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re: Dating single moms can be dicey at best

Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:20 am to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:20 am to
you don't sound bitter at all.....
Posted by H.M. Murdock
B.A.'s Van
Member since Feb 2013
2113 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:31 am to
Hit and quit single moms, period.

Why deal with another man's children? Why deal with a woman who may have made bad life choices? Why bail out a single mom who is likely looking for financial security from you?

Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40. Why settle for baggage when other better, younger options are available to you?
This post was edited on 6/3/15 at 7:32 am
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32425 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:34 am to
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After the first two weeks, he was now dealing with two kids and they moved in together after a month


Posted by NASA_ISS_Tiger
Huntsville, Al via Sulphur, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8207 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:44 am to
quote:

you don't sound bitter at all.....


Hell no I'm not bitter now. I'm totally glad. I was bitter for a while because I didn't understand what the hell happened. But now...shoot...I'm feeling blessed.

I was just sharing my CSB for the day.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
56868 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:46 am to
Now widows are a different story. Completely different. Usually much better and better circumstances. You don't have an ex to fool with and if it really works out, you can adopt the kids if everyone is cool with it.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91320 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 7:57 am to
quote:

Why deal with another man's children? Why deal with a woman who may have made bad life choices? Why bail out a single mom who is likely looking for financial security from you?

Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40. Why settle for baggage when other better, younger options are available to you?


You sound like a real winner...

Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:00 am to
Does Bruce count?
Posted by smooth99
Member since Oct 2003
712 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:00 am to
quote:

Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40. Why settle for baggage when other better, younger options are available to you?


Because I have kids of my own, and I'm done having babies......

Younger options always want more babies....
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45317 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:02 am to
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you can adopt the kids if everyone is cool with it.


Adopting the kids was invented so some poor sap can pay to support them even after he and their mother are no longer together.

It is in the top five of the most stupid things you could do.

The divorce rate in America for first marriage, vs second or third marriage

"50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri.

According to enrichment journal on the divorce rate in America:
•The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%
•The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
•The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73% "

LINK
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
43869 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:02 am to
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Why deal with another man's children? Why deal with a woman who may have made bad life choices? Why bail out a single mom who is likely looking for financial security from you?


Agreed especially if you are young. I have friends that love going after single moms because they are easy to put out. They are in their late 20s why would they want to deal with that bullshite.

quote:

Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40. Why settle for baggage when other better, younger options are available to you?


30s-40s is a different situation
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2467 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:08 am to
After doing that in my early years, I have now made a rule to not date women with Any children living at home. Too much drama for me.
Posted by SDVTiger
Cabo San Lucas
Member since Nov 2011
93174 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:10 am to
I have for 5yrs and got married

Shes super hot, a squirter, gives crazy helmet and loves anal

And we both dont want anymore kids. Her kid is an Angel so its worked out great
Posted by bamarep
Member since Nov 2013
52352 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:11 am to
Yep, I married one. Woman of my dreams and her kids are great.

Leave trailer trash alone brah.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:12 am to
if a woman is single hasnt been married or has kids and they are in their 30s-40s then there is something else wrong with them that you may want to stay away from
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83070 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:13 am to
Never date a woman with kids. If things go south and the kids turn on you, you can end up in jail on a molestation charge shockingly easily.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:15 am to
Single mom hairdressers are fantastic sluts.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
43869 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:41 am to
quote:

Single mom hairdressers are fantastic sluts.


Yeah but no piece of p**sy is worth that headache. Only an idiot or plant operator would date a single mother hair dresser
Posted by Jebeco
Clear Lake City, TX
Member since Jul 2014
3292 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:52 am to
When you get to a certain age, just about all the single women you meet have at least one kid. It takes a different approach and more patience to make it work definitely.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20379 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:57 am to
quote:

Men can still find good looking single women in our 30's and even 40's. In fact, we are likely in our prime around 30-40. Why settle for baggage when other better, younger options are available to you?



This is very true. Unfortunately though, the tables can get turned too. The really young girls just want to play with you for a while and then move on. God, it sucks dating in your 30s.
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21184 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:05 am to
I know a soon to be single mom in shreveport with my 3 kids.


On a different note single moms with kids are sometimes the best ones to trust. Most of them have their own place, own car, jobs, and is tired of all the BS/players looking only for a piece of arse.

They're not looking for someone to take care of them just someone who isn't scarred off by her kids and wants to be with her not only for sex but because you want to have a relationship. Beware of crazy ex's and family.

Although if her kids don't like you then well your screwed. Literally.
This post was edited on 6/3/15 at 9:07 am
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