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re: Do you feel bad at all for turning girls down?

Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:49 pm to
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
11403 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:49 pm to
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Or a bad case of ignorance. Sometimes, especially if you're hammered, stoned, etc., you don't realize the opportunity until the next day, but the chick might think you just turned her down for whatever reason.


This is exactly spot on. I was hammered and had just smoked a joint. I didn't even realize what happened until my friend told me "WTF dude why didn't you get with her." Kicking myself over it for sure.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:49 pm to
quote:

have turned a few down that were drunk.


You really shouldn't be getting alcohol for minors.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56772 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:50 pm to
Jesus, Pectus. Are you still holding on to that card out of moral conviction (if so, bravo), or is it something else? As long as they weren't completely smashed and incapable of consent, you should have worked on it.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56772 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:51 pm to
quote:

This is exactly spot on. I was hammered and had just smoked a joint. I didn't even realize what happened until my friend told me "WTF dude why didn't you get with her." Kicking myself over it for sure.



It happens to us all. I think the best thing is to always assume that a woman is attracted to you if she's talking to you (especially in that setting). If she is, you are in the right frame of mind, if not, frick it, who cares.
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:51 pm to
It depends what is getting turned down.

Some bullshite hangout session? Sure.

The horizontal monkey dance? Yea, shouldn't pass that up.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71189 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:52 pm to
Not a problem I've ever had :foreveralone:

Oh wait, I'm married now
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:54 pm to
Been there. Years ago I ran into a girl I'd has a crush on since 7th grade. Very very attractive. Was dancing with her and she said "I need to find somebody to frick tonight." My dumbass response? "You're fine, I'm sure it'll be easy for you. Good Luck!" Didn't realize until ai was on my way home (with a girl that was nowhere near her level) that I realized that could've been me. Haunts me to this day.
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
46358 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:55 pm to
She definitely told all your mutual friends that you love kack.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:56 pm to
I only regret not sealing the deal with girls with whom I could but didn't for some reason or another.
Posted by MykTide
Member since Jul 2012
26988 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 7:57 pm to
quote:

Do you feel bad at all for turning girls down?



According to your post, this isn't what you did.

quote:

She's actually very attractive and I would've been down for sure, I was just surprised at first.


Sounds like you aren't used to attractive women hitting on you.

Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
11403 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:09 pm to
quote:

Sounds like you aren't used to attractive women hitting on you.


No buddy. Difference was it wasn't a random girl at a bar it was someone I knew and I didn't think she was into me.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47709 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:35 pm to
You were stupid baw. We have all done stupid things and missed out on a good one. Learn from it so you won't be stupid next time.

Have you considered approaching this same girl now that it is a few days after the concert? A dick pic should let her know that you really are interested. (Chub it up a little first.)

Good luck.

This post was edited on 5/1/17 at 8:39 pm
Posted by AjaxFury
In & out of The Matrix
Member since Sep 2014
9928 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:42 pm to
You didn't reject her... you panicked, chickened out , all that shite.

True players would of gone with the flow & grinded her into submission
This post was edited on 5/1/17 at 8:43 pm
Posted by shamrock
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2015
4160 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:44 pm to
yes
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
178333 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:48 pm to
What shitty concert where you attending?
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23348 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:50 pm to
I was a Sophomore in HS and a chick asked me to prom. Really nice, smart, and pretty girl but a little overweight and no shape. I had never been to any dance before and I told her no. I still feel bad about it 25 years later. She was a late bloomer and when I seen her 2 years after I graduated she was a hammer, she still looks good.
Posted by MasterofTigerBait
Member since May 2009
7835 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:51 pm to
If I turn a girl down she must be pretty damn ugly.

So yeah, I'd feel sorry for her being so ugly
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:55 pm to
quote:

She's a nice girl so I'm hoping I didn't crush her self esteem or anything.


quote:

She screamed when she saw me and gave me a hug and then turned around and started backing up towards me like she wanted to grind.


I think she'll be fine...
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 8:57 pm to
quote:

Difference was it wasn't a random girl at a bar it was someone I knew and I didn't think she was into me.


So it was an attractive girl that you knew and still panicked when she came talk to you?

You must really be a socially awkward guy.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18340 posts
Posted on 5/1/17 at 9:06 pm to
I don't think I've ever turned a girl down.

I don't know any man that looks back and regrets getting a piece of arse. Well, unless they caught AIDS I guess.
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