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Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:09 pm to Ted2010
Sorry your family is trash.
Lets just say you might want to get some ancestry.com gifts for them so they know they might not be the race they think they are.
There's a lot of shite talk in this thread but at the end of the day class beats race every time.
Different race investment bankers in Manhattan will have more in common than a white physician and white trailer park resident.
So is your family poor?
Lets just say you might want to get some ancestry.com gifts for them so they know they might not be the race they think they are.
There's a lot of shite talk in this thread but at the end of the day class beats race every time.
Different race investment bankers in Manhattan will have more in common than a white physician and white trailer park resident.
So is your family poor?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:11 pm to Paluka
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went how you expected. Just remember bro, it’s you and her against anyone or anything outside of your relationship. Stay cool. You got this.
Thank you!
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:14 pm to Ted2010
Your parents are who they are......and they are yours.....always and forever
You knew this would happen. That is why you intentionally hid it from them. It may not have helped your cause to tell them earlier, but it surely wouldn't have hurt.
All you can do is keep trying. Maybe time and experience will show how well she treats their son and grandchildren.
You knew this would happen. That is why you intentionally hid it from them. It may not have helped your cause to tell them earlier, but it surely wouldn't have hurt.
All you can do is keep trying. Maybe time and experience will show how well she treats their son and grandchildren.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:14 pm to mahdragonz
Choosing a black mate will forever alienate you from your parents. You will not change that. Just understand the consequences of your decision and be able to live with it.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:15 pm to Ted2010
You sly dog you.
Now I really want pics.
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My S.O. is a black woman.
Now I really want pics.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:15 pm to OWLFAN86
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well now but neither is racism
and you're her son and your happiness should be more important to you than this crap
True. She's from an older generation and I guess set in those ways. She won't disown me. But I'm hopeful she will at least meet her and give her a chance. Maybe she will come around.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:17 pm to DCtiger1
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I bet she’s a big “Christian” isn’t she? frick racist people like that
No. My mom is actually a Wiccan priestess.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:18 pm to bencoleman
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really love her and you both can put up with each other you need to latch on to her.
I am. I'd be foolish to ever let her go. I want to spend my life with her.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:18 pm to Ted2010
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Hopefully the situation will change and we can do that
Your mom will come around. She's not really a racist she's just stunned right now.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:19 pm to Ted2010
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Ted2010
Let some time pass and then write her a letter.
Letting her know you are aware of her discomfort and that you hope one day she learns to love this sweet slice of brown sugar goodness just as much as you do.
THen tell her ,she and your dad taught the value of love and she deserves credit for not forcing her backward thinking on you, Most parents force their biases on their own kids and she was a good enough woman to teach you the best part of her value system and not the worst
This post was edited on 10/31/18 at 7:21 pm
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:19 pm to Ted2010
Put on your big boy pants....weigh all the potential positives and negatives, including the FUTURE an any offspring y'all may produce and the hardships they may encounter throughout their lives. You and your SO are the main thing but what you do/create can/will affect others that are or will be, close to you !
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:20 pm to Ted2010
Sounds like you got a mixed reaction!
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:24 pm to castorinho
quote:just like the next batch of grandkids
Sounds like you got a mixed reaction!
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:24 pm to Nawlens Gator
What if the consequences are her getting paranoid about aliens that your other baby momma is cool with and starts to axe quaestionable?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:24 pm to geauxbrown
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Dammit Ted, don't you have some shite to be starting on the SEC Rant?
Oh, I will brother. Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:26 pm to Ted2010
Heck, my mother got upset that I married "inter-religiously". (is that a word?)
The fact is that just some children just aren't going to measure up to what they envisioned their parents wanted them to have..
The fact is that just some children just aren't going to measure up to what they envisioned their parents wanted them to have..
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:28 pm to Rouge
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You are putting yourself in a position where you will have to pick one or the other
I'm really hoping my mom will come around. But, there is no way I'm going to let her influence me on this.
If she doesn't want my SO at her house for Thanksgiving then I won't be there either. There is no way I'd go there without my SO.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:29 pm to OweO
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Would she rather you be with a white crack whore or a good person who makes you happy, but is black?
I would hope she'd be happy that I've found this awesome who loves me and treats my kids damn good.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 7:31 pm to Rouge
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All you can do is keep trying. Maybe time and experience will show how well she treats their son and grandchildren.
That's my hope.
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