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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 6:32 am to LSU1NSEC
Posted on 6/16/14 at 6:32 am to LSU1NSEC
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boyfriend in jail
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lost her father and youngest daughter recently
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She's had surgery for a weird condition in her hip and had to take off work
Lost her home
Posted on 6/16/14 at 6:56 am to LSU1NSEC
A few questions:
1) How old is she?
2) Does she have any other kids?
3) How did her daughter die? How old and how long ago?
4) Was her jail bird bf the father?
5) Why is the bf in jail?
6) How did her dad die?
7) Where's her mother and other family members?
8) How/Why did she lose her house?
I think there's a lot she's not telling you. Drama queens/borderline personality disordered chicks are VERY manipulative.
1) How old is she?
2) Does she have any other kids?
3) How did her daughter die? How old and how long ago?
4) Was her jail bird bf the father?
5) Why is the bf in jail?
6) How did her dad die?
7) Where's her mother and other family members?
8) How/Why did she lose her house?
I think there's a lot she's not telling you. Drama queens/borderline personality disordered chicks are VERY manipulative.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 6:57 am to stout
almost sounds like you have feelings for her, but won't admit it.....if thats the case, try to make a move on her then you probably won't hear from her again. 

Posted on 6/16/14 at 6:59 am to bigrob385series
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thats the case, try to make a move on her then you probably won't hear from her again
Or he'll be accused of rape.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:01 am to LSU1NSEC
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I've been talking to her for years about bad decisions she's making with her boyfriend whose in jail right now. He's about to get out - dude is bad news.
You know there are drugs involved, right?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:06 am to Ace Midnight
Yep. Besides the marijuana plants, look for a meth lab in the barn.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:07 am to LSU1NSEC
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i've met her boyfriend and he thinks i'm the coolest motherfkr on the planet damn, it's complicated
This just has all the makings of a Lifetime movie.
It just looks like they're setting you up for something.
Be careful. Be VERY careful.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:27 am to MMauler
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It just looks like they're setting you up for something.
Yeah - I'm thinking they want a "new start" on this country property - just to crash there a little while after ole boy gets out of jail.
After all, she's "homeless" now.

Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:30 am to shutterspeed
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Prayers sent for when her bf, whom she's been casing your property for, gets out of the joint.
This is the best answer you are going to get. How long has he been in jail? They may even have some stuff hidden there. Or pilfering. Or whatever the hell knows. But, you can bet that something is up - what person in their right mind goes snooping?
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:31 am to Threeve
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I'd let her stay for a week or so, but tell her it is temporary.
Bad advice. If you let her stay then you will have to legally have her evicted which could take a months. Never let someone stay with you that you are not sure if they will leave. This chick is already hanging out illegally. If you gave her the keys, she will never leave.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:34 am to rebeloke
The place is being set up for squatters.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:38 am to Spaceman Spiff
Maybe stealing tools or something to pawn or metal to scrap 

Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:40 am to Ace Midnight
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Yeah - I'm thinking they want a "new start" on this country property - just to crash there a little while after ole boy gets out of jail.
Yep. He's coaching her from the inside. They both need a place to go and you're the mark
Posted on 6/16/14 at 7:44 am to Ace Midnight
This is a troll...No other way to see it.
This guy is single, has multiple properties, claims hetero, claims a hot young blonde is in some way attracted to him, claims she is without father, mom, bf, home, deceased child (girl to make it more sympathetic) etc...they have met several times, her in skin tight revealing outfits....and it just goes on and on.
OP, serious questions....
First off, what is YOUR age?
Are you gay? (if "no", are you sure?)
Where does she actually live? (largest sign of the troll is I saw no info on where this person who lost her home and child actually lives)
She has some sort of income (stripper, whore, drugs, Taco Bell) What is it?
Where is your female cousin that she was friends with?
Where is the woman in your life? Ask this mythical creature what you should do.
IF, and it is a long shot IF, you are telling the truth, no doubt that the girl needs help and doesn't know how to ask you...but
there is something wrong with you as well! There is A LOT you haven't told us..I have no doubt you did something like frick her and now you don't know how to detach her without getting sliced open by her bf, who is probably someone you told you would watch out for her...
I still think its a troll, if not....you are probably gay. And she is hiding bodies of Toms on your property.
This guy is single, has multiple properties, claims hetero, claims a hot young blonde is in some way attracted to him, claims she is without father, mom, bf, home, deceased child (girl to make it more sympathetic) etc...they have met several times, her in skin tight revealing outfits....and it just goes on and on.
OP, serious questions....
First off, what is YOUR age?
Are you gay? (if "no", are you sure?)
Where does she actually live? (largest sign of the troll is I saw no info on where this person who lost her home and child actually lives)
She has some sort of income (stripper, whore, drugs, Taco Bell) What is it?
Where is your female cousin that she was friends with?
Where is the woman in your life? Ask this mythical creature what you should do.
IF, and it is a long shot IF, you are telling the truth, no doubt that the girl needs help and doesn't know how to ask you...but
there is something wrong with you as well! There is A LOT you haven't told us..I have no doubt you did something like frick her and now you don't know how to detach her without getting sliced open by her bf, who is probably someone you told you would watch out for her...
I still think its a troll, if not....you are probably gay. And she is hiding bodies of Toms on your property.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:03 am to GeeOH
She's looking for a place to hide your body.
Better get your affairs in order.
Better get your affairs in order.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:03 am to LSU1NSEC
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always wears tight shorts and skimpy clothing around me

Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:14 am to Jimbeaux
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5) Why is the bf in jail?
this is what i wanna know.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:16 am to Displaced
Way too much drama to not be getting any from her.
I would put up a couple hidden cameras ASAP and find out what she is doing if any of this is true. Also get serial numbers on all of your stuff there because it will be gone shortly.
I would put up a couple hidden cameras ASAP and find out what she is doing if any of this is true. Also get serial numbers on all of your stuff there because it will be gone shortly.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:30 am to LSU1NSEC
Whatever you do, make sure things are done on your terms. As you've said she's a bad decision train wreck, doing things on her terms will not end up well for anyone. If she doesn't want to do things on your terms then she wasn't ready to accept help from you anyway. It may be sad if you have to turn her way, but you getting dragged down into her drama won't help her and it will hurt you.
Posted on 6/16/14 at 8:37 am to GeeOH
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This is a troll...No other way to see it.
wow, aren't you cynical
it's not a troll
answer your questions:
my age? none of your business
am I gay? no
where does she live? she had to move in with her mom
income? i have no idea
female cousin? lives in texas now
woman in my life? I'm happily single at the moment
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