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re: Divorced dudes in your 40s is the following true?

Posted on 12/4/17 at 10:44 pm to
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7890 posts
Posted on 12/4/17 at 10:44 pm to
I'm in my late 40s and figure there's a decent chance that I'll be divorced by the time that I'm 55. I have a good job and am in decent shape. Will I have a shot at women in the 35-45 year old range, or will I have to settle for post menopausal broads?
Posted by LeroyBrown
South Side Of Chicago
Member since Jul 2017
577 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 6:20 am to
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ummmmm, no...I have never found a woman at any age or stage in life that I would consider to be "hassle free".


Absolute truth here ....
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62286 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 6:31 am to
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A 40 year old man has absolutely nothing in common with a chick in her 20’s. Been there, done that and the fun wears off fairly quickly.


I don’t think you realize what they’re for. I have friends already. I don’t need the woman I’m fricking to be another friend.
Posted by Jimbo21165
Member since May 2017
354 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 6:42 am to
20 year old clingy, silly arse chick.......with NO sense of life direction?

NOPE.....been there, slayed the poon, got the tee shirt.....y'all can have 'em.....
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98732 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 6:56 am to
Yeah no shite


Especially when the alternative is a divorcee with 3 kids in tow
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9020 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 7:08 am to
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don’t think you realize what they’re for.

Oh, I realize what they’re for. Its just a case of when I have the option, I would rather be with a woman for reasons other than purely sex. I’m probably older than you and likely thought the same as you in my younger years.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17610 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 7:54 am to
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I'm in my late 40s and figure there's a decent chance that I'll be divorced by the time that I'm 55. I have a good job and am in decent shape. Will I have a shot at women in the 35-45 year old range, or will I have to settle for post menopausal broads?


Why TF would you waste 5-7 years on something you know won't last?
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17610 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 7:58 am to
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A 40 year old man has absolutely nothing in common with a chick in her 20’s. Been there, done that and the fun wears off fairly quickly.


False

I'm 40 and my wife is 29.

We are as compatible as humanly possible. We've been together for 6 years.

The 40yo has to be "young at heart" where as the 20yo has to be "more mature than her age" but it is absolutely possible for them to have a successful relationship.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
1-866-DHS-2-ICE
Member since Aug 2014
11345 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 7:59 am to
I was 38 when i got divorced and i had a career and money. Was smashing many women from 25-35. It was crazy how easy it was to get laid. It was easier than when I went through my first divorce at 30. Money, a stable career and confidence and you'll have hos in every zip code.
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3506 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 8:11 am to
I'll be 40 in 2 weeks and I'm having the time of my life. Never married, have a 15 yr old son so child support is over in 3 yrs, own my house with a great job. 25-45 yr old women are easy to come by.
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18790 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 8:19 am to
You must be the problem in the relationships
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
88527 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 8:24 am to
I'm only 27, but the amount of divorced/single parent females my age popping up is legitimately staggering.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 8:38 am to
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the odds of a divorced woman in her 30s and 40s (especially with kids) being attractive has to be less than 5%


Probably 10%.

But if you live in a city like Nashville with probably 200,000 women in this demographic, that’s 20,000 or so MILFs. Not bad.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37840 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 8:42 am to
The South isn't very progressive on sexual responsibility. They have kids early, get married because of it, get divorced because of it. Then they find out they do not have the skills or drive to begin a career. Thus, the only thing they have in their favor is vagina.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:08 am to
If you were even a decent looking divorced man in your 40s with money, why on Earth would you want a 40 year old woman?

I was a decent looking 33 year old divorced man with money and found a 19 year old . I'm now 47 and she's my wife.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:17 am to
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If you were even a decent looking divorced man in your 40s with money, why on Earth would you want a 40 year old woman?





same reason they cope by saying 30-40 yr old women are better at sex, etc

they cant get a 20 year old
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:35 am to
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same reason they cope by saying 30-40 yr old women are better at sex, etc

they cant get a 20 year old




I wasn't even looking for a woman when I met my now wife, let alone a 19 year old one, but if you're going to fall in love you may as well fall in love with young and hot lol
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37840 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:35 am to
Someone mentioned it earlier, but you tend not to have anything in common with someone that young. It's great for sex but not for life compatibility. Good for you for finding that though.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171949 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:37 am to
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I was a decent looking 33 year old divorced man with money and found a 19 year old


Must've had a lot of meaningful conversations.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 12/5/17 at 9:38 am to
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Good for you for finding that though.


I got lucky, well my wife would say the same thing. WE got lucky

Truthfully when we started out, I know I was with her because damn she was hot, and I also know why she dated me I literally defended her from a man who was beating on her and that's what she needed. It developed into more and now we're one of the lucky couples.
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