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Do you have experiences where women falsely believe you are hitting on them?

Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:34 am
Posted by Tarik One
Member since May 2016
2094 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:34 am
For instance, situations where being cordial makes her think she's getting hit on. Any interaction they receive from the opposite sex seems like a play in their minds.

It's mainly the below average looking ones at that.
Posted by bee Rye
New orleans
Member since Jan 2006
34623 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:34 am to
you probably just have a really creepy vibe
Posted by bbeck
Member since Dec 2011
15428 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:38 am to
How do you know she thinks she is getting hit on?
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
4580 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:39 am to
No, because they are hitting on me. Duh that's a dumb question.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37463 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:43 am to
Yeah, I'm a friendly guy. I was talking to someone's mom once, and her daughter thought I was hitting on her. It was pretty comical.

My wife also had a classmate in grad school that thought every guy who talked to her was hitting on her. She would wear a fake engagement ring, as if that would stop someone who was really hitting on her.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:45 am to
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She would wear a fake engagement ring,

I used to wear a wedding ring sometimes when I was single, to, uh, research a theory
Posted by J_Hingle
LA
Member since Jun 2013
5417 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:47 am to
no experiences here because if they are attractive i am 100% hitting on them. Whats worse is when people, mainly at work, interact with each other of the opposite sex and they can't help but say some corny arse sexual innuendo within every conversation.
Posted by brian_wilson
Member since Oct 2016
3581 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:47 am to
All the fricking time. I am super friendly and just randomly talk to strangers. Women often think you are hitting on them, which I am not. eta: this used to be a big problem with my wife who thought i was hitting on women in front of her. But she eventually realized that I was just talking to strangers.

What is worse is when you are nice to someone who is unattractive and they think you are hitting on them and go out of there way to try to make a connection. Super awkward.
This post was edited on 2/20/19 at 10:49 am
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68603 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 10:48 am to
Don't worry, the restraining order won't last forever
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
39015 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 11:06 am to
I generally close all exchanges with male colleagues with, "No I will not make out with you!" just in case. You can't take any chances these days.
Posted by McCaigBro69
TigerDroppings Premium Member
Member since Oct 2014
45349 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 11:07 am to
I opened the door for a woman a few months back at an office tower in downtown Dallas and she told me my advances were not wanted.

I busted out laughing.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 11:07 am to
quote:

, interact with each other of the opposite sex and they can't help but say some corny arse sexual innuendo within every conversation.

was the norm at work pre PC & HR, from both parties of the conversation
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 11:11 am to
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For instance, situations where being cordial makes her think she's getting hit on. Any interaction they receive from the opposite sex seems like a play in their minds.


People here do this all the time.
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
10130 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 1:09 pm to
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you probably just have a really creepy vibe


Most likely this

Posted by RickfromArizona
Sonoran Desert
Member since Sep 2013
366 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 1:42 pm to
I work in an office where women wear innapropriate shirts. So I make a conscious effort to stare at their forehead when they are in my office. Yet they continually pull up the top of their shirt or cover themselves with their jacket during the conversation... it’s awkard for everyone.
Posted by Big Sway
Member since Nov 2009
5133 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 1:45 pm to
It's called conversation.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 2:02 pm to
I can be quite charming so it’s possible. But it’s not something I worry about.

Most broads don’t really know what to make of me, so I doubt they assume anything at all.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
21845 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 2:20 pm to
I was leaving Target one time and this woman dropped one of her bags. The guy loading his groceries next to her said let me help you miss. She says I’ve got it and I’m engaged. The guy said I was just trying to help, which I think he was
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 2:24 pm to
Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2931 posts
Posted on 2/20/19 at 2:57 pm to
Either I live in the South where people are naturally friendly so this is not an issue, or I am not remotely perceived as a potential mate by female strangers, because this never happens to me.
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