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re: Dating Women with Kids. OT perspective?
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:44 pm to Jcorye1
Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:44 pm to Jcorye1
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situation because if you get married you're now partially responsible for a kid who will probably resent you.
This is one of the main reasons I usually don't make them relationship material. That and you eventually are walking into a parent situation
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Posted on 8/25/18 at 7:48 pm to soccerfüt
I prefer Death note to black butler
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:14 pm to volod
Did it twice. Will not repeat myself because I have posted this before...they are looking for reassurance. So, they throw out the goods pretty quick. In the end...they are looking for more...someone to help them with their bratty kids.
Be careful.
Be careful.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:18 pm to FightinTigersDammit
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Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:22 pm to Bestbank Tiger
If kid very young maybe
Teens. No way
Teens. No way
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:29 pm to volod
I prefer women without kids. Have dates Girls with little kids and High school/ college kids and everywhere in between. Too many issues
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:33 pm to volod
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I'm speaking from a 21 to 34 crowd perspective. Beyond 35 I realize that most women typically have kids, but may not necessarily want the same thing.
Is dating different once you hit 35?
My wife is the only woman I have ever dated that has a kid. I married her when I was 39. At 21, you are a kid, don't date a woman seriously if she has a kid at that point unless she has her shite together.
Once you hit your 30s, things really change. Most women will have a kid once you hit your 30s so it severely limits your pool to draw from if you avoid kids.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:36 pm to volod
If she's got a kid and lives with her parents she's looking for any way out. Don't be a sucker
Posted on 8/25/18 at 8:43 pm to volod
It's one thing if they got knocked up as a teenager and decided to keep the baby, completely different if they got knocked up later on because they were using their vagina to desperately lure a guy. Obviously, divorced women are a case by case basis. In today's world of contraception there's pretty much 0 reason a competent woman should ever get knocked up, yet it still happens all the time.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 10:25 pm to Warfarer
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Once you hit your 30s, things really change. Most women will have a kid once you hit your 30s so it severely limits your pool to draw from if you avoid kids.
I'm approaching 30 in a few years. I'm worried because it's become apparent that most women around my age have kids.
Now there are single women who dont have kids. They are my preference.
But it's far from a 1 to 1 win because
some of them are waiting out for top tier guys (mid 30s 6 figure type) or just want career focus (ironic because that's what I did).
But getting a single mom is net loss outside of love. I'll be stuck paying for a kid who can potentially resent me. It's only a benefit for the mom.
Posted on 8/25/18 at 10:47 pm to volod
These days if you are 24 and don't have kid you will be a step parent.
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