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Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:53 pm to fareplay
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money makes people mad
you answered your own question. get a lawyer quick before she does
oh and pics. you know the rules
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:53 pm to Privateer 2007
Should I act now or give her time to cool? Not sure if there is urgency in this as California seems to have a 6 month waiting period
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:54 pm to fareplay
get the verbal agreement recorded. I'm begging you dude
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:54 pm to fareplay
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student loan we were married for hers
You're on hook for half of hers then I think.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:54 pm to fareplay
No kids makes things a lot easier. If It’s truly amicable, I’d have the two of you get a lawyer together to handle the paperwork and make sure that what y’all agree to is in writing.
You’re never going to come out ahead in a divorce, but a no kids, amicable, non-contested divorce with minimal attorney f$&kery is about the cheapest way to do it. I went through this process in 2018/2019
If you need to talk about the emotional side of it, don’t hesitate to email me at bryndenblackfish@yahoo.com
You’re never going to come out ahead in a divorce, but a no kids, amicable, non-contested divorce with minimal attorney f$&kery is about the cheapest way to do it. I went through this process in 2018/2019
If you need to talk about the emotional side of it, don’t hesitate to email me at bryndenblackfish@yahoo.com

Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:55 pm to fr33manator
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Get it in writing. Got to a lawyer and get it put down in legal language. Don’t piss her off or let her get a lawyer involved.
Thankfully no kids or house should make it an easy split
This.
I've had a few friends go through an 'amicable' divorce and just have one attorney handle it all. That attorney can't represent either of you, but they can prepare the documents to your property settlement, etc. If you each hire an attorney, they will gladly watch you two fight to the death as they bill the shite out of you.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:55 pm to fareplay
She could hurry and run up credit card debt and only owe half
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:55 pm to kingbob
To be honest I am hoping she changes her mind because I still love her but not sure if there is a first person advantage when it comes to making moves in this
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:56 pm to fareplay
Introduce her to another guy..hope they fall in love and get married..I have seen it happen.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:56 pm to Jack Daniel
We separated our finances and I removed her from all my cards and vice versa. I own all cards under my name
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:57 pm to fareplay
I’d get a lawyer to get everything tidy so she can’t come back asking for anything
Get everything from here on out in writing
Get everything from here on out in writing
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:57 pm to fareplay
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Wife and I decided to split ways
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I am hoping she changes her mind
Sounds like she dumped you, baw.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:58 pm to Mr Personality
Well to be honest I brought it up when she quit her job to go back to school and I was paying the bills. That escalated
Posted on 7/28/20 at 2:59 pm to fareplay
If that’s really what did it, y’all weren’t too solid in the first place.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 3:00 pm to fareplay
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act now or give her time to cool
That sounds like a personal question.
I know Louisiana (I realize odd laws here) want you separated a while. Separated means like moved out, got apartment etc.
I'm just saying document EVERYTHING. Women change at drop of a hat. They go from reasonable to crazy.
My boy got fricked out of $60k because he didn't document shite he should have.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 3:01 pm to fareplay
My brother did the same. Amicable. She agreed that she would get the home (paid off) and her car also paid off with the understanding that she would not touch his 401K/Retirement.
Kept coming back with her hands out. He finally had enough and got a lawyer 5 or so years later. He drew up some legal docs and said give her 25K to sign.
She jumped on it and blew thru it, of course.
Brother said peace of mind was worth the 25K.
Kept coming back with her hands out. He finally had enough and got a lawyer 5 or so years later. He drew up some legal docs and said give her 25K to sign.
She jumped on it and blew thru it, of course.
Brother said peace of mind was worth the 25K.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 3:02 pm to Whataburger
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She jumped on it
Should have made it 15k.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 3:03 pm to fareplay
Had a friend do it in his late 20’s, no kids, no home. They did it on the cheap and have never laid eyes on one another since then.
Posted on 7/28/20 at 3:05 pm to Ssubba
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