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re: Dating Advice: Are my dating views radical?
Posted on 3/21/19 at 10:53 am to LSUAlum2001
Posted on 3/21/19 at 10:53 am to LSUAlum2001
OP is a troll (see thread on money board) but I’ll bite.
1) If you want to get laid, you’re going to have to play the game these women want to play. Reasonably attractive women (especially online) have a line of dudes a mile long willing to play along if you won’t.
2) Shut the frick up with the weird heavy shite.
3) if we have to tell you this stuff, you’re probably beyond help.
1) If you want to get laid, you’re going to have to play the game these women want to play. Reasonably attractive women (especially online) have a line of dudes a mile long willing to play along if you won’t.
2) Shut the frick up with the weird heavy shite.
3) if we have to tell you this stuff, you’re probably beyond help.
This post was edited on 3/21/19 at 10:54 am
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Posted on 3/21/19 at 10:55 am to TLOTT
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No, Catholic.
The Catholic Church believe vasectomies are a mortal sin, so it sounds like you’re not Catholic.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 10:55 am to danfraz
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16 pages of THIS? This is what the OT has become?
16 pages from a fake story in OP
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:03 am to TLOTT
Congrats on your life of celibacy
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:37 am to TigerBR1111
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Be yourself. That’s my advice. If it’s who you are it’s not wrong.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:43 am to TLOTT
You should have gone for a white woman if you are going to be like that. Non white woman are often very traditionalist and especially if they aren't Westernized.
Your views aren't radical but they are retarded
Your views aren't radical but they are retarded
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:45 am to TLOTT
You don't pay for your date because of gender inequality or some BS like that. You pay because you value their time and want to show them a good time, just as you would likely pay for a friend who came to visit you from out of town. You paying isn't some sign of homage to gender or enforcing gender norms, it's a show of respect. If you invite someone out, you pay. Granted, if they offer to pay even after you insist on paying, it is ok to let them pay for their side, but insisting they pay is being a douchebag.
This post was edited on 3/21/19 at 11:47 am
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:46 am to TLOTT
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Think about how great women have it with dating. They can go on a few dates with a man, if it doesn't work out they can be like "oh well, I'm sad it didn't work out, but at least I had a few nights on the town for free." On the opposite side a man is like "well great, the relationship didn't work out and now I'm out a few hundred bucks that could've been spent on other things". It s*cks on multiple fronts for a man.
If this thread is real (many on this forum aren't, I've been told) you're simply chasing the wrong women. Figure out where you are looking, and change that. Look in different places.
Maybe a comic con.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 11:47 am to jimbeam
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This is why you have cheap/free dates at the beginning.
But then she won't be impressed. Chicks like to be impressed.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 12:02 pm to tokenBoiler
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But then she won't be impressed.
Not necessarily.
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Chicks like to be impressed.
This is true, but what impresses most girls on a first date has little to do with a price tag. What impresses a girl is how comfortable she feels around you, how much she feels she can "be herself", and how much fun she is having just being around you. You can impress a girl by giving her this feeling without spending a massive amount of money.
On the flip side, going too fancy on a first date can make girls feel awkward. They often feel like that if a guy spends too much money, that there is a lot more pressure on them, and that the guy expects sex. That can cause a girl to approach the whole date questioning your motives and putting on a front rather than letting loose and having fun. Girls who are not relaxed and/or enjoying themselves with you will not feel that a date is going well, and they CERTAINLY won't have sex with you!
It's best to not go too fancy or too casual on the first date. Coffee is perfect if you haven't met or even really texted. Movies are bad because there's no room for conversation, which is what a first date is all about. A fancy dinner is trying WAY too hard. You want to aim above a hole in the wall/dive but below white tablecloth. You want an activity that is fun and relaxing, but still allows room for conversation to get to know someone. What makes a woman feel like a date went well is how much she gets to talk about herself. How much she feels willing to talk about herself is largely determined by how comfortable she feels sharing intimate thoughts, dreams, emotions, and experiences with you. For women, sharing their thoughts is how they express intimacy. The more she's comfortable with sharing, the more comfortable she is with you, and the easier it will be for her to feel attraction for you.
