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re: Does your mom and your wife get along?

Posted on 9/11/24 at 7:46 am to
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7101 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 7:46 am to
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I don't need my parents help. My wife needs a extra hand while I'm at work


You're being very reserved with a lot of information.

Your wife isn't going back to work, she wants her Mother in Law to come down every week for 2 days to help around the house and watch the baby while she shops and gets groceries?

My wife is 8 months pregnant with a wild 2 year old running around and cleans the entire house every week, does all laundry, gets groceries, cooks 3 square meals a day, and manages to take a 2 hour nap during the same time my kid does.

Tell your wife to sack the frick up.
Posted by Wayne Campbell
Aurora, IL
Member since Oct 2011
7162 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:05 am to
quote:

GeauxZone90


Your OP started out that she wouldn't watch the kid for 2 days, with no context. Then it turned into 2 days a week for an indeterminant amount of time. That's a big ask of someone. Was there ever a conversation about this arrangement during pregnancy?
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:10 am to
Since they’re the same person, yeah, they get along fine (except for a certain time of the month, if you know what I mean). Then they can’t stand each other or anyone else. Rough around the household at those times.

From deep in Livingston Parish.
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:12 am to
Since they’re the same person, yeah, they get along fine (except for a certain time of the month, if you know what I mean). Then they can’t stand each other or anyone else. Rough around the household at those times.

From deep in Livingston Parish.
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:12 am to
Since they’re the same person, yeah, they get along fine (except for a certain time of the month, if you know what I mean). Then they can’t stand each other or anyone else. Rough around the household at those times.

From deep in Livingston Parish.
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:13 am to
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This post was edited on 9/11/24 at 8:14 am
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
22639 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:14 am to
Quadruple post about being married to your mom?

Very impressive my friend
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:19 am to
Slow dial up internet out here
Posted by carhartt
Member since Feb 2013
8276 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:19 am to
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Since they’re the same person


So you’re married to your Mom?


Or your Wife and Mom have the same personality?
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
86717 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:20 am to
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Once a week until he is ready for daycare


Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
22073 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:31 am to
It took about 25 years but yes they get along now
This post was edited on 9/11/24 at 10:56 am
Posted by Wm Faulkner
Member since Apr 2014
69 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:35 am to
Same birth canal
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
55042 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 8:39 am to
Used too, mom died and the wife left.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40025 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:02 am to
I live four hours away from my grandbaby. If they called me and asked for that I’d do it without a second thought if I had nothing planned. If I had plans and they could be swapped (depending on what it was), I’d likely go in a heartbeat.

Edit: no way I could do it once a week being four hours away. Now, if they wanted a weekend or a few days while baby was sick and couldn’t go to daycare but they had to work, if I could I surely would.

This post was edited on 9/11/24 at 9:35 am
Posted by Harrytasker
Member since Apr 2024
15 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:02 am to
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I would need my own thread to accurately describe mine and my wife's parent dynamics. It's a shite show.


Posted by Harrytasker
Member since Apr 2024
15 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:08 am to
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They eat, sleep, and shite


Ehhh for short stretches

At least mine.

The sleep deprivation is brutal.
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
24160 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:23 am to
Mom's gone but when she was around, yes they did. I told my wife that mom had two sides to her but my wife just laughed it off, "you're mom is so sweet.' Then one morning after about ten years of marriage she met the other side. Quote, "It shook me to my core."
Posted by Misnomer
Member since Apr 2020
3703 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:23 am to
IMO, It is pretty inappropriate for your wife to have that expectation of your mother and then get upset about being told no. You should try to set her straight. Asking your mom to drive over an hour and spend the night is an inconvenience. Your wife should expect that it might be declined. And if she's a bitch about it, why should your mom be inclined to say yes next time she's asked?

If I could have chosen my mother-in-law and my husband separately, I would still have chosen the same MIL. She's awesome. And we never got upset if she said no to babysitting.
Posted by TigerGman
Center of the Universe
Member since Sep 2006
13552 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:23 am to
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would you enjoy if someone expected you to watch their kids?

In other words, she has "better things" to do than spend time with her own grandchildren...Grandmother of the year candidate there....
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
24160 posts
Posted on 9/11/24 at 9:23 am to
Mom's gone but when she was around, yes they did. I told my wife that mom had two sides to her but my wife just laughed it off, "you're mom is so sweet.' Then one morning after about ten years of marriage she met the other side. Quote, "It shook me to my core."
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