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Did you ever lose someone that you thought would be your wife?

Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:37 pm
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6700 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:37 pm
And what happened after? How soon after did you meet your actual S/O?

I’m not in this position, just like hearing the stories
This post was edited on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm
Posted by eng08
Member since Jan 2013
6010 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:39 pm to
You should try screwing a dude.

It will help you get over it
This post was edited on 11/22/19 at 7:40 pm
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6700 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:40 pm to
I’m not in that situation.
Just wanted to hear some stories.
Posted by TimeOutdoors
LA
Member since Sep 2014
13661 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:41 pm to
Lose as in broke up or lose as in passed away? If the later, then yes. You ok?
Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
18134 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:42 pm to
quote:

How soon after did you meet your actual S/O?


That is a strange question and makes you sound desperate and heartbroken. I have had several 5 year relationships, never wanted to be officially married. But, own a house with my current. How long between? Not very. But I am a chick
Posted by Rammin TX
DFW Texas
Member since Oct 2018
1736 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:43 pm to
Best thing that ever happened to me is divorcing my 1st wife...met the woman of my dreams and we have wonderful children in college and could not ask for more.

Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49487 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:43 pm to
The first one yeah, she was killed at 20. I've never been the same since that happened, but the person I'm with now is the only girl I really want to be with. Took me a long time.
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6700 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:43 pm to
Jesus, are YOU okay? That sounds like it fricking sucks.
I just love hearing people’s stories. It’s interesting to me.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53816 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm to
Yeah I was engaged to a girl that I never married. My drinking at the time probably had a lot to do with it. I probably dodged a bullet though. She was a good person but a bit too high maintenance for me.

I didn't want to date anyone seriously for a few years. Just partied a lot and enjoyed being single.

Met my wife maybe 2-3 years later.
Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm to
I dated someone for 10 years starting in high school. Always figured we’d get married and we were best friends, but somewhere along the way I realized we had become roommates and there wasn’t a lot of romantic love there. One day it occurred to me that I was happiest when she wasn’t home and I kinda dreaded hearing her car pull up. We grew apart, different goals, different outlooks etc.

Dating again was a challenge because obviously I didn’t have to practice my “game” for 10 years when most guys are honing it (college, early adulthood). Met someone through work pretty soon after the breakup and developed a closeness. She and I won’t get married, she’s not “the one”, but it’s good for now. We’ve been together about 2 years.
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
26565 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm to
I had a gf who died when I was 19 but I always knew it wasn’t going to last that long for a certain reason. A year later I met a girl who became my wife and she had a lot of qualities and features that she had.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85538 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm to
I thought I’d marry my college gf. Until she fricked my cousin.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:44 pm to
quote:

Best thing that ever happened to me is divorcing my 1st wife...met the woman of my dreams and we have wonderful children in college and could not ask for more.


Thanks for the post Mrs Rammin. Now give the phone back to your husband that cheats on you.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:46 pm to
quote:

thought I’d marry my college gf. Until she fricked my cousin.


You from bama? She thought it was a 3 some with your first husband
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85538 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:46 pm to
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Mrs Rammin


Pics?
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106066 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:54 pm to
I eventually moved on, but I've never forgotten her and I'm sure I never will. My wife knows about her but doesn't know I'm still carrying a little torch.
Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:55 pm to
quote:

Still carrying a torch


I’m not judging you, but man I’d be sick knowing my spouse still had feelings for someone else.

I couldn’t ever be ok with being second place. Knowing that if her ex walked in the door, I’d be kicked to the curb.
This post was edited on 11/22/19 at 7:57 pm
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13678 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:57 pm to
My dear friend, extinguish the torch of yesterday and let your only light cast its love so intensely on your Beloved wife that no other light can exist.
Posted by millerf43
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2019
460 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:58 pm to
I lost 3 wives. Afterwards, I took a severe financial loss. Still paying my most recent ex wife. My advice is get a dog and use condoms.
Posted by Rammin TX
DFW Texas
Member since Oct 2018
1736 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:59 pm to
quote:

GeeOH


I met her after banging you mom for several years. She liked it, I was just getting my rocks off until I found a worthwhile female.

Do you know your Dad?
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