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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?

Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:32 pm to
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:32 pm to
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Once again a voice of reason


No offense to Paige who is a nice enough person, but no, Paige is a hot mess from her relationships in the past. No person is really understanding with communicating with the ex unless kids are involved. It’s playing with fire. Sorry, but the rest of us are talking sense into you.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
10126 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:32 pm to
You tell her and you find a mutual friend of the two of you (or two) to join the two of you for dinner.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
58945 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:34 pm to
No to all of it
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:35 pm to
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I already knew what I was going to do. I had other thoughts and I shared them all so we could have a good thread. But I was always thinking that I should and probably would tell her.


Look forward to a breakup then.

quote:

That being said regarding this little event, I do have commitment issues.


What a shock!

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I wonder if I’m meant to be married.


Spoiler Alert: You’re not... at least now.

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If I do it, I want to be sure and I want it to be forever.


So break up with her and then go on the date that won’t work out 3 months from now.

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So I question my ability to do it. I’m aware and working on it. I fortunately have a woman that is willing to work on it with me, at least for a little while.


She deserves someone that won’t waste her time. Let her go.
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 9:58 pm to
1. None of this is real, OP is a lying phony.

2. If your fiancee is half as immature as you are or as you portray her to be, she's gonna bang half the OT while she's "out of town".
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62917 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:04 pm to
Congrats on the divorce.


The fact that you are confused on whether you should do this says everything.


Why are you getting married? You sound like you have no idea what you're doing.
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
44068 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:04 pm to
If you have to ask, then you should already know the answer.
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:07 pm to
Lmao you're a fricking putz. Do yourself and your divorcee-to-be a favor and call off the wedding. You ain't ready.
Posted by Tshiz
Idaho
Member since Jul 2013
7974 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:17 pm to
Thread has produced some high quality laughs. Thanks again OT
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
15993 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:23 pm to
Meet her for lunch or coffee or bring your fiance to dinner.
Posted by LouBega
Member since Dec 2017
999 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:24 pm to
This is s high level troll job.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:25 pm to
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Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.

I have no interest in doing anything sexual with her. Just old friends. Fiancé will be out of town for a week visiting family.


Laugh out loud
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:33 pm to
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There will be no fricking the ex.


So she laid eyes on you and called for the abort eh?

well at least your engagement is still intact even if your ego isn't.
Posted by LSUcajun77
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2008
22614 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:43 pm to
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Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?


You’re worried about dealing with crap from your ex?
Here’s some good news : You don’t need to deal with her crap anymore...because she’s your ex.

If you have to ask, you probably shouldn’t be getting married.
In my old days, I would definitely meet the ex, bang her out and not say a word to my new girl. Especially not post about it prior on the internet.

But I’ve grown up and I know for a fact you should not go meet your ex, actually you shouldn’t need to have any contact with her, and tell your fiancée you use to talk to your ex and she wanted to meet for dinner but you cut it off. Don’t start your marriage with lies and secrets behind her back. Grow up.
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
Member since Jun 2012
7039 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:50 pm to
If u have to ask.....!
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
10989 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 10:53 pm to
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Again, nothing will happen if I meet her.


Then why meet her at all?

You’re asking the OT because you know it’s a bad idea.

Tell the Ex to frick off. Whether you tell the fiancé or not is up to you.

If you have dinner with the Ex and the fiancé finds out, you’re done son.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:29 pm to
If you're considering meeting up with an ex and not telling your fiance, don't get married. Just a bit of advice.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:32 pm to
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Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah. I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc.


why do you care what you ex thinks? goddamn, dude. come on.
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That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.

yeah you better bang her and then NOT leave your fiance for her. that'll show her.
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
23662 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:42 pm to
how old are you? you are dumb as frick if you give an ex the time of day IF you are engaged to be married. you deserve to lose everything. grow the frick up
Posted by xiv
Parody. #AdminsRule
Member since Feb 2004
39508 posts
Posted on 3/26/19 at 11:47 pm to
Never in my relationship with my wife has either one of us given a shite about this kind of thing. Marry an adult.
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