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Dating a woman with multiple divorces

Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:32 pm
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42775 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:32 pm
Let's discuss a hypothetical situation. You are single male in your mid-30s with a good job and stable lifestyle (aka nonalcoholic or drug addict). You see someone on a dating app who you went to college with. She is hot for an early 30 year old south Louisiana woman. She has a good job. You recall her being cool in college and only about a 3-4 on the crazy scale. Here is the catch she is younger than 35 and been divorced twice. The first marriage was to her high school sweetheart before she even finished college, and shockingly it did not make two years. The second marriage which resulted in 2 kids was to a guy in the military. She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much. There is no baby-momma and baby-daddy because he pays child support and is currently deployed overseas. Lets assume that she has a great pair of mom tits and a nice. Do you message her to begin the dating game, or do you just say "aww hell nah" and avoid the dating game all together? If you begin the game are going to do your best to stay in the game just long enough to PIIHB, or do you stay in the game after you PIIHB and actually start officially dating her? If you do not start officially dating her, why not? Did you cull her because of the giant red flag of multiple divorces? Did you cull her because there is a high likelihood that the military marriage ended due to Jody, etc?

Again this is a hypothetical situation for discussion purposes only. I already know what I would do in the situation. I would say nope and move on. I am culling her because she is likely a cheater and once a cheater, always a cheater, and cheating ho's can't be trusted. Also sorry baws no pics.
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 4:00 pm
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1477 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:34 pm to
I’d pipe and that’s it (with protection…)

If you have no baggage (divorce and or/kids), don’t get yourself involved with baggage baw
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18603 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:34 pm to
stay in the game just long enough to...
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 3:35 pm
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
25801 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:35 pm to
Run away. Rob some booty off her first.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
10166 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:35 pm to
Divorces and DWIs have a similarity. One is understandable sometimes but 2 are a red flag
Posted by cdur86
Member since Jan 2014
1370 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:35 pm to
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She blames the divorces on the military lifestyle being too much


If she's too stupid to realize that going into the marriage, she is too stupid to date
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2892 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:36 pm to
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The second marriage which resulted in 2 kids was to a guy in the military.



Dependa......hard pass.
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
6917 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:37 pm to
Any man with dignity would leave that alone, not because of the divorce, but because he should not be taking care of another man's kids.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42775 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

If you have no baggage (divorce and or/kids), don’t get yourself involved with baggage baw


In this hypothetical situation is that you have a job which requires at least 60 hours per week of work.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14430 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:38 pm to
2 kids and an ex-husband that might need to adjust back into civilian world, Ill pas.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42775 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:39 pm to
quote:

Any man with dignity would leave that alone, not because of the divorce, but because he should not be taking care of another man's kids.


What if that other man is currently deployed on a submarine doing something important to protect the security of the country?
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
30975 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:40 pm to
Can we see the stats of women that get married for the 3rd time and never get divorced?
Posted by LSUDAN1
Member since Oct 2010
10202 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:40 pm to
Shop lift and get out.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42775 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:42 pm to
quote:

Divorces and DWIs have a similarity.


Sounds like something that I would read on a lawyer's billboard in Lafayette.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
5734 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:43 pm to
I say do it. Sometimes these old relationships end up in a marriage.
Posted by Yeahright
On a big sphere out there.
Member since Sep 2018
2179 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:44 pm to
Bottom line is, if you think it's true love, you have to give it a shot. Be a good person and you might find the right one?
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19568 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:44 pm to
seems like the hypothetical single male in his mid-30's needs to decide what he wants first. does he want a family, kids, etc.? Or does he want to be an around the way dude for a woman with a couple kids?

if it's the first, then i'd leave this one alone and go find a career girl 28-37 who wants to have kids quickly. if it's the second, then go with it.
Posted by FootballFrenzy
Chief of the Grammar Police
Member since Oct 2023
6013 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:45 pm to
Well, God says that dating someone who is divorced for reasons other than infidelity is committing adultery, so...pass.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:45 pm to
Hypothetical or not, you gotta show some pics! You already said you found her on a dating app. There ARE pics!
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
5734 posts
Posted on 10/18/24 at 3:45 pm to
Maybe she learned from the other marriages maybe she is bat shite crazy.
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