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re: Confession Time (Advice Welcomed) **Updated, pg 15**
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:36 pm to Marciano1
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:36 pm to Marciano1
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Just an FYI....an interracial relationship is going to be a never ending battle for you. It'll be worse once you have kids. Do what makes you happy but just know you're always going to get those looks from people, comments, etc. from both sides.
I guess if you live in the middle of Bumfrick, but it shouldn’t turn heads in any town that isn’t run by Southern Baptists.
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Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:38 pm to zatetic
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I would think about what your kid would prefer. Would a kid prefer being a mixed blood? Having parents that don't quite look like them. Can't relate fully to the problems your kid will have growing up. Probably not accepted by any historical heritage group since it will be a mutt. Some of them look really weird. Some look fine. This could be a lot more headache for a kid than necessary.
Then there is the illness problems from having unique blood. If you need an organ or some such it is a lot harder to get a genetic match since you have a limited genetics pool.
Don’t you have a cross burning to get to?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:38 pm to Ted2010
Live your own life
You parents will be dead soon anyway
You parents will be dead soon anyway
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:39 pm to Ted2010
Have your DNA checked. You might be surprised to find that you are also part black, maybe as high as 1/1024th black.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:39 pm to Ted2010
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they certainly think interracial relationships are very wrong. I've heard my whole life say mixing races is wrong.
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Alabama Fan
Checks out
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:40 pm to Ted2010
some retards will give your kids a hard time
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:40 pm to zatetic
Holy frick
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:52 pm to Ted2010
Do your parents have a pool in their backyard?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:53 pm to zatetic
I haven't followed this entire thread... but I just checked to see how this thread got to be 17 pages. I saw the two posts quoted below and have to say: disregard every single thing those two morons have to say. They haven't a clue what they are talking about.
I have two children from my first marriage, to a black woman. I have two children from my second marriage, who is Asian. Aside from some stares at a restaurant in Kenner, and a few more while passing through Mississippi -- I have never once met with any confrontation of any kind in over 25 years of interracial relationships. My kids are healthy, have full social lives, and are successful (as far as young adults can be expected). And for the moron asking, "think about what your kid would prefer" -- you are one dumb motherfricker... for real. Do you ever think about if your kid would prefer to be blond instead of brown haired? Do you think about if your kid would prefer to be brown eyed instead of blue eyes? Do you think about if your kid would prefer to have freckles or big feet? What a misery you must endure in your life to go day to day being so fricking dumb. When you have kids and raise them with love, they don't say, "well, I'd prefer if my mom, or dad, was someone else." Unless you're an a-hole, then, maybe your kid may say that... so maybe that dumb mother fricker is speaking from personal experience. Either way, disregard.
(yeah, you dumb-asses triggered me.)
I have two children from my first marriage, to a black woman. I have two children from my second marriage, who is Asian. Aside from some stares at a restaurant in Kenner, and a few more while passing through Mississippi -- I have never once met with any confrontation of any kind in over 25 years of interracial relationships. My kids are healthy, have full social lives, and are successful (as far as young adults can be expected). And for the moron asking, "think about what your kid would prefer" -- you are one dumb motherfricker... for real. Do you ever think about if your kid would prefer to be blond instead of brown haired? Do you think about if your kid would prefer to be brown eyed instead of blue eyes? Do you think about if your kid would prefer to have freckles or big feet? What a misery you must endure in your life to go day to day being so fricking dumb. When you have kids and raise them with love, they don't say, "well, I'd prefer if my mom, or dad, was someone else." Unless you're an a-hole, then, maybe your kid may say that... so maybe that dumb mother fricker is speaking from personal experience. Either way, disregard.
(yeah, you dumb-asses triggered me.)
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Just an FYI....an interracial relationship is going to be a never ending battle for you. It'll be worse once you have kids. Do what makes you happy but just know you're always going to get those looks from people, comments, etc. from both sides.
quote:
I would think about what your kid would prefer. Would a kid prefer being a mixed blood? Having parents that don't quite look like them. Can't relate fully to the problems your kid will have growing up. Probably not accepted by any historical heritage group since it will be a mutt. Some of them look really weird. Some look fine. This could be a lot more headache for a kid than necessary.
