We need pics of this chic to make a decision about the situation.

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You share all of these bills with someone you aren't married to?

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yes we live together

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some of the cucks here have shared bank accounts with women

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Why complicate your lives with multiple accounts if both parties are financially responsible. Having a shared account leads to better conversations about how money is spent and there are no hidden purchases. Transparency on savings, insurance, bills, everything. We tried doing separate accounts for 6 months and it was a headache for us. It helps that our income has not been that disparate throughout our marriage.

My boss had separate accounts, wife made about 6 figures, didn’t contribute anything to their bills or joint account. Just ended up leaving him. Not saying joint accounts would have helped, but there was no transparency on where her money was going - admittedly my boss is culpable on that front.

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2 or three months later she tells me she can't pay electric because she wasn't making enough money at work,

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she had racked up about $12000 of credit card debt

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You are a saver. She is a spender who has shown a propensity to want to spend all of hers. She is learning how to spend yours too.

Next time this happens, tell her to figure out how she is going to pay the electric bill because it will be hard to pack her shite in the dark.