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re: Desi Vega apologizes to Black couple who had tip auto added to bill at restaurant

Posted on 3/1/21 at 10:51 am to
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 10:51 am to
So did they tip?
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55584 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 10:55 am to
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why was it racial profiling?

Are you kidding? Out of all of their customers they selected a black couple and charged them more than the white people. This is blatant profiling and bigotry. We should all stand against that.

It is not a blemish on the restaurant. We have no reason to believe this isn't counter to the core values of the ownership. We should take them at their word.

I'm impressed with the conduct of the victims and the owner. And I'm proud that in New Orleans this was handled with class and dignity.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
63786 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 10:56 am to
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The Washington's seem classy as hell


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We did, however, emphasize that at this point, this is way bigger than us. The community has rallied behind this and has been vocal in seeking change


Yeah, real classy.
Posted by Big Whiskey
Member since Sep 2015
37 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 10:59 am to
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The Washington's seem classy as hell, fwiw


Maybe, but I wouldn't make that determination based on that post. Their demands seem pretty damn extreme. How noble to not request a refund for a meal they ate while also pressuring the restaurant to spend much more on training, menu updates, and donations to a charity they support. It's not like most people don't already know that targeting blacks people based on race is wrong, including obviously the owner who will likely fire the people who did this.

To some people, situations like this are just a nuisance and it pisses you off for an hour. To others, every situation is a societal emergency that requires immediate and punitive consequences to anyone in the vicinity of the situation.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61834 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:00 am to
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why was it racial profiling?


There is an extremely common stereotype of black customers within the restaurant industry, and that is that black people do not tip well, if at all, and so I’m sure that is what fueled it being done by the employees in the first place, and since it was all black customers, I’d say it’s safe to say it was profiling.

Posted by turnpiketiger
Member since May 2020
12264 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:00 am to
frick that place. You know this “stereotype” is true in many cases. Not all. But many.
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
66106 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:05 am to
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 to how they did without the race parts


Privilege acknowledged. This is the main gripe. That it doesn't happen to all races. Only blacks. I have had it added before. Asked them to take it off. I try to tip cash when I can. I know servers prefer it that way too
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89135 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:06 am to
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Dude you're so full of shite. You said it was bullshite from the jump and are hedging, albeit poorly.


My first post said 0.01% chance it was legit. I'm not hedging anything.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30264 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:07 am to
They should have apologized, it was a dumb thing to do based on a negative racial stereotype. They compounded the dumb mistake by lying about it. How about the restaurant and server focus on providing the best food and service possible to the customers and what they get in tips is what they get.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
290891 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:07 am to
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Their demands seem pretty damn extreme.



what part, specifically?


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To some people, situations like this are just a nuisance and it pisses you off for an hour



You mean white people?
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
66106 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:07 am to
Yea lying never helps. its hilarious to watch when someone gets busted and then lies.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
290891 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:09 am to
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I'm wondering if the couple was so bad that they thought they would be stiffed or if it is something they do pretty regularly.


huh?

It's Metairie. Despite being one of the only handful decent restaurants in metairie, it's still metairie.

nothing to do with how the couple acted, just their skin color. Again, its metairie.
Posted by FightinTiga
Pumpkin Center
Member since Feb 2009
20745 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:10 am to
According to servers they do not tip often
Posted by WaWaWeeWa
Member since Oct 2015
15714 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:12 am to
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Privilege acknowledged. This is the main gripe. That it doesn't happen to all races. Only blacks.


bullshite. Stereotyping happens on a daily basis.

You don’t think the white kid at the basketball camp gets labeled as less athletic than the black kids? Which is understandable because like 90% of the NBA is black.

Stuff like this happens every day. How do you think you are going to change human nature which through millions of years of evolution was trained to notice patterns?

We just don’t have enough real problems to worry about that this has become a “horrifying experience”.

Don’t worry though the real problems will be here soon enough and you won’t have time to worry about implicit bias training.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
26069 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:12 am to
Black women in general will still be the shittiest tipping race group.



Posted by Big Whiskey
Member since Sep 2015
37 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:16 am to
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what part, specifically?


I listed them if you read the post.

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You mean white people?


White people, likely people like you, are certainly unnecessarily dramatic in many situations. Many black people are also pretty chill in most situations.

Your first thought was to divide people based on race here, kind of like what the waiter in this situation did. Maybe you should think on that for a while. You won't, and that is cool too. Most people just go through life hoping they don't have to encounter people like you or the waiter, and certainly don't waste time trying to change your kind.
Posted by WaWaWeeWa
Member since Oct 2015
15714 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:17 am to
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Lester Earl


You are all up in this thread. I bet you bailed on the Jussie, Bubba Wallace, and numerous fake racism stories that have been an epidemic recently.

This story doesn’t prove a damn thing about “systemic racism”, implicit bias training, etc.
Posted by ccomeaux
LA
Member since Jan 2010
8184 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:17 am to
How is that any different from the growing number of restaurants using the Apple technology that adds an 18% gratuity at check out unless you change it to something different ?
I had one place add a 22% tip at a restaurant that you order at a counter and fix your own drink ! Market Eatz in Lafayette ... never again.
Posted by frankthetank
Member since Oct 2007
2530 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:19 am to
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There is an extremely accurate stereotype of black customers within the restaurant industry, and that is that black people do not tip well, if at all, and so I’m sure that is what fueled it being done by the employees in the first place, and since it was all black customers, I’d say it’s safe to say it was profiling.


FIFY
This post was edited on 3/1/21 at 11:20 am
Posted by NOSHAU
Member since Feb 2012
13756 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 11:19 am to
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I'd be pissed about an auto 20% tip on a two-person party no matter what color I was.

Would you have really made it such a huge issue though? Don't people normally tip around 20% anyway?
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