Then there is the illness problems from having unique blood. If you need an organ or some such it is a lot harder to get a genetic match since you have a limited genetics pool.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 2:56 pm to Ted2010
Didn’t realize this thread was 14 pages. What I quoted and said has probably been posted about 30+ times and answered.
Good luck with everything. Your parents will come around if they want to meet their grandchildren. If not, frick em.
Good luck with everything. Your parents will come around if they want to meet their grandchildren. If not, frick em.
This post was edited on 10/31/18 at 2:58 pm
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:06 pm to OMLandshark
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I guess if you live in the middle of Bumfrick, but it shouldn’t turn heads in any town that isn’t run by Southern Baptists.
This is America, baw. Interracial relationships will draw some negative attention anywhere, especially in the south. It has nothing to do with Catholics, Baptists, urban areas, rural areas or anything.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:07 pm to Ted2010
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We have been with each other for a while; it has gotten very serious with us.
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She's everything I want and we make each other happy.
So if all this is true, how hasn't she met your parents yet????
I don't believe you.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:08 pm to Ted2010
Facts:
GumpLife 101
Gump raised by raciss parents (surprised here anyone?)
Gets married
Has Kids
At least one (probably both) he & wife screw up the marriage, bail out on raising the kids in a nuclear family with a Divorce
Starts to date Black Chick
Gets serious with her, brings her home for sleep-overs
Neglected to inform gf of parents' racism.
NOW he's worried about the situation
Summation: We have a selfish moran who has always thought about himself first, before his wife, before his kids, before his parents and now before his gf.
My advice would be to "Grow up and man up."
Concentrate on doing the best job right now of raising your kids (try to make up for how you & their mother have already failed them) and then, once you've handled that, then worry about a gf.
Unfortunately, you've now just added another level of shite to their (your kids') burdens.
tl/dr: OP is a selfish, stupid shite who shouldn't have had kids.
GumpLife 101
Gump raised by raciss parents (surprised here anyone?)
Gets married
Has Kids
At least one (probably both) he & wife screw up the marriage, bail out on raising the kids in a nuclear family with a Divorce
Starts to date Black Chick
Gets serious with her, brings her home for sleep-overs
Neglected to inform gf of parents' racism.
NOW he's worried about the situation
Summation: We have a selfish moran who has always thought about himself first, before his wife, before his kids, before his parents and now before his gf.
My advice would be to "Grow up and man up."
Concentrate on doing the best job right now of raising your kids (try to make up for how you & their mother have already failed them) and then, once you've handled that, then worry about a gf.
Unfortunately, you've now just added another level of shite to their (your kids') burdens.
tl/dr: OP is a selfish, stupid shite who shouldn't have had kids.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:10 pm to CaptainBrannigan
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Trump voter problems.
Is this all liberals think about? Doesn't matter if it isn't true, just spout hatred I guess.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:11 pm to OMLandshark
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I guess if you live in the middle of Bumfrick, but it shouldn’t turn heads in any town that isn’t run by Southern Baptists.
I attend a Southern Baptist church, and we have lots of black people and mixed race people who attend. It's not an issue really. Why do you think it is?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:24 pm to Ted2010
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We have been with each other for a while
I’m going to go ahead and call bullshite. You mean to tell us that in the age of Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and twitter your parents or relatives have never even seen a picture posted of you and the woman you’ve been with for a while?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:27 pm to Floating Change Up
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I would think about what your kid would prefer. Would a kid prefer being a mixed blood? Having parents that don't quite look like them. Can't relate fully to the problems your kid will have growing up. Probably not accepted by any historical heritage group since it will be a mutt. Some of them look really weird. Some look fine. This could be a lot more headache for a kid than necessary.
My God we have some fricked up people on this board. Mixed blood? A mutt? Who the frick do these people think they are? We are talking about human beings here.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:28 pm to Ted2010
Yes. Whites or blacks won't claim them. That's just the way it is.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:44 pm to MBclass83
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Yes. Whites or blacks won't claim them. That's just the way it is.
What backwards arse place do you live where you think this applies?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 3:55 pm to MBclass83
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MBclass83
Whatever YOU are... I sure as hell don't claim you.
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