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re: Do you truly ever get over someone?

Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:37 am to
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
16889 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:37 am to
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I know exactly how you feel, brother. Only with me, I was the one who ended it so I have the added grief of beating myself up for making such a stupid decision.



I only feel guilty when they react badly - like crying. Breaking up with a girl means they will cry. I had one grab my arm and start sobbing so loudly after I broke up with her that I thought their neighbors would hear.

That makes me feel horrible even though it was the right decision. None of the girls I dated were bad people. All but one were just not the right person for me. The one that ended up being the right one for me is now my wife.

Get past the guilt. The right one is out there.
This post was edited on 1/12/23 at 8:39 am
Posted by sta4ever
The Pit
Member since Aug 2014
15243 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:37 am to
I’m just not the kind of guy that likes to hook up with girls. I did it in college but I’m out of college now, and can’t be a child anymore.
This post was edited on 1/12/23 at 11:41 am
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
16889 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:40 am to
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Most people have “one that got away”.



Most serial killers maybe....
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
3832 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:41 am to
Tell your friend to spend lots of time with friends and family. Do not be alone, and sure as heck do not back slide.

Your friends and family are your support network. They are here for you, especially if you've ever been there for them.

Pick up a raft of tacos or bbq samwiches and go over to your buddy's house.
Posted by tigernnola
NOLA
Member since Sep 2016
3589 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:49 am to
Takes a little time, but eventually realize she was not the love of your life but the lust of your life ….. at the time.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56417 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 8:57 am to
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do you think a lot of women go gay after breaking up with their husband?
because they leave their husband after surrounding themselves w a support network. You can see it coming a mile off. They take up me hobbies, get a new set of friends, they get it all laid out then bam.

These new groups of women will do anything to break up a marriage, even sleep together. They want all women as miserable as they are
Posted by Gideon Swashbuckler
Member since Sep 2019
5798 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 9:06 am to
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I still beat off to my 6th grade girlfriend.


You still beat off to a 13 year old?
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117730 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 9:16 am to
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You still beat off to a 13 year old?



13 and a half
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
29609 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 9:18 am to
Best way to get over a girl is to get inside another
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
29158 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 9:26 am to
Maybe up until the end of college. I dated a chick for a couple years in high school/beginning of college that I loved to death, but eventually she cheated on me so I dumped her. Honestly thought about getting back with her despite all that cuz I still loved her, but eventually I just said I can't subject myself to that again. Glad as hell I didn't do that.

But besides that, not really. Any woman I date now, serious or not, if it's over then it's over.
Posted by sta4ever
The Pit
Member since Aug 2014
15243 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:08 am to
I hate to bump this thread, but anyone know what could help me to sleep? I work M-F, getting up at 5am every single day, I run like crazy when I get home from work, eat, shower, and still can’t sleep. My mind is just constantly spinning in circles. I’m tired as hell every single day but just can’t force myself to sleep. Can’t go to sleep till midnight and can never stay asleep through the night. Always waking up and will just sit there staring into space.
Posted by One72
Member since Jul 2022
684 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:15 am to
I’ve lost people, jobs, money - you name it.

Grief never truly leaves someone.
Peaks and valleys.
Just learn to ride the waves with healthy things.
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38563 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:16 am to
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but anyone know what could help me to sleep?


Sit still in silence. I know this may sound quirky, but it works. In the silence of not doing is when we begin to understand.

And when you sit still in silence (with no distractions), you allow your mind to slow down.

Lastly, let silence help you wander through happy memories or list what you are grateful for in your life right now.

This post was edited on 1/13/23 at 7:17 am
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67149 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:30 am to
Cap full of Jack Daniels Tennessee honey 10 minutes before bed, best if right out of the freezer. Just enough to relax you and help you fall asleep. I learned that technique working shift work.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51331 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:30 am to
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just got to get laid again and you get over that person pretty quickly.




Yep
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
6818 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:41 am to
quote:

Do you truly ever get over someone? by sta4ever
Anyone here ever had a hard time getting over someone?


Name checks out.

It might be you that has a deeper issue with this than the average bloke.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52755 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 8:46 am to
Yes. No woman is worth loathing over for more than a couple of months.
Posted by MonroeTigerstripes
Member since Jul 2016
536 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 8:48 am to
Try OM sleep mushroom superfood capsules. It’s a white bottle with purple writing. You can find it on Amazon, Whole Foods, probably health food stores too. I’ve taken it for about a year and it’s the only thing that helps me fall aleep easily, fall BACK asleep if I wake up, and doesn’t make me feel hung over in the morning. I’ve tried several supplements and prescriptions for sleep over the years. Good luck
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
78191 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 8:53 am to
I'll be honest I have an OT10 in every possible way and if she ever leaves me I definitely won't get over her.

Best thing that ever happened to me in my life.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Tittleman's Crest
Member since Feb 2009
52755 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 9:02 am to
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I'll be honest I have an OT10 in every possible way and if she ever leaves me I definitely won't get over her.

Best thing that ever happened to me in my life.


You'd have a choice to make. Be miserable or get over her. Its your decision.
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