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Dating Women with Kids. OT perspective?
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:39 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:39 pm
You have different types of single mothers. Those who divorced and ones who got impregnated under the pretense their relationship would last (maybe).
My issue with dating these women is twofold:
Are they looking for a partner or just a provider to "correct" the mistakes they made and/or be a wallet.
Are you really a priority to them in the later stages or are you just the bait to bring the baby dad back.
I'm speaking from a 21 to 34 crowd perspective. Beyond 35 I realize that most women typically have kids, but may not necessarily want the same thing.
Is dating different once you hit 35?
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Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:41 pm to volod
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Is dating different once you hit 35?
Depends on how much money you have.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:42 pm to volod
It was mostly about the sex for both of us when I was in that relationship.
Girls with a kid put out. A lot.
Girls with a kid put out. A lot.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:42 pm to volod
Deal breaker
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:44 pm to volod
First of all, it means she puts out.
Absolutely. Usually less game-playing for one thing - on average. There are still some who never learn. But once they hit 35 there's less of a chance of major surprises. If she's got major problems they'll be pretty obvious.
For example, if she makes $30k a year, has lots of debt and lives with her parents, that's pretty common at 25. At 35 it's a reason to move on.
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Is dating different once you hit 35?
Absolutely. Usually less game-playing for one thing - on average. There are still some who never learn. But once they hit 35 there's less of a chance of major surprises. If she's got major problems they'll be pretty obvious.
For example, if she makes $30k a year, has lots of debt and lives with her parents, that's pretty common at 25. At 35 it's a reason to move on.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:44 pm to volod
If she doesn't have a career and is making it on her own then avoid her like the plague. They usually have not learned any skill set other than trading sex for resources. They need you to clean up their problems and pay for her and her kids needs.
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Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:44 pm to volod
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This post was edited on 1/23/21 at 3:26 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:46 pm to jmarto1
Is bartending at a strip club a career?
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:47 pm to volod
Single men should but do this.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:48 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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've dated a single mom. Former teen mom.
Which one?
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:51 pm to Mo Jeaux
quote:shakespeare in da house
Single men should but do this
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:55 pm to LaBR4
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This post was edited on 1/23/21 at 3:25 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:56 pm to volod
nm
This post was edited on 5/21/20 at 2:33 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 6:58 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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She looked closest to #3.
This post was edited on 8/25/18 at 7:03 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:12 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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She looked closest to #3.
"She was a 3 and I had beer goggles on at 3a.m."
There, I fixed it for you.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:14 pm to Kafka
quote:Methinks thou dost protestest too much.
shakespeare in da house
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:21 pm to volod
It's a rough situation because if you get married you're now partially responsible for a kid who will probably resent you.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:21 pm to gumbo2176
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This post was edited on 1/23/21 at 3:24 pm
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:23 pm to volod
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volod
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:28 pm to volod
No matter how much she says she doesn't need you to pay her bills, she really wants you to pay her bills.
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