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re: Do you care if your wife or SO flirts?

Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:30 am to
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
32981 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:30 am to
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Everyone flirts.
Truth as usual from Rog.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
32981 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:32 am to
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Everyone likes to feel "wanted" by the opposite sex. If you are married, than both need to understand the LINE, once you introduce alcohol than the line gets real blurry.
So fricking true on both points.
Posted by RocketPower13
Member since Jan 2017
2541 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:36 am to
She's a terrible flirt, so no.

Amazing person beyond that however.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148260 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:43 am to
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Dandy Lion
sounds like the type of woman to pick y'all up and ol' Baw to bring home to take advantage of huh. Does he raw you after she does her normal pegging?
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68580 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:44 am to
Talk to a guy and be normal? - no.

Flirt? Uh, yeah.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
32981 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 1:59 am to
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Yeah there is a way to politely accept a compliment without being flirtatious. 
Exactly.
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Same. I'm quite capable of having conversations with members of the opposite sex without having to resort to flirting with them. That just sends mixed messages.
This also. I've been married for 11 years now. I didn't get married until I was 38. I can have wonderful conversations with women that some would consider flirting, but it's really just conversation. There is no ulterior motive involved on my part, except to have a lively conversation. I'm not interested in seducing them, I'm just interested in talking to them.

It's nice to still feel attractive to women at my age and it's a nice confidence boost.

Coincidently, this has usually lead to them flirting and coming on strong to me. I always tell them I'm married and don't believe in infidelity, and that just makes them try harder.

Wish I would have known this when I was single.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26137 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 5:40 am to
It all traces back to how much she respects you

The reason women stay in relationships is fear, not love. Fear that they can do no better than the current man they are with, and if they frick it up and lose him, they will die miserable or alone, because they will not be able to find a man as good as him.

So a woman who fears losing you will do everything she can to make sure you are happy and stay with her.

Flirting obviously shows a lack of respect because it shows she has no fear in losing you. That she doesn't mind if she is crossing boundaries that should be common sense lines not to cross.

If she is flirting with other men it means she thinks she can do better than you, and doesn't respect you, and has probably lost attraction. Probably linked to a dead bedroom and starfish sex.
Posted by DaBike
Member since Jan 2008
10433 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 6:25 am to
Your wife is doing a lot more than flirting.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 6:27 am to
Flirting with other people crosses the line.
Posted by LSUERDOC
Member since Jul 2013
2608 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 8:35 am to
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My wife is an OT 11, and I'm sure guys hit on her. But, I don't give a shite. If she wants to leave, she can. Not everyone can buy her a 5 carat diamond like I did. Good luck.


The size of the cock is inversely proportional to the size of the rock.
She will stay married to you for financial reasons, but she'll have a side dick to satisfy her sexually.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44888 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 8:37 am to
There's a difference between receiving compliments and flirting. Yes I'd have a problem with SO flirting.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15829 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 8:38 am to
I wish my wife would flirt with other guys a little more often. Helps get the blood flowing and the mind racing for when she comes home.
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
TD platinum member suite in TS
Member since Jan 2010
5028 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 8:52 am to
clearly it bothers you enough to post about it here
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:26 am to
Flirting is not fricking.

You can't get arrested for talking about robbing a bank. You have to actually do it.

Guys who get all chapped over flirting are insecure and insecurity will undo a relationship faster than empty flirtation.
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
11904 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:27 am to
I have to see the flirting before I give an opinion.
Posted by Jim Smith
Member since May 2016
2915 posts
Posted on 4/13/17 at 9:30 am to
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The size of the cock is inversely proportional to the size of the rock.
She will stay married to you for financial reasons, but she'll have a side dick to satisfy her sexually.


Says the poor guy.
Posted by LSUERDOC
Member since Jul 2013
2608 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 6:57 am to
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Says the poor guy.


LoL...I'm far from poor. But your focus on how much you make and look at me attitude tells more about you than you know. Seek help for your inferiority complex.
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 7:14 am to
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I cared when I was younger, not so much anymore. Also, sorry you married a whore


God damn
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
46371 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 7:21 am to
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I know she gets a ton of compliments and attention from a lot of people she interacts with on a daily basis. I'm not naive enough to believe she doesn't enjoy the attention or likes to be a little flirtatious herself. 
Is she 21?

Seriously though, you said all these things to make it seem like the OT will be wrong if they call you or her something. But, if she's married, she shouldn't be behaving like this. Especially, if she's past a certain age, but it's more about marriage than age.

You can rest assured knowing you and your wife will be divorced one day and that she's probably already getting dicked down by Jody.

Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
179514 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 7:23 am to
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But your focus on how much you make and look at me attitude tells more about you than you know. Seek help for your inferiority complex



Both of you are idiots. Him for thinking his shtick is funny and you for falling for it.
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