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re: Couples in their 30s with kids who go out every weekend

Posted on 11/2/15 at 5:53 am to
Posted by TOKEN
Member since Feb 2014
11990 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 5:53 am to
Everything is about balance. We have a good parent network, grandparents, babysitters and usually take a couple days out during the month for ourselves. I won't apologize to anyone for spending time with my wife alone, no matter where and how we chose to spend our time.

There is a lot of self righteous losers in this thread that don't have the money sustain OT baller status with a kid. This is your problem. I have the Benz, House, Money and Woman of your dreams. They mad cuz they ain't us!
This post was edited on 11/2/15 at 5:57 am
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138858 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 5:58 am to
quote:

couple days out during the month


quote:

who go out every weekend


Then this thread is not about your situation

Posted by Tigerstudent08
Lakeview
Member since Apr 2007
5776 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 6:00 am to
quote:

I have the Benz, House, Money and Woman of your dreams.

So you're a 1%er that isn't paying his fair share? You're one of the biggest liberals on this board so I assumed you didn't take any deductions and donated some extra tax dollars to the gubment each year, no?
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16891 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 6:05 am to
I am not an ot baller :-(

But even if I was I wouldn't be dumping my kid off every weekend.

Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21259 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 6:11 am to
I only get my kids on the weekends fri-sat-sun when I'm off.

My GF's ex gets theirs every other weekend.

So when I'm off on Friday or Saturday only and it's the GF's free weekend we go out.

Then some weekends we have all 6 kids. Lol
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
24325 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 6:42 am to
I'm 38 and have a 5 month old. I still go out during the week and some weekends. I can do it because I'm not a pussy and because if you never slow down you never get old.
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 7:57 am to
quote:

Woman of your dreams


Your hand doesn't count


Posted by Luke
1113 Chartres Street, NOLA
Member since Nov 2004
14361 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 8:06 am to
We pay for sitters... the Brentwood/Franklin area is full of willing/able sorority girls
Posted by Gusoline
Jacksonville, NC
Member since Dec 2013
11164 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 8:14 am to
I don't even go out during the week and i have one 3 year old. The only thing i miss is my bowling league. If you need to go out to bars in your 30s, youre not ready for marriage or kids. Everyone I know over 30 who still goes out is either single, divorced, or will be eventually because they frick around.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27875 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 8:32 am to
Every weekend is excessive OP. But if you have no kids you don't know.

The relationship has to remain. If you just become "Mom and Dad" you start to lose yourselves. Got to take a weekend once in a while or a night just for you two. Otherwise you begin to resent the kid and each other. Which leads to guys and girls nights out.

You have to do things together without kid/kids or you stop becoming the couple you were. If that stops, one of you WILL frick around.

The every weekend people may have a network of friends and grandparents clamoring to baby sit.
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12809 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:29 am to
quote:

Screw the bar scene. Been there done that. If my kids are asleep, im asleep.


Ditto.

My wife and I might have a date night every once in awhile, but we haven't done a bar or late night party in a long time.

Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:03 am to
Kids are trashy.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:11 am to
frick I don't have kids and don't go out every weekend.

I can't go out two nights in a row, or two late nights. its too much for me.
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8335 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:57 pm to
quote:

frick I don't have kids and don't go out every weekend.


Are you married? Because when we didn't have kids we went out ALL the time. 3- 4 nights a week. After kid 1 came along the cost of babysitters alone in NYC was a deterrent. But then we also wanted to stay home and be with our child. It was all Netflix and Chill from then on.
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