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re: Dating Question
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:01 am to BluegrassBelle
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:01 am to BluegrassBelle
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This was the makeup and jewels chick right?
Same one. She actually laughed when I brought that up to her a week or two later. She said her best friend convinced her to wear all that jewelry. She hasn’t done that since then, and she doesn’t wear the overpowering perfume either. Neither fit her laid back personality.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:03 am to TomJoadGhost
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She actually laughed when I brought that up to her a week or two later. She said her best friend convinced her to wear all that jewelry.
Lol you about to get trapped baw
I got to say sweet 16 tickets would get me though
This post was edited on 3/21/23 at 9:04 am
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:07 am to Locoguan0
quote:Now that's funny
Women are exclusive unless they say otherwise

Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:12 am to TomJoadGhost
Maybe it's just me but after 3 months I feel like I wasn't thinking this hard.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:18 am to TomJoadGhost
Basketball tickets?
She's probably into BBC.
Sorry friend.
She's probably into BBC.
Sorry friend.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:19 am to TomJoadGhost
If you’ve been fricking for 3 months and nobody else on your radar then why not make it exclusive. Some of you so damn afraid of commitment like you can’t break it off in a year anyway
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:27 am to TomJoadGhost
Sounds like you found one of those rare unicorns and are too blind to see it. They don't come around that often baw. She might just start looking elsewhere if you don't get off the pot soon.


Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:34 am to Nole Man
6 pages and no one has asked the obvious question that must be answered. Dude... are you gay?
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:39 am to poncho villa
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She wants to date you bro
It’s been three months and they are hanging out regularly and exclusively. He just isn’t sharp enough to realize he has a girlfriend.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:41 am to jcaz
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If you’ve been fricking for 3 months and nobody else on your radar then why not make it exclusive.
It just never got brought up and we’ve only really been seeing each other more frequently over the last month or so. First two months we only went on a handful of dates.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:45 am to TomJoadGhost
She'll be 70 in 15 years. Get with a 45 year old
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:48 am to TomJoadGhost
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It just never got brought up and we’ve only really been seeing each other more frequently over the last month or so. First two months we only went on a handful of dates.
This trip will advance the relationship and she knows it. She also realizes you aren’t going to bring it up. This trip she planned isn’t just about showing you a good time.
Be prepared for talks about feelings and stuff.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 9:59 am to LSUintheNW
I’m fine if it was a ploy by her to advance things, but things had already been advancing pretty fast the past couple of weeks. And I did bring it up last night at dinner. As I said several posts ago, it’s been years since a girl has done something that nice and thoughtful for me and it threw me for a loop. I realize what I have.
This post was edited on 3/21/23 at 10:00 am
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:01 am to TomJoadGhost
If you have to ask the OT for dating advice, you should probably stick to your sex doll.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:04 am to LSUWoodworker
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6 pages and no one has asked the obvious question
Where are the seats?
YUM is a big venue and the better the seat the more she wants you.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:04 am to TomJoadGhost
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I’m probably overthinking this, but that’s what I do. Especially with women
Your team is on an epic run like they have never been on before, the girl you are seeing purchased tickets for the next round, and you are questioning it? Wtf is wrong with you?
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:33 am to Cheese Grits
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Where are the seats?
She doesn’t know yet. She said someone she knows in Louisville through work is getting them for her and told her they’d be good seats.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:37 am to TomJoadGhost
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And I did bring it up last night at dinner
Smart move.
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:21 pm to TomJoadGhost
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And I did bring it up last night at dinner. As I said several posts ago, it’s been years since a girl has done something that nice and thoughtful for me and it threw me for a loop. I realize what I have.
You're basing this new experience on your past experiences, and while that is understandable, you must understand that this person you are now with is not connected in any way with the past women in your life. Judge her on her actions alone. Anything else is just noise.
Some people, believe it or not, grow, listen, understand, and change --- for the better. Maybe she's done this because in the past she may have neglected these areas. Who knows ... but whatever you have going on right now --- if you enjoy it --- keep enjoying it and let her know that you appreciate and notice what she is doing. A little bit of gratitude can go a long way.
I failed at this because I was not in tune with my past relationship and didn't listen to my wife's (former wife now) needs at the time. It's a hard lesson to learn, and it cost me my marriage and my children 50 % of the time. I'm more aware today than I ever have been, and while it won't help me with my former wife, I won't let my past selfish behaviors impact who I am today, and who I strive to become tomorrow.

This post was edited on 3/21/23 at 10:22 pm
Posted on 3/21/23 at 10:24 pm to TomJoadGhost
Sounds to me like she loathes your company
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