This post was edited on 3/21/19 at 12:05 pm
Posted on 3/21/19 at 12:02 pm to TLOTT
No one should ever go out with you. I hate you after reading that.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 12:14 pm to TLOTT
I can’t imagine the women aren’t knivking down your door.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 12:38 pm to TLOTT
You need lots of help, OP. I get your frustration with having to pay for dates with women who you may never see again. Stop trying to fight against it. That is simply the way of the world. Women get periods and carry babies. We have to pay for dates. All things in life aren't fair. Oh well, get tf over it.
There are ways to avoid making sure you spend too much money on a first date. Don't think you need to take a girl to a super fancy restaraunt to impress her. The only women that will impress are golddiggers, you dont want those.. Instead go for a drink, go for coffee, go for brunch, hell I've took a walk in the park/around the city as a first date before. If the woman is insistent on going to a restaraunt, go somewhere casual. Go to an average chain like Olive Garen or Chilis. If you can't afford $30 on a date you have no business trying to date in the first place.
Also, the first date is all about showing your sense of humor and how interesting you are to the woman. Show her what makes you a likeable and eventually a loveable person. Conversation is extremely important. Don't try to hard, but you do have to try and show that you care.
Through those messages, you didnt show that you were interested or cared at all. You wanted to prove a political point. Enjoy the non-sex
There are ways to avoid making sure you spend too much money on a first date. Don't think you need to take a girl to a super fancy restaraunt to impress her. The only women that will impress are golddiggers, you dont want those.. Instead go for a drink, go for coffee, go for brunch, hell I've took a walk in the park/around the city as a first date before. If the woman is insistent on going to a restaraunt, go somewhere casual. Go to an average chain like Olive Garen or Chilis. If you can't afford $30 on a date you have no business trying to date in the first place.
Also, the first date is all about showing your sense of humor and how interesting you are to the woman. Show her what makes you a likeable and eventually a loveable person. Conversation is extremely important. Don't try to hard, but you do have to try and show that you care.
Through those messages, you didnt show that you were interested or cared at all. You wanted to prove a political point. Enjoy the non-sex
Posted on 3/21/19 at 12:58 pm to QJenk
I sure hope the OP is a troll for his own sake. Dating sites are the easiest thing in the world. Put up a picture, write something genuine and wait for them to respond. Light conversation for a day or two. Then meet someplace where your personality can shine. Great first dates include puttputt golf, comedy club, zoo, dog parks and so on. Make her laugh and you are in.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:00 pm to BayouCatFan
Lol check out this virgin that brings girls to putt putt
Real dates have margaritas
Real dates have margaritas
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:10 pm to TLOTT
Why TF would you post this?
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:15 pm to TLOTT
You have lost your mind. Enjoy your celibacy!
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:23 pm to TLOTT
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You would've hated my response to her response then. I went into the history of men paying for the date and how it came out of necessity rather than chivalry. That basically men had to pay because women for the most part didn't work out of the house and that without men paying they wouldn't be able to go out. I feel like most people don't realize this.
What this wrong to say as well?
because meeting someone/first date is all about first impressions. Just by reading your shite, you sound petty, and like you have a 2x4 stuck up your arse.
How old are you anyway?
This post was edited on 3/21/19 at 1:24 pm
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:29 pm to TLOTT
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But women want equality so bad. They want to have the same income level as a man, with that income comes responsibility.
Jesus christ man, you really are a short bus riding window licker.
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I am giving women what they want, true equality.
No what you are doing is handing this woman's vagina to another less uptight dude on a silver platter.
Posted on 3/21/19 at 1:30 pm to G2160
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OP is a troll (see thread on money board)
Yep. This thread and the thread on the Money Board confirms that the OP is either trolling or one serious whacko. I'm voting on a combination of the two.
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